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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Yang Dai said: "Walking to the edge of life, the rest of your life is only the way home." ”
Therefore, after the age of 50, some people do not have to take the initiative to contact, it is better to break off relations.
At this time, you have to manage your life carefully in a limited time, enjoy the good time of the rest of your life, and live up to the gifts of life, which is the pattern of a person.
Nowadays, many people's relationships are too mundane and complicated, and instead of getting caught up in them and getting physically and mentally exhausted, it is better to stay quiet in solitude and obtain a peaceful sense of happiness.
Sooner or later, you will understand that some people are not worth interacting with, some relationships are not worth maintaining, life is either happy or sad, it has gone through halfway, why should Mediocre disturb themselves.
In the days to come, do not cater to people who are not worthy, do not do things against your heart, and move forward with determination for the rest of your life, but on the contrary, you will be more comfortable.
Therefore, when people are old, there is no need to take the initiative to contact the following three kinds of people.
First, it will only count your friends
True friends are the kind of people who don't like to talk much, but can help you when you need it most.
However, in reality, there are not many such friends, too few can really do the confidant, many are full of calculations and interests.
Therefore, when people are old, for friends who can only calculate you, do not come and go, so as not to cause trouble for themselves.
Perhaps, you regard the other party as a close friend and cherish the friendship between each other, but the other party does not think so, just wants to get benefits from you.
They interact with you, nothing more than with a strong purpose, when you still have use value, may be enthusiastic about you, once you lose value, they will turn their faces and do not recognize people.
In the old age, for this kind of friend, there is really no need to communicate, it is best to break off friendship as soon as possible.
Your true feelings can only be left to real friends, and those who play with you are best away.
In life, it is enough to get one or two confidants.
True friendship is never mixed with calculations and interests, but heart-to-heart communication, and the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water.
Those who only consume you and calculate you, are simply not friends and worth investing in feelings.
When people are old, they still have to plan for themselves, stay away from hypocritical friends, and live their own lives with their hearts, which is your pattern, so that you will make your old age happier.
Second, relatives who are suspicious of the poor and love the rich
In reality, there are always some relatives who behave particularly falsely.
When your career is successful, rich and powerful, and mixed up, they will enthusiastically run to you to compliment you, say a bunch of nice words, and constantly snub you.
However, when one day, you suddenly fall and mix badly, they will stay away from you, change the face of the previous flattery, and despise you from the heart.
Such relatives, in fact, are too poor to love the rich, and they will not have a heart for you to interact with at all, and their interests are particularly heavy.
When you can help them, they will have to go all the way to ask you, and if you refuse, they will say some yin and yang weird things, leaving you in a dilemma.
However, when your life is at a low point and you urgently need help, they are gone, never ask you about your difficulties, and it is impossible to give you care and help.
Therefore, when people are old, they should not come and go with such relatives and break off diplomatic relations as soon as possible.
Because, no matter how well you do, they won't read your kindness and take your help for granted.
If you refuse to help, they will say that you have no conscience, relatives do not help, say a lot of words, make you feel aggrieved, there is no place to reason.
As the saying goes: "The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor have no close neighbors in the downtown." ”
This is a very harsh reality, there is no need to pay too much attention to impersonal relatives, it is too unworthy.
After the age of 50, you need to plan your life and spend less time with relatives who use and calculate you, in order to live more comfortably.
Third, the neighbor who loves to chew the root of the tongue
Nowadays, between neighbors, the comparison psychology is particularly serious, and there is no way back to the past, and that kind of simple friendship has long been rare.
In the past, the exchanges between neighbors were sincere and warm, full of warmth and particular warmth.
But now, neighbors are very indifferent, people are complex, feelings have become extremely impure, usually compared, calculated, and love to chew the root of the tongue.
But whenever you have a little thing, they will expand infinitely, treating you as a pastime, and spreading all kinds of evil words.
For this kind of person, you should not take the initiative to interact with them, and do not spend time and energy on this kind of person, in order to live more smoothly.
Otherwise, you are sincere, and the other party is hypocritical, which will eventually make you physically and mentally exhausted, and the gain will not be worth the loss.
At the end of the day, this kind of neighbor is particularly worldly, and will always say bad things about you and gossip about you.
You mix well, they flatter you, pretend to show enthusiasm, and hope to get benefits from you.
However, when you fall down, you will find that they will be together to denigrate you and make you useless.
All your pain points are the talk of their mouths, never care about your feelings, they will only laugh at you and make you feel hurt.
There is a girl in our village, who went out for a few years, and with her own efforts, she had a decent job, and her monthly salary exceeded 10,000.
However, it was obvious that she had worked hard to get it, but the neighbors said that she had found a large amount of money outside, and there were all kinds of excuses, which made her come back particularly stressful.
Therefore, when people are old, it is best to take the initiative to break off relations with this kind of neighbor, not to fall into this kind of war of words without nutrition, and to live the life they want with their hearts, so that they will have quieter happiness.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
To sum up, after the age of 50, taking the initiative to break off relations with the following three kinds of people seems to be very patterned.
It will only count your friends, relatives who are poor and love the rich, neighbors who love to chew the root of their tongues, there is no need to contact again.
In the old age, people must know how to make trade-offs, others are sincere to you, you treat people sincerely, if the other party is hypocritical, you must also take back your sincerity in time and do not blindly communicate.
The rest of life is not long, instead of trapping time on people who are not worth it, it is better to plan your future life and make your old age more meaningful.
Know how to choose, learn to give up, this life will win, this is the real pattern.
I hope that everyone can harvest a comfortable and happy old age, live up to the gifts of time, and live happily.
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