When two people really love each other, one of them must be really paying to the other party, maybe doing something they have never done before, and each person's sincerity and feelings are worthy of our serious treatment, so once you have done something out of the ordinary, you must choose to confess to the other party, rather than cheating. A person is still looking forward to imagining the future of two people, but in the middle of the way, he found that there was a third person, and he had been kept in the dark, and such a hurt blow was naturally unbearable and could not be digested in time.
If you do the wrong thing, the harm caused to others naturally cannot be repaired, and the only way to reduce the harm is to take the initiative to confess and stop using lies to hide it. No one can accept the fact of being deceived, because the sincerity of their own efforts has not been valued by the other party, and everything is illusory.
1.
Play games
Now there are many ways for young people to know, most people are known on the Internet, the game is also a dating software to know, Jiang Yunyun and Li Muzi are known when playing games, Jiang Yunyun will only play games when he is not particularly bored and have nothing to do, one day in the bedroom, only Jiang Yunyun alone, roommates are out on a date.
Jiang Yunyun opened his own game software that he had not opened for a long time, at the beginning Jiang Yunyun played a game alone, found that there was no teammate to play with himself, it was indeed boring, but she also knew that her technology was very good, did not want to drag others, nor did she want to be scolded by others, Jiang Yunyun went to play the double-row mode, that is, only two people played the mode, Jiang Yunyun found people near the game, looked at the avatar, felt who was handsome, and pulled a person casually.
In fact, when playing the game, Jiang Yunyun did not particularly like to open the voice, but the teammate he pulled over, especially liked to open the voice to speak, the teammate let Jiang Yunyun also open the voice even mai, Jiang Yunyun finally opened the voice: "I first explain to you Oh, I play the game very dish, if you lose, don't blame me!" ”
"It's all right, I'll take you to lie down and win, my technique is good!" No teammates I can't take! ”
"But I belong to the kind of person who can't move even with the best technology, and in a moment you should know what it is to be a teammate who can't move!"
"Then if you say that, it will arouse my desire to challenge, and I want to see how good you are!"
After playing three games in a row, the teammates did experience what is called a pig-like teammate, Jiang Yunyun really can't move, Jiang Yunyun's heart still has a little guilt: "You see, I just said I can't move, so I don't dare to pit others, I'm really sorry, I delayed you for so long, you still go to play with others!" ”
"This must be because online communication is not good, so if you are free one day, let's communicate offline, teach you by hand, you will definitely let you experience what is called the feeling of winning!" 」
"Offline, where are you now?" The two of us won't be far apart. ”
"I'm at Jincheng University, the two of us should be very close, anyway, we are in Chengdu, take a subway to get there!"
"Are you from Jincheng University?" Really fake? You're not going to lie to me. ”
"What's there to fool you about, if you have time to come to Jincheng University one day, go to the finance major and casually ask my name they all know!"
Later, the two of them added contact information, but Jiang Yunyun did not tell her teammates truthfully, she is also Jincheng University, after all, this virtual event on the Internet still does not have much credibility, do not completely expose their true information. However, it is particularly coincidental that Jiang Yunyun also studied finance, and she knew that the name of her teammate was Li Muzi, but she had not heard of this name, which may be a senior or a student who is one year older than herself.
2.
Meet offline
"Come quietly, I have something to ask you!"
"What's the matter?" Cloud. ”
"There is a man named Li Muzi in the finance major of our school, do you know him?"
"Li Muzi, you don't know Li Muzi?"
"Is he famous?"
"No, some time ago, Yuan Yuxuan said in our bedroom every day that she saw a basketball player in the playground, how handsome the man was, Yuan Yuxuan also ran to inquire about it, only to learn that he was originally called Li Muzi, which was our professional, but then Yuan Yuxuan went to chase another boy on the basketball team for three minutes."
