Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
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In the end, people's lives still have to get along with themselves. When people reach middle age, I just like to be quietly alone.
It turned out to be gregarious and was pitted very badly. It's comforting to be alone now.
See through this world! Solitude is self-preservation. But it is not lonely, but the wine is less than a thousand cups per confidant, and the words are not speculative for more than half a sentence!
Ancients Yun: The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, I usually do not deliberately maintain relationships, normal interaction is good. Because true friends will help you when you have difficulties. Not sincerely, you spend the cost to maintain, help you will still be good.
Therefore, I will not deliberately maintain interpersonal relationships now, maybe I am old, I see through more, I feel useless and waste emotional time, let it go naturally, it is very good.
There is no need to spend energy to maintain interpersonal relationships, live your own well, there is no so-called like-minded circle, just quietly alone, read a book, drink tea.
I am most afraid of operating interpersonal relationships, do not want to owe others a debt of affection, people are good to me, I am better to others, never want to owe others, so I will not take the initiative to engage in relationships, live well on my own line.
-02-
In fact, people are lonely, chatting is a troublesome thing, many times chat is a bunch of nonsense, everyone lives well on their own very good, there is no need to talk left and right to consume themselves.
But anyone who has experienced the ups and downs of life, especially in marriage, will see life very thoroughly. I am such a person, I don't like flattery, I am a clean person, I do things clearly, and I have no quarrel with the world.
People who like to be alone, don't brag about slapping their asses, and don't please anyone. Rich or poor, they live their own lives. It seems unsociable, silent and lonely, but in fact, I just don't like to interact with people in different circles and different channels.
Because people's hearts are too complicated, our thinking is too simple, and we often can't distinguish between what others are saying and what they are saying, so we don't fit into their circles.
When people reach a certain age, you want to talk, friends may not be willing to listen, so friends become familiar strangers
Whether it's a partner, a child, or a parent, you still end up feeling lonely, and no one can take your place and feel your pain and suffering.
-03
People who can adapt to loneliness will definitely enjoy loneliness. Loneliness is an asset, and self-disciplined people don't care about loneliness. In a lonely environment, people will be relatively less right and wrong, and there will be fewer troubles.
People who have experienced loneliness are the strongest people in life. You can be alone, but not necessarily alone.
Aren't hooks and corners tired? Life is short, and no one knows which of tomorrow and accidents comes first. Why don't you make yourself comfortable at a certain age? Do what you like to do, be alone, and do what you like.
I am such a person, except for work, there is basically no communication in private, and I don't like to participate in company gatherings, because I am really tired of complex interpersonal relationships, and I just want to make my life a little simpler.
Some people may feel that I am not social, and people who do not like me can feel it. I also don't want to waste my energy trying to please others. My good friends are all genuinely fond of each other and together very relaxed and effortless.
-04-
Deliberately gregarious is very tired, feel that time passes very slowly, the whole body is uncomfortable, so enjoy the feeling of being alone, only alone, only feel that you are yourself, deliberately gregarious is like walking dead, life does not belong to yourself.
People really want to live comfortably, live a healthy and happy life, the most important thing is quiet, the so-called rare quiet, people want to rest, complex interpersonal relationships are absolutely not suitable for health.
Loneliness is an important part of life. Man, ultimately lonely, is unaccompanied at the last moment. Everyone is an individual, so loneliness is normal. If extroversion is for life, then loneliness is the enjoyment of life.
Loneliness is indispensable to a person, and this noisy world really leaves very little time for itself. Communication is really tiring, people still have to learn to be alone, slowly will understand.
People are living alone, living alone, and eventually walking alone, and the hilarity in the middle is also a game, a dream.