Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
-01-
Nietzsche said, "Every day that does not dance is a disgrace to life." ”
The world is addicted to livelihood and neglects the beauty of life. Where there are people, there is right and wrong, and where there are many people, there are also places where there are many people.
Learning to be alone with yourself is the excitement of life, and people without a certain height can't do it. Beasts of prey are all solitary, don't look down on anyone with a lonely personality, maybe one day he will impress you.
As soon as people communicate, they will inevitably say a lot of things against their hearts, wear masks and be very tired. You don't say something nice, people say you can't talk, emotional intelligence is low, and emotional intelligence is a beautiful lie that changes the law, feeling why people are so hypocritical.
Taciturn and uninhibited, many people seem to be alone, but they have no friends. In fact, it is not that he has no friends, but that he does not have you in his circle of friends.
-02-
I like to be alone, I don't like to socialize with people, and sometimes I don't like to trouble friends. There is no scheming, just don't like to talk and have more contact with people, which is very good. Unlike some people who have a deep heart, just do it yourself.
Maybe in the eyes of others, I am the one who doesn't fit in and won't please the people around me. But the truth is that I don't want to go to the trouble of drilling into the circle that can't be integrated, there are no friends, I feel relaxed and natural.
Likes to be alone, doesn't like to be noisy, and doesn't cause trouble. If you don't violate the bottom line, you generally don't argue with people. If you are close to each other, you have been in a company for almost 10 years, and you can get along with your colleagues.
I hate people who have a set of superficial and a set of backs, who are superficially enthusiastic about you, and when girlfriends go shopping together, they say bad things about you to others behind your back. Maybe they seem to be enthusiastic and generous, and their popularity is super good, but I choose to stay away from this kind of person.
People reach middle age, do not like to party with friends, like to be alone, love to read, in addition to the family, would rather listen to music, do not like to go out to party, but also quite enjoy.
I grew up like this, and when I met people who looked fierce and shrewd, it felt very awkward to say a word. Especially people who can talk to everyone on the surface, this kind of person is even less suitable for communication, but it is just a scene.
-03-
"Zhuangzi" has a saying: "To come alone is to be unique." The unique person is the most precious. ”
Society is very simple, complex is people. The choice of the spiritually cleanser to be alone is the last stubbornness of these people.
When he was young, Ye also especially liked to make friends, but as he grew older, he found too much hypocrisy between people and slowly liked to be alone.
Because it's hard to have true friends. So-called: The Tao is different and does not conspire. No one deserves you to open up, so just enjoy yourself.
I like to be alone, so that I will not be entangled because of which sentence is not said correctly, I will not let others talk about it because of the incongruity of the dress, and I will not be inferior because I see others showing off their wealth.
Such a life, I think it is not lonely, just like to sit quietly alone, read idle books, chase dramas, I think it is very good, why do you have to talk about the East parents and the West family short together.
The unsociable and taciturn and withdrawn person is due to his personality, usually rarely speaking, imaginative, and always alone.
The Tao is different, not conspiring with each other, but also following its own aspirations. Being alone is not unsociable, but a way of life, and it is also an inevitable realm of life.
-04-
In his book, Márquez writes:
Life has never existed alone. Whether we are born, we grow, we fall in love, or we succeed or fail, until the end, loneliness exists like a shadow in a corner of life.
Everyone is a different color in the world, the world is colorful and colorful, may everyone find their place.
Some people say that a person is very lonely, but I feel that a person is very free, I prefer to be alone, and I don't like the useless socializing.
Being alone is a person's most profound practice. Especially in the cement city, in the hustle and bustle, there is a slanting sun in the afternoon, and sitting there alone is enjoying.
In "One Hundred Years of Solitude", it is written:
"The best state for a person is to be alone, quiet, comfortable, no need to circumvent the thoughts of others, and no need to deliberately judge the minds of others, accompany yourself, and return to a true self." 」
When you understand the true meaning of life, even if you live alone, there are thousands of wonderful appearances.
On the road to getting old, learn to get along with yourself in order to return to the true meaning of life.