The person who loves you may not understand you, but have you given him the opportunity to understand? Husbands and wives quarrel, men say women do not understand her, women say men do not understand her. They have entangled many rounds in this quarrel, and perhaps in the end there is no good result, they do not understand what they do not understand, and they feel very tired of understanding. They have never spoken well between them, never really listened to each other's heartbreaks, and always imposed their own thinking on each other, but the other party is always oppressed, and naturally there is a kind of resistance. Naturally, whether the other person is right or wrong, they all feel that it is wrong, so they think that the other party does not understand the white self, in fact, the understanding and not understanding in the feelings is not a person's business, but a matter for both sides of the feelings.
If you want the other person to understand you? You first have to give the other person the opportunity to read you, and if you want to understand the other person, you first have to learn to lower your posture to listen. Everyone wants someone to understand themselves, but not everyone can be so lucky to meet someone who understands themselves. After all, in this world, there are many times when we can't even understand ourselves thoroughly, let alone a person who only appears in your life? You want the other person to understand that you share your mind, you have to learn to share your story with him first, you want him to listen to the words of your heart, rather than blindly letting him guess. People's mood is ever-changing, who can always capture the mood of others? Some words and some things, only when they are made, can there be real answers. Whoever has to live it is not easy, everyone is constantly working hard and struggling for their own future.
There will always be a lot of hardships and pains along the way, but you don't feel that you have experienced so much, suffered so much, others must feel empathy with you, have to understand your mood, and have to appear whenever you need. Understanding is mutual. When you are able to perceive other lives carefully, others will be willing to take the time to understand and care about you. But you only think about your feelings. Never take other people's feelings as a thing, even if others understand more, you don't want to talk to you well. No one in the world is born to bear a little more than others, no one has superpowers, everyone is the same, and when it hurts, they can't help but cry. When you are sad, you will feel very depressed inside.
If you are always waiting for the other party to understand your position, no matter how long you wait, you will not wait for the result that makes you feel satisfied. Because he may also be waiting for you to read and understand, and then begin to understand that some of your waiting is doomed to be fruitless, and the wasted time has failed to live up to a good relationship. The road of two people can only be led to happiness and a beautiful future that belongs to two people. Some things need to give each other a little more time, and they can't be rushed. If you don't know him well, it's because there's something wrong with the way you communicate, and trying to get along in a different way may be an unexpected gain. It is not easy to know each other in a vast sea of people. I hope you will remember that understanding in the relationship is not a thing, don't just rely on how much warmth the other party gives you, you also have to give the other party a little more love and care.