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Like you, but don't necessarily be together.

If you have seen a flower bloom, why should you care who the flower belongs to?

"I love you, but I don't like you anymore."

This sentence is the line that the heroine said to the male protagonist in the movie "One Day".

The first time I heard this sentence, I didn't quite understand it.

Since you love, why don't you like it? Isn't that contradictory?

Until one day, I saw someone explain it like this:

"You're still beautiful enough to make me feel good, but I don't have the courage or strength to hug you anymore."

You still occupy a very important place in my heart, but I am no longer as eager to get and have you as I was.

I no longer expect anything from you, no longer have any illusions.

Maybe sometimes I miss you irrepressibly, but it's just a momentary thought, and I won't ask you about it again.

It's true that I like you, but I don't have to be with you.

I don't know if you have this experience, that is, as you grow older, your views on many people and things have slowly become peaceful and calm.

Whatever is in the heart, if you can have it, you can have it, and you can't have it and you won't force it.

Unlike when I was a child, if I wanted to eat sugar, I would cry and attract the attention of adults, and I had to get a candy.

When I grow up, this persistence and tenacity that is not something, that someone cannot do, has unconsciously faded.

In the face of love, even if you like it again, if the other party does not feel it, you do not want to get closer, but want to stay away.

Even if you take ninety-nine steps, if the intention you give is not answered, even if you are full of reluctance, you must turn around proudly and return to the same place.

After all, this world is grand and splendid, in addition to the person's liking, there are years and galaxies to rush to, and there are human fireworks worth delivering.

I mean, love is no longer the whole of life.

Muzi made a big decision yesterday.

She decided not to chase the boy she had liked for a long time.

I didn't quite believe it because I had seen firsthand how hard and aggressive she had been in order to chase this boy.

The boy has a cat at home, and after Muzi knows, the next day, he will find some cat photos and topics from the Internet, and then take the initiative to chat with people.

The boy posted a group of photos playing from the circle of friends, and Muzi immediately got dressed and went out and went straight to the basketball court after seeing it.

Learning from a mutual friend that the boy could not cook, Muzi rushed down to the kitchen with interest, made a large table of delicious food, and packed it for him to take with him.

Although the two confessions were rejected, she still did not give up.

She said: "Believe it or not, in short, I just feel that no matter how good other people are except him, I don't feel it or like it." ”

She also said that if she couldn't catch up with others, she might have to die alone in her life.

None of us believed her at the time, and laughing at her was just impulsive.

I didn't think that she really insisted on it for three years.

In the past three years, the boy has changed four or five girlfriends around him, but he has never set his sights on Muzi.

But Muzi was still not discouraged, and she stood behind him, looking forward to the day when sooner or later, her perseverance and dedication could be seen.

When I was young, I felt that life would always be prosperous.

To meet love, to meet to understand, is inevitable.

When I grew up, I found that love and miss are not easy to blurt out at will, let alone think at will.

After all, the fate of the world is only a big dream.

When he understood this truth, the boy officially announced a new relationship, and Muzi finally woke up and decided not to wait any longer.

I smiled and asked her, "If you like it so much, why did you suddenly give up?" ”

She shook her head and replied, "What's the use of a person's liking and persistence?" Unselected and unwavering love is like a scattered sand, two steps away. ”

"Besides, I don't wait for him, not that I don't like him anymore. It's no secret that I still like him now, but I don't expect to have results with him anymore. ”

Yeah, like this thing, barely come.

Only by running in both directions can it be meaningful and worth paying.

A person's like, at best, is only a crush, not a love.

There are few people in love who have the same way, and people who have different paths at the beginning, no matter how they go, can't go together in the end.

People who like it don't like themselves, which sounds a bit sad. However, not all encounters have to have a happy ending to be perfect.

As this passage says:

"It's good to see a flower bloom, so why care who the flower belongs to."

You remember the flowers, and the flowers don't wither.

You remember him and he won't disappear. ”

In the vast sea of people, it is a great fate to have the honor of meeting.

The train always has to go to a wider distance, if the next road can not be shared, then I wish we can all encounter our own beauty.

Life is vast, the landscape is a journey, thank you for the encounter.

- END -

Author: Jiang Classmate & Xin He, 97 years of sagittarius female, love to eat hot pot, I have wine, waiting for you to come to me nagging. Public number: Jiang classmate with a story (ID: meiya54264), please contact the background for reprinting.

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