The appearance is not enough, and the emotional intelligence comes together. When dating, high emotional intelligence can make up for the lack of appearance and win the hearts of beauties.
The 64-year-old Uncle Ding has won the heart of his favorite aunt with high emotional intelligence.
Uncle Ding wheel factory retired, 3400 yuan per month, don't look at the retirement salary in general, uncle is not bad money, before the house demolition, he used compensation to buy two suites, a set of 80 square meters of self-housing, a set for investment.
Uncle Ding is quite brainy, to paraphrase the words of Uncle Ding, "It is useless to leave money, leave money to depreciate, and the money is enough to spend."
With money in his hands, he did not panic in his heart, and he did not have bad money to make Uncle Ding's old age comfortable and comfortable, and the only regret was that no one could share the richness of life with him. His wife died of illness for many years, and the older Uncle Ding got, the more he longed for a companion who knew cold and heat.
By chance, Uncle Ding saw Yu Da mama on the blind date show, Yu Da mama's smile showed gentleness and virtuousness, raised his hands and feet, full of femininity, Yu Da Ye was very moved, and a different kind of emotion surged in his heart.
Red Niang asked Aunt what kind of companion she wanted to find, and Aunt Yu said, "Find someone who can take care of each other."
This sentence poked at Uncle Ding's heart, and Yu Dama's point of view was the same as his, not to look at anything else, just to take care of each other.
That night, Uncle Ding tossed and turned and couldn't sleep, so he looked forward to calling the program team at dawn.
Uncle Ding contacted the Red Lady, expressed his heart, and was embarrassed to say that I would take her home and take care of her.
Hearing that an old man had a crush on himself and wanted to run to himself, the 61-year-old Aunt Yu was surprised and surprised and gladly agreed to meet.
Listening to the red lady said that Aunt Yu is currently single and has not yet found a suitable candidate, Uncle Ding was happy and said confidently: "She is waiting for me."
To meet the goddess of his choice, Uncle Ding was excited and excited, carefully cleaned up, and proposed to the red lady that he wanted to go to the mall to buy a pair of shoes for the goddess.
The red lady wondered, why do you want to buy shoes?
Uncle Ding said happily, I want to tell her, the future road will follow me.
But the problem is, I don't know how much size shoes the woman wears, uncle said, look at her size, size 38 is almost the same, it is not suitable to change it again.
Say let's go, uncle picked a pair of black lovers shoes that are similar to himself, dirty and light, it is really a courtesy.
After a brief introduction of the two people to know, the red lady opened the assist, told the aunt, the uncle can be obsessed with you, but also put your section directory down, every day to see, can not see enough.
Uncle took the opportunity to take out his mobile phone, open the video of the big mother, and the wave of confession came to the trend: I fell in love with it at a glance, how feminine, and I want to see you as soon as possible every day.
Uncle Ding's sweet confession made Yu Aunt laugh, and when a woman reaches this age, she faces a confession, without the shyness of a young girl, but more of a happy and free.
I thought that Uncle's initiative could capture The Heart of Big Mama, but Aunt Yu did not eat this set, indicating that Uncle Grandpa's image was worse and there was no eye edge.
Blind date is very important, Yu Aunt has no eye edge for Uncle, this is tricky, and then it depends on how Uncle Ding fights.
Uncle said, I watch the video many times a day, the more I look at it, the more I feel familiar, déjà vu, you see, our surnames are similar, my surname is Ding, your surname is Yu, but you are more than me, meaning richer than me, why? You have a son and a daughter, I am a girl, you two, much richer than me.
Lo and behold, Uncle can talk a lot, and the praise of high emotional intelligence can be said to go to the heart of The Big Mother, and he is happy to close his mouth.
The more the two nagged, the closer they became, Uncle Ding took the opportunity to show his advantages, good health, no three highs, no diabetes, the body is doubly good, what to eat is fragrant, as long as the two are together, the vegetarian dishes are fragrant, and they don't worry about eating meat.
There are words in the words of the great uncle, which means that as long as you are with you, you will eat anything.
Uncle Ding looked at Aunt Yu and said, looking at you, you are a kind person, with a blessing face, there is flesh on the face, there is a smiley face, and the woman who loves to smile is blessed.
With the assistance of the Red Lady, the uncle added another sentence: If you follow me, you will be more blessed, why? Some old men are nominally looking for a companion, but in fact they want to find a free nanny to serve themselves, I am not, you come to my house, I cook and take care of you, and I will be a nanny for you.
Uncle Hid his deep friendship in humorous and funny words, and while Aunt Yu was happy, he was also touched by Uncle Ding's sincerity, and his favorability was doubled.
Uncle Ding saw that the fire was coming, and quickly took out the gift prepared in advance, a pair of women's shoes of size 38!
Yu Aunt was a little moved, quickly tried on shoes, can't wear it, bought a small yard, Uncle Yu had some regrets, Yu Aunt comforted him and said that having this intention is enough to make me moved.
Uncle Ding proposed to change his shoes, and asked his aunt with a pun: "Can you come with me?" ”
Yu Dama understood in seconds and showed her heart: "Wear new shoes, take a new road, then we will change to it"
Since she showed her heart, the aunt said an unspeakable secret, she has an old problem, sleeping at night always love to breathe, afraid of disturbing each other's rest, if you sleep in separate rooms, worry about the uncle mind.
Who knows uncle said categorically, this is not a thing, and frankly to Aunt Yu, you are old in the pocket of your pants, I have to go to the toilet to wash you, if I am like this, I don't want you to wash me. Two mouths are companions, my money is there, you can spend it, mine is yours.
A bright and sincere word completely touched Yu Dama, and the two successfully went on a blind date!
epilogue:
Uncle Ding is a very thoughtful person, whether in business or emotionally, he will put it into action when he has set a goal. When you meet the person you like, dare to say dare to love, a simple confession is sincere, especially the sentence "Follow me, let me take care of you" makes people tear up.
The appearance is not enough, and the emotional intelligence comes together. Uncle Ding's image in the heart of the big mother was a little worse at first, but he later entered the other party's heart step by step with words and deeds with high emotional intelligence. He did not hesitate to praise the beauty and kindness of the woman, could be considerate of her difficulties and difficulties, rubbed appreciation and heartache into the words of confession, said every sentence to the woman's heart, and finally won the heart of the beauty with sincerity.
In the face of the person you like, the person with high emotional intelligence will not ask for it, but take the initiative to confess what can be brought to the other party, the other party can naturally feel your sincerity, and the success rate of the blind date will be greatly improved.
Uncle Ding touched the goddess of his choice with sincerity, and the sincere strength of his body made people move, and also let us see the sincerity of the elderly blind date.
Wish the two old people happiness in their old age!