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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Hugo said: "The first sign of true love is timidity in boys and boldness in girls." ”
It is true that a man who really meets a woman who is passionate, even if he himself is mature, will suddenly become childish.
In front of the women he likes, the man is actually more timid, because he really loves women, he can't help but become cautious and care about women's opinions.
Men love or not, the appearance of the show is particularly obvious, really invested in the truth, often lose their minds, will not be as rational as usual to treat others.
At this time, the man's entire heart will be invaded by love, everything is revealed, even if it is a very mature man, he will be affected and show childish behavior in front of women.
It is this real look that makes men care more about women, can't help but pay attention to women's every move, and are always involved by each other.
No matter what kind of man, in front of the beloved woman, will take off the mask of maturity, instantly become like a child, the deeper the love, the easier it is to make some childish behavior.
Therefore, when a man encounters the appearance of true love: becoming "naïve", there are generally the following three manifestations:
First, look at your eyes a little evasive, always saying the wrong thing
A man really meets true love, he must care about women very much, and all his thoughts will stay on women.
Although men will try to hide themselves and try to pretend to be more stable, the emotions that spring up in his heart make him powerless to control.
Therefore, men in front of the beloved woman, usually do not dare to look at the woman, the eyes are somewhat evasive, he wants to see but does not want to let the woman misunderstand into frivolous behavior, so the stronger and calmer, the easier it is to be nervous.
He strives to make himself mature and stable, hoping to make a good impression on women, but many times he can't control the eyes that want to look at women.
In this case, the man's eyes will dodge and dodge, and once discovered, he will be nervous and even lose his usual demeanor.
In the eyes of a man, there are complex emotions, he can't help but look at you, and he doesn't dare to look at you, for fear that you will be mistaken for a frivolous man, but he is more worried that you can't find the love in his eyes.
Based on this complex and contradictory psychology, when men talk to the women they like, they are prone to making mistakes and always saying the wrong things.
Perhaps, when two people communicate, the man always says some childish words, which makes the woman laugh endlessly.
However, men are also embarrassed and try to maintain a good masculinity, but it always backfires.
Therefore, usually, after a man really encounters true love, he will not be as mature as usual, but will become a little naïve, which is not his normal performance at all.
Why a man has such a big difference, it is nothing more than that he loves this woman very much, and the more he cares in his heart, the more childish his behavior.
If a woman secretly observes a man, you will find that he may be a very mature and stable man, who is very particular about words and deeds, and always exudes the charm of a man.
However, in front of you, he always can't play the level he should have, because he really loves you and cares about you too much, so it will lead to out-of-control behavior.
Second, in front of you, some childish
Men really love you, he is in front of you, it is difficult to maintain the image of a successful man, but will become childish.
At this time, his words and deeds will become very childish, and his heart will desire to attract your attention, but his behavior will make you cry and laugh like a child.
In reality, some men get along with the woman they love, always deliberately provoking women to be angry, or deliberately doing the wrong thing, so as to get the attention of women, which is the performance of encountering true love.
If a man doesn't love you, he certainly won't do it, but use various means and methods to coax you, and won't care too much about women's opinions.
Only men who really love you will especially want your attention, and at the same time take special care of your feelings, afraid of really making you angry.
After all, men act like naughty kids and do childish things just to get your affection, not really anger you.
When his friend Xiaohui and her boyfriend were in love, he often made some childish moves, making Xiaohui cry and laugh.
In fact, the boyfriend is the management of the company, usually at work, very decent, especially mature and stable, outstanding ability, personal charm is very strong.
However, whenever he left work, he instantly became a somewhat childish man in front of Xiaohui.
When the two people are together, he can never put the things on the coffee table well, sometimes deliberately messing up, waiting for Xiaohui to clean up.
Or, he deliberately hid Xiaohui's daily necessities and watched her sneak a smile when she looked for it, and every time Xiaohui got angry, he would pretend to be very aggrieved, like a child who had done something wrong.
When they went out together, he also did not allow Xiaohui to look at other members of the opposite sex, liked to be jealous, and always hugged her and said, "You are mine." ”
Similar to these behaviors, Xiaohui feels that he is really a small child, and at the same time feels his love, and the love is very sweet.
Therefore, when a man really encounters true love, he is prone to becoming childish, and will not be as steady and seemingly childish as usual, but in fact, it is to attract your attention and get your tenderness.
Third, if you really love you, you will give unconditionally
After a man meets true love, his most common performance is to give unconditionally, as long as the woman has a good life, he does not count gains and losses.
Perhaps, in the eyes of many people, this behavior of men is somewhat childish, or a little blind, but in the hearts of men, there has never been a worry.
Because, once a man identifies a woman, he will not easily deny it, he is willing to please women, willing to pay, even if he pays more, he has no complaints.
For example, some men always give very expensive gifts in front of their beloved women, hoping to get the woman's favor.
Even if this kind of behavior makes others look childish, the man will not stop, that is his way of expressing love.
A man who truly loves you will spend a lot of effort to get your favor, in order to give you happiness, he will continue to pay for you, eager to walk with you into the future as soon as possible.
In fact, whether a man really loves you or not can be judged from this aspect.
If the man is just playing with you, he will not give unconditionally, everything will have a purpose, and hope to get you as soon as possible.
Possibly, for the sake of a momentary pleasure, he will give something to you, but this kind of payment is limited, will not last, and it is impossible to plan your future happiness for you.
However, the man who truly loves you is different, he will continue to give for you, and plan you into his own life, truly treating you as the most important person.
Men who love you will strive to give you happiness in the direction of the future, all the efforts will not be conditional, they will not only want to get you, but look forward to falling in love with you and marrying, going to the future together.
In this process, even if he encounters many obstacles, the man will not give up easily, he will firmly choose you, giving you a strong sense of security.
Such a man must regard you as true love and will always accompany you.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Keigo Higashino said, "If you really love each other, you will definitely not be able to help yourself." ”
Indeed, if a man truly loves you, he can't help but show that he loves you, which may be a little childish, but it is extremely sincere.
Pretend love, although perfect, but in the end not lasting. And the man who truly loves you, although he will make mistakes and behave childishly, his love for you is eternal and can stand the test of time.
To sum up, a man, when he encounters true love, will have these three "childish" performances:
Look at your eyes a little evasive, always say the wrong thing; in front of you, a little childish; really love you, will give unconditionally.
Love is an instinct, actions can not deceive people, men have these actions, indicating that they really want to be with you, and you hand in hand to the future.
Therefore, the man who really loves you, sometimes has a childish attitude, sometimes a little expression, this is the performance of him who cares about you and loves you.
True love will meet true love, and I hope you can cherish the man who loves you so much and have true happiness.
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