Many people say that some of today's children are becoming less and less educated.
What's even more infuriating is that parents don't say that they don't care, how can this grow up? People always call naughty and disobedient children "bear children", but the biggest criticism of children by the elderly is "uncultured".
But in fact, these two words have the same magic, both say children, but also say parents.
Uncultured "three generations of single transmission"
Xiao Cong's son Ming Ming is "calling the wind and rain" at home.
However, not long ago, at Grandpa's birthday party, He was obviously beaten by Grandpa to drink "uncultured", which made everyone's face very bad.
Before that, Ming Had suffered such grievances.
He is the treasure in the palm of the family, the treasure that the parents "hold in the palm of their hands for fear of falling off, and hold it in their mouth for fear of melting". It turned out that this was because Xiao Cong gave birth to Ming Ming at the age of 35, and Ming ming was still a "three-generation single transmission" in the family, so the family's love for the child was self-evident.
As the child grows older, he gradually becomes blind.
No child wants to play with him, because he always likes to instruct others to help him do things. And when eating, as long as he likes it, he will put it in front of himself regardless of it, even if he does not eat it, he will not allow others to eat it.
This time is the same, at Grandpa's birthday party, Xiaoming likes Grandpa's cake, so he grabs it, eats the cake with the word part into his mouth, and says while eating: "This cake is not delicious, change it." ”
Grandpa was very angry, how could he educate his grandson like this? He will say the opening sentence.
Manifestations of the child's lack of parenting
The phrase "uncultured" is simply a great criticism of children and family education. So, what kind of behavior does the child belong to the uncultured behavior?
1, export into "dirty"
The child can't tell the difference between good and bad things, but he will pick and choose what he finds interesting.
Therefore, some children will say dirty words at a very young age, and this is also influenced by adults. Children may only find it funny at first, but if left unchecked, they are likely to develop a habit of not relenting after understanding the meaning of swear words.
Children who talk dirty will make everyone disgusted, so parents must stop it in time.
2, do not understand respect, will not be grateful
Some children don't know how to respect others and don't know how to be grateful.
However, many parents use the excuse that their children are still young to automatically block this performance.
However, this is an uncultured behavior, in large part because of the connivance of parents, and even the teaching of words and deeds. Therefore, if parents find that their children are selfish, have no love, and will not be grateful, they must correct their children's wrong behavior in time at this time.
Otherwise, when the child grows up, someone will replace your education, and at that time, you will really be "punched in the face".
3. Regardless of time and place, "solipsism", but parents turn a blind eye
Many uncultured children believe that their feelings are the most important, and they hold a kind of "solipsism" all the time.
Think of yourself as the focal point, do whatever you want, without restrictions or constraints.
What is even more infuriating is that parents are indulging their children, and this kind of uncultured child is also the most hated by everyone.
"Uncultured" is more of a criticism of parents
In fact, "uncultured" seems to be talking about children, but the most common thing is actually criticizing parents.
"The Son does not teach, the Father is at fault."
If you don't educate your children as a parent, one day someone will educate your children for you, and at that time, maybe the children will be greatly hurt, but is this really what you want to see as a parent?
Some people will also say, I also want to educate children, but now children are too difficult to educate, a family of several elderly people love a child, do not let who is used to no one is not happy.
The purpose of the family's love for the child is to make the child's life happy.
If the current pampering will cause obstacles to the child's future life, then all family members should avoid the wrong views in the process of educating the child, so that the reward and punishment are clear.
Educating children is not an easy task, how to effectively and correctly guide children's wrong practices is a compulsory course for every parent. I believe that every parent has their own parenting experience, there are methods, there are confusions, welcome to share and discuss in the message area.
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