01
Every step we take is like crossing the border and surviving the disaster.
The moment we come into this world, what lies in front of us is the barrier of the road. Which level we can pass determines what kind of life we can achieve.
Some people sing all the way and constantly overdraft their energy to make money. In the end, parting in the middle, too much regret, that is a very helpless thing.
Some people stumble, but they are particularly careful and step by step, so he lives a long life and can die well, which is also a relatively satisfactory result.
It can only be said that the older people are, the less simple the obstacles they face. If you are not careful, you will regret it for the rest of your life, and that is also a result that no one can change.
People are old, their energy can't keep up, and the difficulty of the levels they face should be appropriately reduced, but why is it getting more and more difficult? One sentence can be summed up, there is no illusion of what should be taken for granted, only the reality of walking on thin ice.
Especially near the level of 60 years old, I believe that everyone lives a nervous and trembling life. This is the embodiment of the crisis in old age.
You will eventually understand that without these hole cards, no one can get through the 60-year-old level.
02
Without a certain amount of "deposit", the more you live, the more uneasy you will be.
If there is anything in this world that is omnipotent, I think it should be the money that smells of copper.
We all think that money full of copper smell must be vulgar. However, the more vulgar things are, the more grounded they are, and the more reliable they are.
What in this world is more reliable than money?
affection? unreliable. Because human feelings are fickle, one look today, one look tomorrow, too risky. person? unreliable. Because the complexity of human nature is far beyond our imagination.
There is only money, and it is like a guardian who is always loyal to us, guarding our lifelong peace. When everyone is far away from us, only money never changes.
Someone once said that in the face of money, all ugliness will be revealed, and all stability will come to you and me.
When people are old, the most important thing is not to expand how many contacts, but to prepare a deposit for themselves, even if life ushers in a storm, we can be safe.
03
Without the company of "family", people will live more and more lonely.
After talking about "money", some people should wonder, is it true that with money, we don't need other relatives and friends to accompany us?
In fact, people, even if they have money, also need the company of relatives and friends. It's one thing that human nature is unreliable, it's another thing to have a loved one to accompany you.
For people, having a lover to accompany them is a kind of warmth; having children with them is a kind of happiness; having a family to accompany them is even more worthwhile in the world.
The human heart cannot always be so materialistic, a little emotional, a little need for a little love, that is also a very normal thing. You know, it is impossible for anyone to live without the company of others.
The essence of the "heavenly happiness" we pursue is the old age life based on material and the company of the family as the core. Without the company of our families, even if we have a billionaire, what is the point?
Each isolated island needs to be interconnected with other islands, and even build roads and bridges, communicate with each other, form a huge communication network, and make the island a valuable part.
04
Without the wisdom of being a person who is "wise as foolish", people will live in pain.
When we are young, we will choose to be sharp, thinking that people cannot be obscure, nor can they be underestimated, and they must show their talents to others.
This is the naïve choice of "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers".
After middle age, we will choose to converge on the sharp edge, pretending to be thick and honest on the surface, but in the heart we are more shrewd than anyone, and with a certain city government, we will not express ourselves so directly.
This is the vicissitudes of "half a lifetime".
Why is it said that when people reach a certain age, they have to live like "wise and foolish"?
Superficial stupidity is always false, just so as not to offend people and not to cause trouble. And the inner shrewdness needs to be hidden. You know, the more jealous we provoke others, the worse our lives become.
That being the case, choose the Confucian "middle way", that's it. This is what we often call "taking the image from the money, the outer circle and the inner square".
05
Lack of regular life, it is difficult to get through the age of 60.
In your opinion, what is the best way to maintain health? It is not to eat health care products, not to mess things up, but to develop regular living habits.
Adjust the personal biological clock, which point should do what to do, there must be a clear arrangement, so regular life, what is the possibility of life not lasting?
The reason why people who say that people who overdraw their bodies are easy to say goodbye is because their diet and life are not regular enough, so that physical diseases are rife. In the end, didn't they just run out of money?
When people reach middle age and old age, they can go to bed early, so don't stay up late. If you can exercise more, don't stay at home all the time. In this day and age, a good body is the foundation of all happiness.
No one can know which accident or tomorrow will come first, but we can maintain a regular life and do our part. The so-called "pre-establishment, non-pre-emptive abolition" is this truth.
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