I love a quote from Breaking Away:
"Sooner or later the wrong people will fall apart
Sooner or later, the right people will meet
You can't hide from the people you meet
You can't escape the robbery you should have experienced
So I have to admit it
You can't decide which one appears
Nor can it stop a person from leaving
Know how to let go in order to move forward better. ”
Yes, there are many things that we can't do, and the only thing we can do is to let go, and it is you and me who should not insist on letting go of the choices and decisions that we should not insist on.