Emotional Intelligence Practical Combo Can Talk And Do Things 2
When you meet someone asking you to participate in a group activity, whether you go or not, your response should be comfortable
You have to show a particularly happy participation,
"Really? Your yard must be there."
Or show particularly painful rejection,
"Oh, why didn't you tell me such a good thing earlier?"
Go to participate, let people have a light on their faces, do not participate, let people also feel that you care.
Answer like this, the next time there is a good thing, I can still think of you.
You are chatting with a friend, and the other person tells you that it has been cold recently, and I have bought a few sets of clothes, how should you answer the phone at this time?
Many people will turn the topic directly to themselves,
Say, "I bought a few sets of clothes too.",
Then Barabala.... The focus is all on oneself, and the other person is ignored.
So how should people with high emotional intelligence answer the phone?
At this time, you can ask your friends where you bought your clothes? If the other party tells you that it is a relatively high-end shopping mall, or a more high-end brand, it is possible that he wants to tell you how much money he has spent and what brand of clothes he has bought.
You can praise your friends' tastes while praising your brand.
If the other party tells you that it is a more ordinary mass market,
You could say something like this:
"The clothes of this market,
Many of my friends around me like it,
Next time we can go together."
Let every communication can bring you closer to others, which is called high emotional intelligence communication.
Teach you a way to communicate, which is called "ask, answer, like"
For example:
"Ask someone what they're doing at home on the weekends?"
The other replied:
"I didn't do anything on the weekend, I just lay at home for a day, brushing the drama",
After listening carefully, express your admiration!
"It's so cool to lie at home all day, what drama did you watch?"
Ask Ask a question
Answer Listen to answer
Praise is a sign of admiration
Asked how to respond to privacy questions
Q1. Do you have an object?
Wrong answer: Not yet
Correct answer: Extend the topic, "You said that I still remember this question, you and your uncle have been loving each other for so many years, teach some secrets?" 」
Question 2. How much do you earn per month?
Wrong answer: This is not convenient to tell you,
Correct answer: industry characteristics, "our industry has a lot of income elasticity, my heart is big, usually I haven't calculated carefully, the industry average is only 10,000 or 20,000 bar."
Question 3. Which of you two chased first?
Wrong answer: I chased him first,
Correct answer: Emphasize the point of view, "Who chases whom, what is the importance of this question, what is important is that two people are not suitable together, and they feel right about each other naturally together"
Q4. How old are you?
Wrong answer: I'm 30.
Correct answer: Ask the other person rhetorically. "Why do you care so much about this?" Are you having any problems? "