Text/Flying Fish
01
The fish were tired, and there was the hug of the water.
The birds were tired, and there was shelter from the big trees.
When you are tired, bitter, and sour, who hurts you, and who understands you?
In fact, in life, many people are strong in front of people, but behind them only themselves hiding in the corner crying, when a person, is the real self, in front of others is disguised, do not dare to let others see how fragile they are, do not dare to let others look down on themselves, so, even if it is difficult and bitter, in front of others can not lose self-esteem, how to hold on.
And after returning home, you can take off the mask, let go of the disguise in your heart, and be the person who can cry even after watching TV dramas, and even listen to the radio, you can cover the quilt and cry silently.
02
How many smiles are hung on people's faces, in fact, they are all to cover up their own pain, and then they are aggrieved, no matter how bitter their hearts are, they must also force a smile, carry themselves when things happen, no one helps, but always tell themselves: I can.
In fact, such a you, really very painful. In particular, a person struggles outside, lives alone, has no background, no dependence, and sometimes is so humble that he does not even have the opportunity to resist and say no.
Do you live a bitter life like this? Tired of living? Do you live a sad life?
I thought, yes.
Others always think that you are an optimistic person, because you are smiling in front of them every day, others will ask you for help in anything, and you will not refuse a word.
Sometimes you feel like you're a "post-it note girl", where you need to post it, but who knows the pain in your heart?
03
You also want to be valued, to be noticed, to be truly recognized by others. Because you are not afraid of suffering, nor are you afraid of doing more, but you hope that there will be progress and that people will really appreciate it.
Many times, others just take your convenience, but do not really think of you, you go to pander, to please, to pay, will only make others take it for granted, and the heart will not really appreciate you.
You have paid so much yourself, you are eager to get a response, and then you have not, you come to the company very early every day, work very hard, and the efficiency is high, you leave work on time every day, think that this is a kind of kindness to yourself, but do not think of being agreed by others that you are the least concerned about the company, so when the company feels difficult, do not hesitate to put you in the layoff list.
So you feel depressed in your heart, why in a group of people, every time they are done first, but they have become the one who was laid off, and when they leave, no one will sympathize with you, no one will send you away, and all the heartache and pain in your heart are only clear.
04
This reminds me of Hu Jingjing in "I'm Fine in Other Places", she is strong and optimistic on the surface, but she hides a lot of grievances and a lot of heartache in her heart.
Friends called for appointments on time, and offered to help with anything, but no one noticed her emotional changes, and no one noticed that she was unemployed.
She gives people the feeling that she is too optimistic, everyone thinks that she is a little sun, so it is customary to think that people like her will not have troubles, and if there are troubles, they will be quickly left behind.
But in fact, when she was fired by the company on her birthday, her new clothes were soiled, and after she lost her job, she was called by a friend to help, and the friend still did not realize that she had something in mind.
In fact, a person is too good at disguising himself, it is not a good thing, when you really feel very bitter, very tired, very want to be accompanied by others, very much hope to get help from others, you also have to try to say it, I believe that your good friends will not leave you because of this, but like you to give you warmth.
Perhaps, the tiredness in the heart, the bitterness in the heart, no one can understand. You must also love yourself well, treat yourself well, no matter how difficult it is, don't think about it, once life is over, it will never be able to be recovered.
05
No matter how bitter, how tired, how difficult, we must take our own life path and live our own life.
Even if no one loves you, you have to love yourself well, you have to believe that there are actually many people who suffer, and you are not the only one who is tired.
Everyone is the same, wronged to swallow themselves, hurt their own peace, as long as the people they love can be happy, the people they care about can be happy, then they endure a little more, in fact, it is worth it.
There is never an easy word in the adult world.
How much sweetness there is, how much bitterness there will be. How strong there is, there will be as much vulnerability.
In fact, we are not afraid of being alone, when the night is quiet, we can still let ourselves fall asleep, we can only be afraid that no one understands, the pain and tiredness in the heart, no one can share, so we long for this life, can have one person know you cold and warm, understand your sorrows and joys, this life is enough.
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