Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Liked someone before, now likes someone!
The same 3 words, the real meaning of the expression is different! In contrast, it is tearful and sad!
A person can be a state of mind that can coexist peacefully with himself, or he can see the truth of human nature and human heart, so as to get away from the hustle and bustle and screen the number of interpersonal relationships.
Interpersonal relations are realistic, and the so-called similarities and relationships between people are only interests or small conflicts of interest.
Don't say that the ugliness of human nature and human hearts in reality is a dark psychology and an illusory fear that has been deliberately amplified. If you have not really experienced too many human sufferings, you must be in order to beautify your "big picture".
Otherwise, people who are detached from people's hearts and human nature and only care about saying that the world is worthy and beautiful are really too immature and unwise!
Therefore, most of these people are the kind of people who do not have deep self-awareness in the flow of interpersonal relationships. Thus, we cannot withdraw from meaningless socializing and become a "wise person" who truly knows how to run your own life.
Maturity is given by experience, and wisdom is taught by humanity and human heart in experience!
When a person has truly matured in experience and learned the wise survival method under the human heart and humanity, then he must be willing to use the three words of "one person" to the four words of "interpersonal relationship" to make the most perfect replacement!
A person, truly mature and wise, is to read and comprehend the actual meaning of "one person"!
Therefore, in our daily lives, we always regard those excellent people who adjust their lives into business models, enjoy loneliness, and come and go alone as their own life benchmarks.
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Alone, nothing bad!
Only when people are alone with themselves can they deeply know themselves. Understand what you lack and need; only when you are alone, you can know what you have and what you should be satisfied with in your dialogue with yourself.
People with less experience are often a combination of luck and misfortune.
I have less experience and feel good about everything, so there are many acts of expectation and wishful thinking about everything outside of myself.
Putting aside the three ups and three downs, the mixture of tragedy and joy, and the gains and losses of interests, the life path with a few flaws is perfect, but it is only a illusory life.
A hundred years of life, a moment of experience, does not mean that the rest of the life can be lucky not to see the ugliness of the human heart and human nature.
If you can, I hope that I will be born to taste all kinds of pain, and then spend a lot of time to enjoy the time when I am really alone... No if, probably the biggest misfortune in life, right? Who knows!
Some people will feel that people after middle age will be more transparent and white, facing the world, facing the world, they will have a normal heart, so middle-aged people can best achieve themselves in a person's day.
In fact, people who come and go alone, behind them are not simple, they have experienced unknown painful experiences. These have never had anything to do with age!
The children of poor families have long been in charge because they have seen the gap between the rich and the poor from the beginning of their understanding, and have deeply realized that when they are weak, they have no choice but to rely on themselves.
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It seems that no one really wants to admit their mediocrity from the bottom of their hearts, just like they are unwilling to admit that they are really not mature and wise enough!
It is often the people who have suffered losses and are willing to laugh at the experience of others, and only then can they be truly willing to face the reality of their own "stupidity". Whether it is ambiguous or blunt, in the end, it is because of one's own experience or seeing the misery of others that it gradually matures.
Experience to maturity, maturity to wisdom, along the way, I believe many people understand the true meaning of "a person" is - their own life, tuned to silent mode!
1: For all kinds of relationships, do not expect
Some people have a lot of truth in their mouths, and their behavior is always contrary to the truth. This is not wisdom, it is not maturity.
Maturity and wisdom are about putting truth into the blood and shutting up what I've been through and what I've learned. Instead, it is aware of all kinds of heat and cold, but it will not reject the necessary relationships and interactions, but will use more silent states to get along with themselves.
Whether you are a parent, a child, an in-laws, a daughter-in-law, a son-in-law, it doesn't matter if you are a relative, it doesn't matter whose friend you are... In short, relationship designations are inevitable, but distances can be mastered by themselves.
Any relationship that gets too close and loses boundaries is a disaster. A truly mature and wise person will have the initiative in the distance of the relationship.
When a person no longer expects from the outside world, he will burst out of unlimited potential. These potentials include how to protect themselves, how to achieve themselves, and how to satisfy themselves!
If you don't expect it, you won't be disappointed, and if you don't disappoint, you won't let yourself get hurt!
2: For the life of the object of emotional relationship, do not "intervene"
Whether it is family affection, friendship or love, even if the relationship is close, it cannot change the fact that everyone has their own way of life.
Because they are family, friends, and lovers, they are always willing to use "I will not harm you, I am dedicated to your own good" to kidnap relationships and interfere too much... That's the biggest reason for the relationship to break down!
All relationships should leave the necessary distance. Reasonable distance is a necessary prerequisite for mutual comfort.
Truly intelligent and wise people know that the only people who can be relied on in this life, who will always be loyal to themselves, and who will always accompany themselves are themselves. Therefore, we should look down on the distance and distance of the relationship and look down on whose true feelings and false intentions.
This lonely journey of life is also clear because it is clear and not broken, it is clear, and in the mutual support between oneself and oneself, it is staggering and moving forward smoothly.
As for the way others live, it is good to be happy.
Some words come to an end, and what you think is right is not necessarily what others recognize and like. It is very good not to bother others and not to embarrass yourself!
Please believe that the excellence of every person who can withstand loneliness is exchanged for the helplessness of countless hearts and human nature. Behind everyone's silent life, it is a thorough understanding of what "one person" really means!
The silent mode is not to say goodbye to interpersonal relationships, but to say goodbye to unnecessary intersections and eliminate unnecessary relationship burdens.
Meditation is always about oneself, and there is no such thing as gossiping about others.
A person, recognize yourself, accept yourself, enrich yourself!
A person, in "one person" to understand, to penetrate.
This life, a lifetime, a person, that's all!
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