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Girls must be cautious in love, do not be the kind of woman who is randomly hooked up, do not easily confuse the heart because of a few sweet words from men, and do not enter a relationship at will because of loneliness.
When you choose to be alone because of a moment of loneliness, it is equivalent to pushing yourself into the abyss, because you will find that the loneliness of two people is worse than the loneliness of one person.
Choosing to enter into a relationship with a man, be sure to make a comprehensive trade-off with the person, don't accept his pursuit just because he is good to him, and the character must be put first.
A person with poor character should not love you no matter how good you are, because his goodness may only be disguised, and once he encounters an opportunity, he may expose his animalistic side and cause harm to you.
Many people may feel that if you want to see a person clearly, you must have to go through the accumulated time, and the fear of procrastination will scare the other party, after all, few people can have the patience to wait for a person's response.
In fact, there is no need to worry, because if he does not even have the patience to pursue a person, how can he be sincere to you?
On the other hand, in fact, seeing a person is not as complicated as we think, and sometimes some subconscious reactions can see the person's background, and chatting is a good way. Look at the way he chats, his views on some things, you can have a general understanding.
A man who opens his mouth and shuts his mouth is dirty, mostly uncultured
A person's upbringing can usually be reflected in words and deeds, and looking at a person's way of speaking and behavior trajectory, you can have a basic understanding.
A cultured man, generally speaking, is usually gentle and elegant, his view of the world is full of positive energy, he will not deviate, and the state of the whole person is very sunny and positive, and it will be very comfortable to chat with him.
No matter what you encounter, you can calm down your emotions and treat people gently, rarely say dirty words, will not let emotions flow, and will give people full respect.
On the contrary, a man who opens his mouth and shuts his mouth is dirty, most of them are not educated, they will be very extreme in their treatment of people, the way of speaking is very uncomfortable, they may not think anything of it at all, and even some people are proud of saying dirty words, but others will sound very harsh.
Some people may feel that swearing is just a way of saying things, and it is not the key to measuring this person. However, in fact, those dirty words invisibly lower the level of this person, and outsiders will sound very cheap.
And a man who loves to talk dirty, most of them are irritable, the ability to deal with things is not enough, when they encounter any problems, they will expose their emotions at the first time, and they have no ability to cope, although it sounds very powerful, in fact, there is a kind of reasonable and not high-sound taste, because the internal ability is insufficient, so they use the outside to bless.
Meet a man whose mouth is full of dirty words, don't get close.
Ask him about his hobbies, and you can see his level
A person's hobbies are usually inseparable from his level, and asking about his hobbies in the chat can deepen the understanding of this person and understand his level clearly.
A man with low-level hobbies is usually of low rank, and treats life mediocrely, without planning, without any ambition.
Some men, they are a kind of attitude of getting by, doing a job with no prospects, every day is a mixed day, the biggest fun after work is to play cards, play games, have no goal for their lives at all, and with such a man, they will only feel tired and can't see the hope of life.
Girlfriend Chenchen has talked about a relationship before, men are such a state, in a certain unit to earn 3,000 yuan salary, the biggest hobby is to play cards with brothers, get together to drink, never have any ideas about their career, can not see his fight for the future, sometimes Chenchen and he said let him learn a skill, he said that Chenchen is looking down on him.
A man worth associating with, he will have a clear goal for life, will not hold a mixed attitude, work hard enough, will continue to improve his skills, so that he has the ability to settle down.
Have several positive hobbies, let yourself have a healthy body, and treat life positively.
Ask the man about his hobbies during the chat, deepen your understanding through his hobbies, and then decide whether to associate with him or not.
Men who only care about their own words and do not know how to listen are very selfish
The chat must have to come and go, and there must be good interaction between each other, in order to be able to proceed smoothly.
In the process of chatting with others, listening is sometimes more important than just pouring out. Those who are good at listening, generally will pay more attention to the feelings of others, will not live in their own world, will be more reliable, and will not feel tired when getting along.
On the contrary, those who only care about their own words, do not know how to listen at all, and do not give others a chance to speak, are very selfish, and often only consider themselves in the process of communication, and will not take care of others.
There are some men who will be very arrogant, like to brag and show off, in the process of chatting with the opposite sex, have been telling their own things, bragging about their connections and careers, not giving women the opportunity to interject, and turning the chat between two people into a person's speech.
Maybe their intention is to flaunt how good they are and make women full of admiration for themselves. Women actually hate such behavior.
A person who doesn't know how to listen, is selfish, and doesn't deserve to be associated.
If you want to see a man clearly, you can have a rough understanding through chatting.
The way a man speaks exposes his qualities, his hobbies determine his hierarchy, and the interaction of the chat can be seen whether he is selfish or not.
Through the above three points, it can be roughly inferred whether this person is worth associating with.
Of course, chatting is only to understand a general idea, and if you want to get to know a person thoroughly, you still have to get along for a long time. If a person can't even meet the threshold, then please stop in time and stop wasting time.