Ni Ping, who has experienced 5 men, said frankly: If there is an afterlife, I don't want either my father or my children

She is the "national goddess" of the 90s, the leading actress of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, and the best actress of the Golden Rooster Awards.

The name Ni Ping carries the youth memories of too many people.

But behind the glamorous and glamorous, there is a bumpy emotional road, and she has experienced 5 relationships with 5 men.

After going through the vicissitudes of life, she actually sighed like this: If there is an afterlife, neither father nor child.

She was also a goddess when she was young

Her name was placed in the 90s, and she was a household name like the current little fresh meat.

Although it is not a traffic star, the national degree is particularly strong, and it is not an exaggeration to say that it is a "national goddess".

On the stage, the dignified and atmospheric hosting style is kind and natural.

Hosted the Spring Festival Gala for thirteen consecutive years, this is not something that anyone can do, and the people of the whole country are watching.

She has become the white moonlight in the hearts of the big guys with her real skills,

But who knows that the story behind this glamorous host on the stage can only be described as bumpy.

Her artistic path began at Shandong Art Institute, when she was young and beautiful, and in today's words, she is "full of vitality".

When he was 21 years old, he starred in his debut movie "Mountain Chrysanthemum", in which he played a heroine Peach, and directly won the Little Hundred Flowers Award.

Two years later, he was rated as a national second-class actor, and he has achieved fame at a young age.

She was thriving in her hometown in Shandong, and she was recognized by CCTV director Liu Ruiqin, and she was transferred to CCTV immediately.

This time, she jumped directly from the small host of the local station to the big stage of CCTV, and since then she has started her glittering career.

went all the way to CCTV, and in 1990 began to host "Variety Show", and people across the country watched it on TV every Saturday night.

Her amiable hosting style immediately captured the hearts of the audience.

What's even more powerful is that she does not have any professional background as a broadcaster, relying on an accurate grasp of the audience's psychology and sincere emotional expression.

In addition to hosting her, she is also quite powerful in film and television, "Beautiful Feet" made her win the Golden Rooster Award, and "Romantic Things" won her the Huabiao Award.

"Snowflakes That Float" has received rave reviews, and these awards are a real recognition of her acting skills.

Now many netizens say that she is definitely the actress who was delayed by the host, if she concentrates on acting, she can't win the award?

Look at her early works, the acting skills are natural and smooth, and the joys, sorrows and sorrows of the little people are vividly interpreted.

This is not something that can be compared to some small fresh meat who can only stare and pout.

Five unforgettable emotions

The career is smooth, but the love life is indescribable, full of love and hate, and people shake their heads.

Her first marriage took place in her hometown of Shandong, the other party was her college classmate, and the two fell in love at first sight and soon got married and had a daughter, a standard campus love story.

But this marriage didn't last long, and as the focus of her work shifted to Beijing,

The couple got together less and separated more, and the relationship gradually faded, and finally they could only end up divorced.

Later, she fell in love with Guo Da, a frequent guest of the Spring Festival Gala, both of them are in the literary and artistic circles, and they appreciate each other at work, and they look at each other when they come and go.

This talented woman looks like a good match, but she was opposed by her parents, and in the end, it was gone.

In 1991, she met the great director Chen Kaige again.

To say that these two people are also in love vigorously, at that time the other party was filming "Farewell My Concubine", it was the time when the spring breeze was proud,

The two quickly fell in love, even to the point of talking about marriage.

She is really good to the man, and when Chen's father died in 1996, she was busy with the aftermath of Chen's father as a prospective daughter-in-law, which can be said to be her best.

didn't expect this relationship to end with the other party's empathy.

In her autobiography "Days", she used "no dignity" to describe this relationship, which shows how deeply this experience hurt her.

She got married to photographer Wang Wenlan, and their son Huzi was born in 1999.

thought that she could finally live a peaceful and happy life, but fate gave her another heavy blow.

When my son was 11 months old, he was diagnosed with congenital cataracts.

In order to treat her son's illness, she did almost everything she could, and even gave up her thriving career at that time, and frequently traveled back and forth between China and the United States to seek medical treatment.

In the end, this marriage also came to an end in 2005 because of great pressure and various differences.

In the darkest moment of her life, director Yang Yaya appeared.

He gave this hard-working woman great support and encouragement, illuminated her dark world, and accompanied her through those difficult years.

The two finally came together, and this marriage also became a ray of comfort in Ni Ping's emotional journey.

Since I got married in 2005, I have lived a peaceful and happy life, and meeting the right person at the right time is the real happiness.

A woman's heartache

finally got the happiness of marriage, but she still doesn't seem to be very satisfied with her life.

In 2014, she said such a sentence on the show, she said that if there is a next life, she will neither want a father nor a child.

Some people think that she is irresponsible, which is a big rebellion, and some people think that she is too difficult and ill-fated, and they really feel sorry for her.

It's really not easy to live in this life, I lacked father's love when I was a child, and I experienced emotional betrayal and hurt in my youth.

In middle age, he worked hard for his son's illness, which can be said to be physically and mentally exhausted.

The words she said, although they sounded quite decisive, there was a bitterness and helplessness behind it that a woman couldn't say.

It's not that she really doesn't want family affection, but she is overwhelmed by life and longs for relief, longs for a peaceful life,

Who doesn't want to live an easy and happy life, but life is not so easy.

In fact, she also wrote a lot of things about her childhood in the book "Days".

Her parents divorced when she was very young, and she lived with her mother and rarely saw her father.

This lack of father's love must have had an impact on her, and the next few relationships also stumbled and broke her heart.

Especially the section with Chen Kaige, I paid so much, but in the end it was empty, who can stand it?

Now she rarely appears in the public eye compared to when she was younger,

She paints, writes, spends time with her family, and occasionally participates in variety shows.

But it can be seen that she is no longer the glamorous "national goddess" on the stage back then.

She has more wrinkles on her face, and even if she tries to lose weight, she is not as slim as before, but she still loves life.

epilogue

From a Shandong girl to a CCTV sister, from an actor to a writer and a painter, her life is full of legends.

Each of the five relationships was vigorous, and all but the last one ended in regret,

As a mother, she can give everything for her son, and even give up her career.

Although the sentence in the show sounded ruthless, it exhausted her inner exhaustion and helplessness,

It's not that she doesn't really want family affection, but she longs to be free from this endless giving and pain.