These golden rules of educating children are not outdated at any time, and parents should look at them more, and they must practice them.
These 20 little principles of parenting really need our children to learn!
The smaller the promise, the more it must be kept
"I borrowed that book from you" "Next time we eat together", these blurted out words are small agreements, and keeping them will make the other party feel "Ah, he still remembers" "It was not a polite sentence", leaving a good impression of sincerity and trustworthiness on the other party.
Don't touch other people's belongings casually
It is really embarrassing to treat yourself as an outsider and use other people's things casually. Don't mess with other people's things, respect other people's privacy. Before you want to take someone else's things, you must get the consent of the other person.
Try to do as little as possible to reach out to the party
Do your own things as much as possible, do not trouble others, trouble others' things, you must actively thank you, not strong people are difficult.
Accept it frankly if you have good intentions, and simply refuse if you have concerns
For example, when dealing with older people, sometimes the other party will invite dinner, always saying "no need" excessive prevarication, in fact, it is an act that makes the other party faceless. It is better to accept kindness frankly and give the other side enough.
If you want help from others, learn to give first
Even if it is just a simple greeting and smile, first to meet the emotional needs of the other party, the essence of interpersonal communication is exchange and reciprocity.
Everything is 10 minutes early
Not only in advance of time, in case of accidents, but also to sort out the mood in advance and enter the state.
Always be grateful and convey gratitude specifically
For example, when you eat a delicious snack given by others, more than one "thank you", but also remember to convey the specific feeling of "this taste is very good", which will make the other party feel that your gratitude is not a polite sentence.
Doing so in thanking your child will also reinforce it so that you know which specific behavior you are doing well.
Don't say bad things about people behind your back, don't talk about right and wrong
Don't comment on others casually, and learn to respect the differences of others, even if they are incomprehensible.
Being polite should be to everyone
Be polite to everyone, whether it's a boss, an elder, a restaurant waiter, or an elderly person picking up trash on the side of the road.
It is a responsibility to take good safety precautions and hygienic treatment when walking the dog
When walking the dog, remember to lead the leash, large dogs wear masks, and clean the pet's excrement.
Try not to affect others in public places
When watching the show and movie, the mobile phone is automatically adjusted to vibrate mode, please lower your body to enter when you are late, and clean up the garbage after watching the performance.
Take your child to the movie theater and don't let your child's noise affect others to watch movies. That's really important.
Pack your own dishes after eating
Whether you are eating at home or in a restaurant, try to collect food scraps into the dish so that others can clean up.
When taking the escalator, consciously lean to the right and leave a road
Consciously give way to the left side of the passage for fast-moving people to provide convenience for others.
Pay attention to the sitting posture and do not cross your arms or cross your legs
Here I want to say, in public, please don't shake your legs, you shake the chair connected to the back will also shake together, really affect others.
The most basic table manners
Do not make a sound when eating, do not turn the plate at will, do not turn over the dishes, do not clip out your favorite dishes, and use public chopsticks with public chopsticks. Don't eat things that smell big and have a lot of debris in public.
Clothing and manners
Dressing, cleanliness and fit, and the occasion is more important than fashion, hands do not insert into pockets, manners are more important than what to wear.
The appearance of the clothing will affect a person's mental temperament and self-identification, do not let the child wear inappropriate clothes in order to save money.
When you encounter trouble, think of a solution first, don't just know how to complain and go crazy
Not complaining about this is really a crazy plus. Excessive complaining will only drain the energy you should have used to solve the problem, and instead of wasting time on anxiety, take action to read one more page.
What others like, don't make negative comments
No matter how good your taste is, it is also yours, and not commenting on what others like is the minimum social etiquette.
Prepare small things in your bag in case you or someone else needs them
For example: Band-Aid, Toilet Paper, Snacks, Garbage Bags. A person who can always come up with something to resolve embarrassment when others need it from time to time must be very intimate.
Don't take the kindness of others to you for granted
Whether it's family or friends, people who are good to you, you should be grateful.
Under the premise of educating children, we will do a good job ourselves!
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