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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Whether men and women are true love is not manifested on the material level, but whether there is a feeling when they get along, and the tacit understanding at the spiritual level is more accurate.
Everyone longs to meet the right person, but it is not easy to meet true love, especially people who have experienced a lot of emotional baptism, in the future time, will be more cautious.
After all, they have experienced too much love and can't wait for feelings like before, but more calm and rational.
At this time, they have not met true love, they will not force it, and once they do, they will surely cherish it.
In reality, many members of the opposite sex are actually testing each other when they are getting along, and if it is not true love, they will not rush into feelings.
On the contrary, once they have the feeling of true love, they will give their hearts and firmly join hands in the future.
At the end of the day, men and women truly love each other, and when they are together, they will have these "feelings":
First, chat tacit understanding, talk about everything
A love, often from the beginning of the chat, two people can talk together, tacit understanding with each other, talk about everything, naturally have the basic conditions for falling in love.
Such men and women, when they get along, talk very closely, and can achieve a tacit understanding of thought.
No matter what topic you talk about, the other party can talk about the idea, and can instantly feel sorry for you.
If the two sides can achieve such a tacit understanding, it shows that there are basic similarities in thinking, three views, and views on different things.
They chat happily, rarely go cold, and are able to extend the conversation to a higher mood.
For example, when talking about the topic of love, they will not only look at the surface, but will jointly explore the essence and meaning of love, as well as their views on the future, have a clear plan, and be able to see the happiness of the future.
In reality, some people talk about love, just superficially express the needs of love, you say east, the other party says west, there is no tacit understanding at all, it is easy to be cold, this is the embodiment of no tacit understanding.
Good love is a conversation, and this is true. Men and women who truly love each other are often very good at chatting, and they talk more deeply, and their hearts are closer to each other.
They don't feel burdened, but a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, and they will enjoy the process of chatting with each other.
Both sides talk about their own hearts and privacy, do not have to worry about the other party will reveal it, the sense of trust is very strong.
Moreover, touching sensitive topics and knowing each other will not be too much pressure.
When one party speaks, the other party must listen carefully, never interrupt easily, and behave very cultivated. No matter what you say, you can get a satisfactory response from the other party and show special sincerity.
Once you have this feeling, it shows that two people are true love, and as long as they develop further, they can quickly enter love.
Second, get along simply and unrestrained
When the opposite sex gets along, it is inevitable that they will go out to dinner together, go out to play together, or do something meaningful together.
In this process, if both parties are unrestrained, it means that the relationship is very simple, very harmonious, and there is no burden.
From this point of view, whether two people are suitable or not, it is clear at a glance. If each other is true love, there will definitely be a feeling of lightness and pleasure, which can make the feelings naturally sublimated.
On the contrary, if men and women are together, eating will be calculated, playing with scheming, not wanting to pay, calculating gains and losses, indicating that it is just a very ordinary relationship, it is difficult to walk into love.
Only when they have delivered their sincerity to each other will they be willing to pay, and they will not feel pressured in getting along, let alone have calculations.
The more simple the relationship, the longer it goes, and it is easy to be together, and the two people can smoothly produce feelings.
Otherwise, both parties feel constrained, and the feelings are full of calculations, so that each other has a psychological burden, which is not real love.
Tennyson said, "Love is free, and free love is the most real." ”
Indeed, if the opposite sex is together, feel less relaxed, the relationship is very complicated, and the calculation is very strong, it will naturally not go into love.
Only when men and women are getting along, have a relaxed and pleasant mood, and feel free, can the relationship move forward.
A restrained feeling is essentially a kind of bondage, even if it is superficially loved and loved, but in essence, it lacks the conditions to maintain love.
When one day, the feelings of the two parties are flat, and they can't stand the pressure more and more, the relationship will not be far from falling apart.
Therefore, men and women who truly love each other, when they are together, will have an unfettered feeling, in the process of communication, both sides are free, love naturally germinates, this is the real love.
Third, physical contact, natural
Whether two people are true love, the body will prove that natural acceptance is the sublimation of feelings, and mutual exclusion is the subtext of rejection.
Men and women together, if they truly love each other, they will certainly not reject physical contact, but will be full of expectations.
After all, in any relationship, only physical contact is the most direct embodiment of true love.
Men and women who truly love each other, when the feelings reach a certain level, each other will be eager to be close to each other, hoping to be closer to each other.
At this time, two people holding hands affectionately, warmly hugging, and kissing intimately are all natural attractions when the feelings are sincere and strong, not deliberate.
Can't help but get close to each other, this is the natural reaction after the love reaches the depths, but also the booster of the feelings to move forward, everything happens naturally.
On the contrary, if men and women are together, they need to deliberately have physical contact, which is not a natural process of emotional advancement, but is full of not simple desires, not true love.
In particular, both parties reject physical contact and do not want to be intimate with each other, indicating that they do not love enough, or do not really love each other.
Men and women who truly love each other will develop in the direction of love into marriage, and can accept, tolerate, affirm, and have a strong sense of responsibility.
Moreover, in the daily relationship, both parties can achieve a tacit understanding of life and physiology, and the feelings are very harmonious, which is the evidence of true love.
Therefore, if the opposite sex gets along, if there are these natural feelings, do not reject physical proximity and embrace, basically love will be very beautiful, the relationship is more stable.
True love is not simply the desire for physical contact, but the result of natural occurrence of feelings, tacit understanding with each other, mutual recognition, this is the feeling of true love.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Carson McCullers said: "Love is a common experience that happens between two people. ”
Indeed, men and women who truly love each other often have some kind of tacit understanding, and they feel very good when they get along.
When two people are together, there is interaction, there is a response, mutual recognition, and they move together in the direction of happiness, which is what true love looks like.
To sum up, getting along with the opposite sex breeds these three "feelings", which are generally true love.
Chat tacitly, talk about nothing; get along simply, unrestrained; physical contact, natural.
If men and women have these feelings, it shows that they are sincere with each other, trust each other, and can feel the seriousness and intention between the two hearts in a long-term relationship, which is true love.
I hope that everyone can meet true love, accompany each other, and move towards a happy future in the years of not being alarmed.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.