laitimes

Women who take the initiative to ask you for these things are mostly moved, don't miss it

When many people deal with the problem of feelings, they will be involved in fate, together is a fate, separation is a fate.

It is always believed that if there is a fate, time and space are not distances; if there is no chance, they cannot be realized when they meet all day, but in fact, many fates are to be fought for by themselves.

The good feeling of falling in love at first sight is not enough to support a long-term relationship, and only the unconditional efforts of both parties can create a solid foundation.

It's just that as authorities, too many men are worried that in the end, they are just shaving their heads and picking a hot head, which is regarded as a joke by others.

In fact, it is not difficult to judge whether a woman loves you, if you take the initiative to ask you for these things, most of them are sincere, don't miss it.

1. Time

It seems that there are 24 hours a day, but carefully calculated, there is not much time that really belongs to everyone's discretion, so everyone will try to use this small amount of time to do important things and accompany important people.

In this regard, if it is a woman who does not love you, she will rarely take the initiative to leave these time for you, and even when you want to spend your spare time on the other party, she will refuse.

The reason behind this is not difficult to understand, because you are not so important in her heart, so it is not worth them wasting time for you, and it may be fine to chat occasionally, but if you want to get tired of getting together often, it is completely unnecessary.

On the contrary, if the woman who always spends her spare time on you, it means that you occupy a very important place in her heart.

Such women, even if you do not take the initiative, they will take the initiative to come to you to ask for it, booking your every night, every free weekend, and every small long vacation.

For them, every minute and every second with you is happy, and it is also for them to remember, and they will hate not being able to stick with you all the time.

2. Pampering

The performance of not loving a person is probably the fear that the other party will pay too much for themselves, and when they are separated in the future, the guilt in their hearts will become more, so in their usual time together, they will be very independent and sensible.

This kind of understanding, often beyond the normal range, you forget Valentine's Day, they are not noisy, holidays you have to work overtime, they are also plain acceptance, there are women who take the initiative to approach you, they also express their belief in you, these every move, it seems that they love you, but in fact, it is just the opposite.

For women, the more they love a person, the more they hope to be able to get the love of the other party, and they want the other party to hold themselves in the palm of their hands and put them in the most important position in their hearts.

So they will take the initiative to ask for your favor, let you take her preferences into account when eating, have gifts on any special day, work is important but it is more important to accompany them, and naturally have their place in your future planning.

Although such women occasionally make people feel tired, but this is only because they love you, relatively, they will love you in the same way while asking you to spoil themselves.

In their hearts, you will always be the first, and you will be willing to make changes for you, and it is precisely because they have to give that they will want to get the same feedback from you.

3. Attention

I believe that many small partners have encountered such a situation in life, women will suddenly ask you, have you found that she has anything different, this is difficult for everyone, if you can answer correctly, naturally everyone is happy, otherwise you will be scolded by the other party.

The reason why there is such a situation occurs is mostly because women want to get everyone's attention, there are too many people and things that fill our lives, family, friends, work, career, etc., many of which occupy a lot of weight, which also makes many women feel insecure.

In order to determine their position in the hearts of men, they will judge through various small details, of which everyone's attention is an important criterion for judging.

In fact, this is also a signal that they are releasing to you that they need to be paid attention to, of course, only women who love you will do so.

As for those who don't love you, they will worry that you are paying too much attention to yourself, which will expose the truth that they don't love you.

Love is not a kind of vanity, to be taken out and shown off in front of everyone; Love is not a beautiful garment, to be worn outside for everyone to appreciate; love is not a task, to have an account for friends and family.

Love is a matter of two people, and it is only about two people, perhaps in the process of getting along, there will be people around you to point fingers and judge your feelings.

But whether the other party really loves you, and whether this feeling is worth your efforts, I believe everyone will have their own judgment.

When you can't clearly define each other's intentions, you may wish to start from the above three aspects, maybe everyone's needs and expressions of love will be different, but true love of a person, will become "greedy" and "unreasonable trouble".

If you look closely, I believe you will soon have your own answer.

Read on