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People live a lifetime, who is not busy.
If you look at life, you will find that everyone strives to live in this world, but very few people really live purely for themselves.
There are too many people to worry about, parents, families, children, pillow people, friends... Everyone lives in this world, basically living in the environment, living in the world, living in contact with outsiders.
The people of the world are panicked, but they are only greedy for a few pieces of broken silver, but it is precisely this broken silver that can solve all kinds of panic in the world.
When you are really idle, you may wake up to the fact that in the years of continuous chasing, you have actually aged like this. In the fixed sense, we always think of ten years, twenty years, thirty years... It is a very long span, but only when you look back at the years, you will feel that time is rushing like flowing water, year after year, but every year is not last year.
Flowers have a reopening day, and no one is any more young. It is not until retirement that some free time may be drawn.
I hope you can remember that after retirement, remember to have more contact with 3 kinds of people, so as not to be desolate in the evening.
01. Children
Parents and children will always be the purest and most tenacious feelings in the world, and the thing of blood is sometimes inexplicable, but that natural sense of closeness is always incomparable to other things.
After retirement, people will definitely be idle, after all, the work that originally occupied a large part of life was stopped, and there was a lot of extra time, at this time, as a parent, you can actually take the initiative to see more of your children. At this time, the children are the age of struggle, repeating the parents' previous struggles and hardships, and there is not much time to come home.
The status quo at this time is that parents are getting old and children are growing up. Of course, the growth here refers more to the psychological, because the responsibilities that children need to take on are increasing.
Therefore, at this time, parents and children are actually going against each other.
At this time, parents always miss their children more eagerly than children miss their parents, just as the arrow of love always goes down. In fact, you don't have to wait for your child to come back, if you miss it, as long as you have time, you can also visit more.
People's regrets in this life, parental affection is definitely counted as a kind, can make this regret as little as possible, in fact, who takes the initiative to accompany anyone is not important.
02. Brothers and sisters
I see that many people say that when people reach a certain age, they should not associate with their brothers and sisters, and I do not agree with this view, I think that the more this time comes, the more they must contact their brothers and sisters.
Brothers and sisters, should be everyone living in this world, in addition to parents, the closest people, parents carry the way you came, and brothers and sisters can basically be said to be witnesses for a lifetime.
As the old saying goes, between brothers, broken bones are still connected to tendons. People get along with each other, including brothers and sisters, and it is impossible to be absolutely free of contradictions in this life, and children and parents will quarrel with each other, let alone other relationships.
In the same way, if there is some discord between brothers and sisters when they are young, it is actually a very normal thing, young, who does not have their own temper, sometimes it is just a mistake. People are not perfect, even between brothers and sisters, the other party has something that you don't like, it is also very normal.
In fact, if you think about it, sometimes it's not a big deal at all. People, at a certain age, the things that should be put down must be put down, the mentality is better, the wider, the rest of the life can naturally get more happiness and happiness.
After retirement, we must remember to move around with our brothers and sisters, people eat grains and grow up, they also have seven passions and six desires, very few people can really avoid the world's affection, walk around a lot, the other party is naturally in the heart. Everyone comes from a mother's womb, when you were a child, you were also the purest relatives in the world, and the days when you were with each other as a child, the days when you can't come back, are definitely one of the most precious treasures for you personally.
In real life, I have seen many examples.
Reconciliation between brothers and sisters is actually incredibly simple, and sometimes it goes down a step. A friend of my mother's, when she was young, did not have a very good relationship with her sister, and the two of them were a bit of a comparison with each other, and now that they are older, the relationship is slowly repairing.
The reason was that one day her sister came here to play, just stood in front of her house, she moved a stool for her sister, and the next day her sister continued to come, sat down, and helped for a while, and then the two people came more frequently.
Therefore, if it is not really impossible to communicate with each other, do not speculate more than half a sentence if they are real, brothers and sisters still do not break the contact, and many family feelings at key moments are still reliable. Not all family affection is full of negative energy.
03. Friends when you were young
After retirement, friends when you are young should also move around more at this time, because these friends have accompanied you through some years, and in the following years, they are an incomparably important part in breaking loneliness.
When you are idle and do not have to work, how to spend this time reasonably, instead of staying at home, the role of friends is revealed at this time.
In this world, there are not many people who can really be alone all the time. We need to be alone and talk to our souls, but we also need to socialize and connect with more hilarity.
If you think about it, when you go out alone, you are always in a hurry, your eyes are not squinting, and the scenery may be missed by you. But if you have a friend around, the two people will always stop and go, talk and laugh, and the mood will be much happier.
After my mother retired, she liked to catch the morning market, every time she went alone, she came back in less than half an hour, and was extremely targeted, when she decided what to buy, she would go, buy it and return, never delay. Mainly the same road, every day sells the same things, a person really has nothing to do.
However, every time a friend asked her to go out with her, she had to come back for at least two hours, and after the visit, she walked back while chatting, stopping and resting along the way. So, if she had friends to go with her, half an hour away, she would often go out in the morning and come back breathlessly at noon with her dishes.
The older people are, the more afraid they are of loneliness, and when they are still healthy, they can still move, so naturally they have to have more contact with friends. In life, good friends will always exist steaming in life, and they must provide you with energy to some extent, which you must understand.
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