Adults, no friends! (Reality)

Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!

Text | The wind stops at night

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"In the middle of that summer, my wish was infinite! We joined hands and paddled across the river of sorrow! You've said not to separate, to be together all the time

Now I want to ask you, is it just a fairy tale?

Innocent years can not bear to cheat, youth absurd I do not live up to you! Heavy snow begs you not to erase the traces of us together..."

Once young and deeply in love, I don't know how many dreams I have had with people to fight with people and go to the end of the world!

The bulls that have been bragged together, thought they would be realized in adulthood!

The girl who used to like her thought she would put on a wedding dress in the church...

The saying of "a hundred years of loneliness" in this life has never thought that it is a lonely journey that is doomed because of "all the way and all the way to lose".

Some people, before they can say goodbye, have long since lost their minds.

Some people, before they can say they are together, are separated.

Loneliness, no matter who you are facing, the end is mostly the same! What was once thought to be cherished for a lifetime has been abandoned at a certain time!

Between people, all the drifting away is an inevitability!

Adults, only themselves, no friends! There is a reason for the "estrangement" from people! The answer, reality and heart-

1: Drifting away, all because of the three views of the repulsion

Between people, how far can the relationship go, the three views play a decisive role!

Why are people when they are young able to be harmonious together no matter what they do? Because, at that time, people did not involve life and survival, and even more did not involve the entanglement of profit and loss.

Moreover, no matter whose three views are in looking at things, they have no influence on each other. A person who has not experienced much of the pressure of real-life survival does not need to understand the concept of being consumed.

When people continue to grow older, stressful, and difficult to survive, even if they do not have conflicts with their former friends, they will naturally distance themselves.

Looking at things differently and having different views, such a relationship is undoubtedly mutually reinforcing!

People facing various pressures also have limited energy and endurance. Instead of pandering to the "friendship" of the past with a person who repulses the three views, it is better to run yourself well!

A person's true maturity is not about developing "connections" in all kinds of relationships. Rather, it is the courage to distance between the wrong relationships.

What is a friend? Friends are the relief of each other's pressure and the strong help of each other's suffering periods!

However, as each other's three views gradually fade and reveal their true colors, their former friends are not the most unpleasant appearances of their own!

Even so, even if you need someone around, you will definitely not choose such a person with three repulsive views to consume yourself!

In the adult world, there is not necessarily a real dispute or contradiction, but only because in daily interaction, the difference between the three views is gradually alienated until the relationship is frozen!

2: Pursue different, become a "old man" who can't go along

When you are young, just a smile can become an inseparable friend. At that time, people would meet each other to study at which university, where to develop together, and have children love each other in the future!

However, the oath of youth is always so weightless. The person who said it remembers, and the person who listened to it has forgotten it! Or maybe the person who said it on a whim remembered it for years.

Eventually, they grew up and had their first "goodbyes." After waving goodbye, it's been years since the goodbye. Between each other, it is still the outline of the past, but I can no longer find the youthful face of that year.

Once people are separated for a long time, their pursuits and ambitions begin to take a very different trajectory. After many years of separation, the reunion was only a warm greeting, but I didn't know where to start.

In the adult world, it is likely that with just one goodbye to a former friend, they will never see each other again in their lifetime!

In the adult world, because of the different circles, even a goodbye may only be "once" goodbye!

Adults, once they have embarked on their own life path, will become people who do not think much about each other because of the distance between time and space, and their independent lives!

Adult life is busy! Really too busy to have time for memories and thoughts!

This is the case between people, although the encounter is fate, separation is definitely not accidental! The companionship that was once promised all the way cannot resist the reality of their respective lives.

Former friends, after all, because of their different life trajectories, have become the most familiar "old people".

Adult world, no friends! The adult world is doomed to end up with only itself! Whether it is because of the disagreement of the three views, because of the pursuit of different, or because of the conflict of interest...

After all, there is no escape from a "loneliness"!

In this life, we have a lot of expectations and a lot of losses!

Memories of the past, suddenly recalled, as if the next day!

The man was standing not far away, the temperature was still familiar, and his face was already clear! Return to reality, reach out and shake, but only grasp the empty palm!

There's always a reason why friends from yesteryear drift apart!

It's just that in my lifetime, I hope that everyone can face their former friends.

Hide your edges and corners and make more connections. After all, having been with each other for those days is a precious warmth that I don't think about in this life, but I don't think about it much!

It is often said that the most inseparable thing in the world is the love between men and women, in fact, the most inseparable love is the old man who accompanied him on the runway under the shade of the tree when he was young.

If the three views are different, we will talk less about the topic of viewpoints, and if we pursue different views, we will highlight different fields less. In the old days, people were together, thinking back to the past and cherishing the present, which was the best respect for "friends".

Unfortunately, adults, are too tired. Tired enough not to give half an energy for any relationship that feels self-consuming!

Adults, be lonely! Loneliness, many times, stems from oneself!

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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!

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