It turns out that there is really this person, it seems that Li Muzi should not have lied to himself, but Jiang Yunyun is not sure whether the Li Muzi that Zhang Jing said is the Li Muzi on the Internet, Jiang Yunyun suddenly remembered that he saw a photo of their basketball team in Li Muzi's circle of friends, and Jiang Yunyun turned it out to Zhang Jing to identify: "Which one is it?" ”
"Hmmm, this one next to the middle!"
"It's really handsome ha!"
"What's going on? Fancy him? ”
"It was when I was playing the game yesterday that I met a guy who said he was a finance major at our school, also called Li Muzi, so I wanted to know if he had lied to me!"
"So, you two are quite close!"
What I didn't expect was that the next day Li Muzi actually took the initiative to send a message to Jiang Yunyun, asking him if he was free, the two people came out to play games in the café, Jiang Yunyun took the initiative to tell him that he was also from Jincheng University, and he could find a place to play games in the school, and the school also opened a shop dedicated to playing games.
When the two people met, Jiang Yunyun saw that Li Muzi's appearance was indeed exactly the same as in the photo, Li Muzi said the truth to himself, Li Muzi saw Jiang Yunyun and said: "Why didn't you tell me earlier that you are also from this school?" ”
"This is not on the Internet, or don't give your true information in its entirety, and you must not tell others all your true information on the Internet."
"Also!"
3.
child
Jiang Yunyun and Li Muzi two people because of the game, in real life, the two people have also become a couple, friends know that Jiang Yunyun and Li Muzi are together, but also envy and envy hate, Li Muzi is a big handsome guy on the basketball team.
The two of them not only got together, but also entered the palace of marriage, Jiang Yunyun also invited his roommate to attend his wedding, the roommates all sent blessings, Yuan Yuxuan also joked that he did not expect that the man he did not catch up with is now married to his friend.
Jiang Yunyun and Li Muzi only got married in October, and they were happy to have a noble son, for Jiang Yunyun to have a child so quickly, in fact, Li Muzi's heart is a little suspicious, after all, he and he did not have any sexual behavior before marriage, if you want to count from the first night of the new marriage, it is impossible to give birth to the child so quickly. So On the day the child was born, Li Muzi quietly did a paternity test with the child, and the final results showed that the child was not Li Muzi at all.
Li Muzi said that he wanted to give Jiang Yunyun a big red packet, but inside this red packet was a paternity test report, Jiang Yunyun looked at this report and began to shake his hands and panic, Li Muzi said to her: "When? ”
"On the night before the wedding, I had a bachelor's party with my friends, I drank too much, I had a relationship with a guy, I really didn't mean to do this kind of thing, you forgive me." 」
"Not on purpose, if I hadn't been suspicious, I would have raised a child for someone else!"
In the end, Li Muzi and Jiang Yunyun divorced, which is also particularly incredible for Jiang Yunyun's friends, who have not been married for a year, and even divorced, and Li Muzi is also looking at the feelings between the two people, and did not tell the truth of the matter, which is also enough to give Jiang Yunyun's respect.
4.
self-awareness
There are some people who do something wrong after getting drunk, and will blame all the mistakes on the wine, in fact, there is no mistake in wine, the wrong thing is that the person who drinks does not have a weight, what kind of occasion should drink how much wine, the time of drinking should be controlled to when, but also according to their own amount of alcohol to judge how much wine they can drink. Some people may drink too much alcohol and have sex with others unexpectedly, which is actually a betrayal of their feelings in the sense, the first time should be their own calm, good thinking, and then confess to their other half, rather than choose to hide.
Everyone must have a certain sense of self, when going out to drink, they must also do what they can, do not drink to death, and do not let themselves drink until they lose consciousness.
When you do the wrong thing, the first time will definitely be very panicked, do not know how to confess to the other party, you can give yourself enough time to confirm, calm down and think well, but then you should also confess to your other half at the first time, tell the truth of the matter, if you choose to cheat and conceal, it is not good for the feelings between two people.