Like what:
The elders move the chopsticks first, and then the juniors start eating
You can't talk when you have food in your mouth, don't spit your mouth
You can't knock on the bowl with chopsticks, you can't stick chopsticks on rice
When sandwiching vegetables, you cannot use chopsticks to flip the dishes
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These house rules, everyone had a lively discussion.
One of the most intolerable NO.1 is to eat and spit ...
Netizen: Eating and spitting, it is really unacceptable
Ancient Youyun: Eating without speaking, sleeping without speaking, not speaking when eating, and not speaking loudly, it has been a traditional etiquette since ancient times.
It seems to be a personal habit, but it can actually affect yourself and others very much.
First of all, the image is not good, then it interferes with everyone, and sometimes even loses the opportunity and friends because of it.
Surely many occasions are not welcomed, especially in small dining spaces, just like amplification. If you encounter phonophobia, people will go crazy.
Why would anyone eat a bar and snort
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Personal habits
Most of the bar mouth is a dietary habit developed when I was a child, because I have to play and watch TV soon, and it is easy to spit it under the gobble.
If parents do not deliberately educate, it is very easy to develop the habit of long-term spitting.
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Living environment
Because the family or friends around them always spit when they eat, and then naturally influenced by others around them when they are young, they slowly develop the habit of eating and spitting.
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Educational reasons
Since childhood, I have never been educated that it is impolite to eat and spit on.
It may be that parents think that children eat "bar mouth" harmless, until the child grows up This habit has not been corrected.
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For cultural reasons
In some areas, eating bars and mouths is to express the love of food, such as some areas of Huangshan in China, overseas such as some areas in Japan, for cultural differences, can only respect, seek common ground while reserving differences.
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Oral causes
Some people are born with oral shape problems, congenital factors, no way
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Abnormal brain
Dr. Sukhbind Kumar, a professor at the Institute of Neuroscience at the University of Newcastle in the United Kingdom, and his research team found that there is at least one abnormality in the prefrontal lobe of the brain of people who eat loud.
Simply put: eating and spitting may be abnormal in the brain.
How to correct this bad habit
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Clearly point out the problem
Parents should tell their children that it is not right to be loud when eating.
Parents first tell the child this truth, and then appropriately remind the child to lower the voice when the child eats, but do not always remind the child of this matter when not eating, so as to avoid the child's rebellious psychology.
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Lead by example and help your child find a good role model
Parents are role models for children, and if one of the parents will spit during meals, the child will imitate it and think it is normal to do so.
Only if the parent corrects this habit, the child's habit can be corrected.
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Teach your child to separate play and eat
When the child eats and spits, it may also be that he is very excited at the time, often "eating and playing".
Parents can remind their children to concentrate on eating at this time, and play games with their mouths to make sounds before playing after eating.
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Teach your child the right way to eat
When the child spits, we can tell the child to chew and swallow slowly when eating, which is not only decent, but also conducive to digestion.
It is polite to have your child close their lips while chewing food.