Preface
There was once a sentence that was praised by the whole network, that is, living in an American house, marrying a Japanese wife, and hiring a Chinese cook. In people's hearts, Japanese women are more virtuous, and after getting married, they are basically housewives and husbands, and they have to follow their husband's surname, and they are the model other half in the eyes of many people.
But is that really the case? There is a strange Japanese organization that reverses the stereotype in people's minds.
This organization is made up of a group of married women, who not only let everyone in the organization cheat in marriage, but also help each other, hide from each other, borrow clothes, just to succeed in cheating.
Why did such an organization come into being, and why did the woman in it do such a thing?
Strange and unethical mutual aid associations
With the development and progress of the economy and society, the status of women is getting higher and higher, according to the article published by China Economic Weekly in 22 years, it can be found that the status of women in the mainland has improved significantly two years ago, while Japan, which is regarded as the first economy in Asia, is ranked at the bottom of the level of the country where it is located.
Japanese women have always had the feeling of being weak, tame, and in-house.
More than 20 years ago, there were even many Japanese women who did not have the idea of receiving higher education and going to university, but learned some knowledge about being a wife in high school, and directly married after graduation, got married and had children.
Now there are fewer women like this, and they are brave enough to pursue themselves and have their own jobs even if they work part-time. From the article published by The Paper Spring Tide in 19, we can know that there are many housewives in Japan who choose part-time jobs because they are dissatisfied with their paid status.
But those who have done so have regretted it. He even does not hesitate to do things that society despises.
Women who are passionate about extramarital affairs form an association to help each other, and there is a huge age gap between them.
And the rules are even more incomprehensible.
What if someone goes out with a lover and doesn't have beautiful clothes, jewelry, and cosmetics? Find the sisters of the Mutual Aid Society, they will support you and make you look beautiful.
Finding a reason to go out is one of the things that distress them the most, and that's when the role of the sisters comes into play.
They colluded, took photos in advance, and pretended to hang out with their girlfriends, but in fact they were doing things with men.
What if you accidentally leave clues during a date, such as a lover's scent, kiss marks? Wearing perfume and concealer, there is always no one in this group who shares honor and disgrace to be found cheating.
Sometimes, when you have too much fun with your lover outside and forget to cook for your family, the sisters of the mutual aid society will volunteer to help each other cook and do chores at home.
In order not to show flaws, they will keep in mind the tastes of each family and the wife's way of doing things, and strive to act realistically.
Brothers also have to settle accounts, even if the members of the mutual aid association are good friends with each other, but the money between them is very clear.
If a wife asks a member to help send her to a lover, then she will pay a certain fee to the other party without asking for it later. If you help someone else buy vegetables and cook, this money must also be calculated.
Although this organization sounds very "niche", it is surprising that there are not many people who have joined them, and at their peak they even reached an unthinkable number for ordinary people.
The history of the development of the Mutual Aid Association
At first, there weren't many people involved in this organization, but as it spread to hundreds, it also reached dozens of members.
If it weren't for the "virus" that limited their development, maybe the number of people in this organization would continue to increase, but those who entered it were basically only introduced by acquaintances.
Among them, one woman was particularly enthusiastic about organizing this mutual aid association and took the initiative to take on a lot of responsibilities. She coordinates the relationship between the wives, keeps the mutual aid organized and disciplined, and more importantly, she enjoys helping others.
But they also have reasons why they want to huddle. They know that their actions are not acceptable to society and their families, and they know that it is not right, but it is too exciting for them to convince themselves to withdraw from it.
If you don't cheat, life will be a lot less fun. If you don't cheat, it will be difficult to realize the value of your life.
They describe cheating as a "necessary evil", and although it is evil, it cannot be avoided. The thought was truly stunning.
But since there is no love in their marriage, why don't they get out of the sea of misery and find their true love?
First of all, there are many Japanese wives who are housewives and have no income, and it is difficult for them to support themselves after divorce, let alone give up their children.
And many people cheat just to find a kind of stimulus, and if they get divorced, this stimulus is gone, and cheating becomes meaningless.
Housewives don't have to work outside the home, and it seems that they live an easy life every day, but being a housewife is not a beauty, and it is also very tiring and easy to accumulate stress.
Although Japan has laws specifically protecting housewives, society still pays less attention to their inner appeals, and it may be because of the lack of spiritual comfort that they do such things.
Because it is too ruinous, this matter has caused widespread discussion on the Internet. Among them, many people expressed their disgust and incomprehension, and one comment pointed to the essence of the matter.
Everyone's evaluation
Some people feel creepy, and they can even perfectly reproduce the food taste of the other party's family, which is too difficult to find.
More comments are critical of the matter. I think the more members there are, the greater the chance of being discovered, but everyone should know this, so there's nothing to say.
Some people even spoke bluntly, saying that they cheated on themselves, can they accept their husband's cheating?
Some people also fiercely criticized this mutual aid association as an incorrect existence, and high pressure is not an excuse for cheating, as long as it is cheating, it will bring harm to the family.
Some people also commented that garbage will look dirty when it falls on the ground, but it is not obvious when it falls in the garbage heap. And this comment speaks precisely to the essence of the incident.
epilogue
This mutual aid association is really very ruined, and it is hard to imagine how many rabbles in the world are gathered together like this.
We will not tolerate anything that is unethical. It is hoped that there will be fewer and fewer such organizations, and those who deceive others should be punished accordingly.
Resources:
In Japan, the growing group of "part-time housewives" CITIC Publishing Spring Tide 2019-08-01 16:05
2022 Global Gender Equality Index: China Improves Ranking by 5 Places, Japan Ranks Last Among Developed Countries, It Will Take 132 Years to Achieve Global Gender Equality China Economic Weekly 2022-07-15 10:05