01
In the last scene of the movie, He Fei cried the moment he saw the color photos of the fetus.
He didn't cry when he killed his wife, didn't cry when the truth was revealed, and even when Chen Man asked him if he regretted it, he was still arrogant, but when he saw the color photos of the fetus, he cried.
At first, everyone was deceived by his tears, thinking that he was crying for his unborn child, and if he knew that his wife was pregnant, he would not have made such a choice.
But then I understood that where did he cry for the child, even his wife, who had lived for a year, when he gave her up, he didn't even look at her, how could an unborn child cry?
He just cried for himself, shed tears for his wrong choice, if he had known earlier that his wife was pregnant, he might have abandoned that plan, and instead used the love of his children and his wife, playing a good husband and father outside, blackmailing his wife at home to help him pay off his gambling debts.
Seeing this, why do you really regret it? A gambler has no heart, his eyes are full of greed, half is not enough, he must get all to be willing.
Understanding He Fei's tears, I only think that Li Muzi is not worth it, such a beautiful girl, just because she loves the wrong person, she wasted her life like this.
02
In fact, why is Li Muzi not a gambler?
She is different from He Fei, He Fei is betting on money, she is betting on feelings, betting on people's hearts, and feelings and people's hearts are things that cannot be controlled, and once they bet wrong, they lose everything.
Li Muzi is not a love brain, she is kind and simple, and has a yearning for a better life, including love, how can such a girl stop He Fei's heavy calculation?
If she was just in love, she would not have thought of divorcing He Fei, but forgave again and again, and helped him pay off his gambling debts again and again, until she was finally deceived by He Fei and did not wake up.
In fact, Li Muzi has a clear mind, she can forgive He Fei once, but she will not forgive without a bottom line all the time, which is why she wrote the divorce agreement.
It's just that people are not as good as heavenly calculations, and then they know that they are pregnant, so they think of giving He Fei another chance, if the child can really change him, then he can also start again.
Unfortunately, the life she wants can only be a fantasy, why not a gambler without a conscience, who will only lie and deceive her, where there is half a heart, how can she give up her plan for an unborn child?
The most sad thing is that even at the last moment, Li Muzi did not hate He Fei in her heart, she just regretted that she did not have the ability to change him, nor did she have the ability to protect the child.
He Fei is so hateful, obviously there is a good life waiting for him, but he chose a road of no return, so that neither he nor Li Muzi had room to turn around.
03
Many young girls, after watching this movie, began to fear marriage and childbirth, in fact, it is not necessary, after all, extreme people are still a minority, but from this story, you can give yourself some wake-up call and choose your love partner carefully.
First: Choose someone who can match you
In the past, I thought that the door-to-door was prejudiced, since they love each other, why should they care so much, then how can it be called true love?
Now I found out that the door-to-door pair is absolutely reasonable, not that who dislikes whom, but that the two of you do not match, which will lead to various subsequent contradictions.
Just like Li Muzi and He Fei, Li Muzi thought that falling in love could solve all problems, as long as he was really good to himself, but he didn't think so in He Fei's heart.
Even if he is not a gambler, his heart will not be so calm, because the two people have not matched from the beginning, and how can He Fei's personality always be under Li Muzi?
Second: Stay away from pornography, gambling and drug men
Many women have a "Virgin" complex, think they are different, think they can change each other, but the truth is that in addition to not being able to change him, you will also put yourself in it.
You forgive again and again, give him a chance, will only make him worse, in the eyes of gamblers, only wins and losses at the table, as for the family, he does not pay attention at all, even if he knows that he is wrong, he will choose to be wrong, and will not change easily.
So you must understand that it is difficult to change a person who is contaminated with vices, put away your "Virgin Heart" and do not try to change him!
04
There is a saying: "Love is a practice, some people understand it, some people have an epiphany, some people are stupid..."
If you meet an inappropriate person, don't be stupid, but go through and have an epiphany, so that you can not be trapped by love and not become the "love brain" in the eyes of others.
When you find that this person is not your ideal lover, then leave him ruthlessly, and stop the loss in time is the best choice, but don't wait until you are hurt before turning around, then it's too late.
Some people, who are not worth your life to love, regard him as a practice, understand it, have an epiphany, and let go!