Opening Remarks:
I don't know when, the term "passerby" became popular.
It seems that everyone who passes by us is a "passer-by" if he has no chance, and if he has a fate, he is "destined".
Life is long, a journey in the mountains, a journey in the water, a journey in the landscape and a journey for people.
The four seasons flow, and time never stops.
Streamers will always throw people away, how much the past, let you laugh over, how many passers-by, let you turn around, just like youth gives the years, thrown far away, can never be picked up again.
Thousands of gold longitudinal purchases are like endowments, to whom does the pulse complain about this situation? Life is really not all your encounters, there will be results, nor you meet your favorite person, he will understand you very well.
The past is like the wind, fate is like sand, always the tighter you hold, the more the sand will leak with the wind, the faster it will leak. Just like the people you want to stay around, escape away at a speed.
Red dust strange, how much love, when I first saw it, it was familiar, but the more I got along, the more tired I became, and finally I could only walk to the end of the world and wave goodbye.
Remember the student who "didn't know where the face went, and the peach blossoms were still smiling in the spring breeze"? Perhaps, they did not see each other again, it is the best ending for two people, if they really live a life, whether there will be such a romance, it is really unknown.
Affection is like flowing water, always in the ordinary trivialities, little by little flowing east, love and hate like flowers, will always be in the flow of the four seasons, withered into mud and dust.
In this life, the person who loves you, he may not necessarily understand you, but the person who understands you, he must love you.
Therefore, life is a guest, don't panic, people who understand you will always come.
Heart, leave it to those who understand you
Many people like to send circles of friends and desperately want the approval of others.
And the person who understands you, he doesn't need you to give him affirmation, but he has clearly understood all your thoughts. Those words you didn't say, those reasons behind the picture you sent out, those things you want to say and stop... He will look at them one by one and understand them in his heart.
I remember hearing a colleague say that he fell in love with a woman because of a sentence, "You do things, I am assured."
Whenever a girl encounters something and asks for help from him, she will give him such a sentence with satisfaction, so that he instantly feels that his image is tall, as if this sentence is better than a thousand words of love.
A thousand worlds, a vast sea of people.
There are thousands of people we can meet, but only this person will give you the deepest trust and the most beautiful dependence.
When you are with him, you don't need to think too much about discourse skills, you don't need to express vaguely, and you don't need to deliberately please, you just need to express your chest and be the most authentic yourself.
Heart, to such a person, the most down-to-earth, the warmest.
A person who understands you is better than anyone you meet.
Between people, there will always be an encounter, and then under the catalysis of a long time, with a heart for a heart, in order to have feelings. The germination of feelings needs to be "moved" again and again, so it will give birth to a touched heart, and only in gratitude will it be grateful, can not forget the love of that person, and want to accompany it for a lifetime.
And, among them, "impressed", a word to understand, is particularly important, because understanding your good, will be moved by you, but also because of understanding your good, will henceforth put you in your heart.
Therefore, if you have not yet met the person who understands you, don't panic, seriously touch the heart of the person around you, time will make him understand you more and love you more.
Companionship, meet people who understand you
It is said that companionship is the most affectionate confession.
However, how many people, from acquaintances, but in the end, walked into a name hidden in the address book. How many people, from the sea oath mountain alliance, to the end, have become a "passer-by" in the time.
Love, always because it is not cherished, goes to a strange road.
The person who understands you is the one who wants to accompany you with his heart. Because I understand what you think and think, I want to give you companionship, because I understand your clutch sorrow and joy, so I want to be inseparable from you.
In "Dream of the Red Chamber", everyone in the Grand View Garden said that Dai Yu had an extreme personality and sharp words, but only Bao Yu understood her goodness and her loneliness, and therefore wanted to cherish her well.
Many emotions in life, seemingly inadvertent, are actually deeply loved.
Fate is just an excuse.
True love, all because of courage, a lot of love, it seems to be unobtainable, so helpless. In fact, because you don't understand the needs of the other party, don't know what he thinks, and can't fit in with him, you can only use a helpless sentence to hide the sadness of loss.
Therefore, if you want to get love, you must first know how to give, if you want to win the heart of the other party, you must first understand the needs of the other party.
The matter of feelings, regardless of age, no matter distance, no matter the wind and moon, as long as you have a heart with the other party, understand him with your heart, you can get the warmth of each other's heartbeat.
Therefore, if you love, you love deeply, and if you forsake, you are complete.
The deepest feelings are each other in the wind and rain; the people who understand each other the most are always the people who send you warmth in the ice and snow. A lifetime is not so long, meet a person who is willing to pay for you, in fact, is a person who understands you.
You must know: in love, understand, is a person who meets you, this life wants to accompany you to the end.
Warmth, to return to those who understand you
In this life, the most beautiful love is to meet an understanding.
Su Dongpo once gave Chaoyun an inscription: It is not appropriate, only Chaoyun can recognize me, play ancient tunes alone, and think of my relatives whenever it rains.
Chao Yun was the one who understood his pain the most. When all the concubines around him dispersed, only Chaoyun accompanied him for twenty-three years, never abandoning him, always the same.
It can be seen that love is that you are deeply imprisoned, and I am willing to accompany you; even if you are in the mud, I will also reach out and pull you; even if you are buried by grief, I will also give you a backbone, let you stand up, no longer afraid, no longer sad.
Life is long, and the person who understands you is the one who gives you warmth.
He will not understand you in his own way, nor will he use his own thoughts to influence you, he just wants to bring you the warmth of love, so that under his protection, you can be as warm as ever, you can not be disturbed by the world, not be annihilated by the wind and sand.
Remember the story of the fisherman and the fisherman?
Before he passed away, the old man said to his wife: In my life, I like to eat fish heads the most, can you stop me from eating fish meat, let me eat fish heads once?
His wife heard the words, burst into tears, and said: "When I was young, my parents preferred sons to daughters, always gave fish meat to my brother to eat, and gave me fish heads to eat, I thought fish meat was the best in the world, in order to love you, I left you all the fish.
Both people are loving each other in their own way, mistakenly thinking that it is the best love for each other, but neither of them knows what the other person wants.
Love to the depths, if you do not understand each other, it is a regret.
Therefore, if there is something to say, don't hold it in your heart, if there is something, you must say it, don't wait for others to guess. People who understand you may be able to see through your character, but they may not be able to understand your soul all the time.
You know, only when the real warmth reaches the bottom of each other's hearts can it be truly understood.
Perhaps, in a long life, it is difficult for us to meet a person who understands you, and even if we do, few people will take the time to give time to someone who understands you.
Love takes time to accumulate, and understanding also takes time to precipitate love.
So, don't panic, don't be busy, remember:
The heart must be left to those who understand you, so that they can witness love; accompanying, to meet people who understand you, to be able to carry out love to the end; warmth, to return to those who understand you, in order to find true love in the cold of human feelings, in the vicissitudes of the world.
Life is a passer-by, but because you know each other, you are compassionate.
Author, Frank Fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!