Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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In the interaction between men and women, once there are other opposite sexes, who is the superfluous person?
In recent years, there is a sensitive word that has appeared vividly in the relationship between men and women - green tea! A relationship that has been eaten again will be cracked because of the existence of green tea.
Since then, the trust of two people who have the past of the Sea Oath Mountain Alliance and promised to use the company of the rest of their lives to achieve love has been easily broken.
The presence of green tea, the most significant behavioral feature, consists of two words: crossing the line!
There is a lot of green tea, as long as it does not appear in its own emotional world, it will be a kind of luck. The existence of green tea is the beginning of one person's nightmare and the beginning of another person's prejudice against the person in front of them.
Why?
Among the feelings of men and women, the people who lead green tea into their own world are the most ignorant. It seems that he is passively doing things that cross the line with green tea, but in fact, he has an infinite good feeling for green tea in his heart.
Green tea will have a fascinating appeal. Let those who do not hesitate to turn their faces for green tea and the people in front of them, they can't help but have a desire to protect.
The charm of green tea is:
Very "sensible";
Always misunderstood, very "inclusive" and "generous". They will also "hide" their sadness, comforting others and saying: I am fine, you go to coax them, don't affect your feelings because of me;
Be good at "taking on" all the responsibilities yourself;
He will also occasionally show a sharp edge in his weakness to fight back against people who have "misunderstood and hurt" themselves;
Will be very "caring" to give people warm care. Like a "confidant" who meets and hates late, he exists as a soul guardian;
There will be too many difficult things that cannot be said, because "trust" will open up.
The term green tea was originally used to describe a scheming woman.
Most of this type of person is in front of the public as a harmless person and animal, a good year but many disasters, a kind and beautiful but amorous and sad appearance. Behind the scenes, he has a moderate grasp of the love between men and women, and his means are extremely clever.
From the emergence of the word green tea so far, the more current, the more it is found that green tea has long existed without restriction of gender! And they exist for only one purpose: to wreak havoc!
In the relationship between men and women, whether men or women, once there is a green tea of the opposite sex around, it means that the emotional relationship between two people will be hit or completely broken because of the existence of green tea.
Men or women, why do they turn their faces because of green tea and the people in front of them? The reason is simple, nothing more than the following reasons:
1: Have a good feeling for green tea or green tea is their own ex
Whether it is what you see or hear in real life or the personal experience of individuals, it is not uncommon to have a good feeling for green tea and not to reject suggestions and opinions, and to accept people who care.
And such a phenomenon of green tea as a former identity is more common. The phenomenon that the predecessor cries that the incumbent must lose, and the predecessor cares about warming the incumbent abounds.
Either green tea is your own love and can't, or green tea is your old love. As a result, the existence of green tea is so "logical" and "deserved".
All the normal words and interactions that think of green tea are actually a knife inserted in the heart of the incumbent, used to cut off the relationship between each other.
2: The presence of green tea is the most obvious trace of crossing the line
Once a man and a woman cross the line, no matter what the person in front of them says or does, his attitude depends on the mouth of the object who crosses the line.
Existence is the extended meaning of reasonableness, which is that someone "allows". Also like the existence of green tea, it is a character who is warmly welcomed to "invite" into their marriage relationship.
In the feelings of men and women, the superfluous person is green tea. It is only because of the support of some people that they exist as innocent lords.
If a man or a woman, if he is not single at the moment, can be dedicated and loyal to the person in front of him with the greatest sense of responsibility, he will certainly not cross the line with any other member of the opposite sex.
The negation of crossing the line is nothing more than the excuse of "you slander me" to find reasons for not maintaining a reasonable distance from the other opposite sex.
There may be some people in front of them who do not understand why their other half, and their emotional relationship continues, or have too obvious maintenance and "obedience" to green tea.
The truth is nothing more than this: the hazy ambiguity between green tea and oneself is mixed with seemingly insignificant cross-borders, allowing one's desires to be stirred up uncontrollably and willingly stirred.
And the existence of green tea is not necessarily to want to be with the person who has special treatment for himself, but to use himself as a reference and to deny his immediate person.
There has never been any pure friendship between men and women. And those other opposite sexes who seem to be mistakenly injured by the people in front of them, if they are really innocent, they will understand what is the measure and distance. He will not make himself into a "I didn't mean" image in the form of a harmless look of people and animals.
In the interaction between men and women, the existence of green tea proves 2 problems:
1: The person you love has always had a very low character
A person who is not single, being approached by other members of the opposite sex and hurting the person in front of him, never has any excuse for being wronged.
A non-single person who allows himself to be close to the other opposite sex, and because some words and deeds of other opposite sexes affect his emotional relationship with the person in front of him, is a tendency betrayal that does not want to refuse.
A non-single person who can make the person in front of him sad and bothered because of the existence of other members of the opposite sex must have a poor understanding of "responsibility".
There will be no green tea around people who truly love you.
Believe me, there is no one in this world who doesn't know how to refuse, and there is no one who doesn't distinguish between green tea. Only those who are not willing to "stab" green tea for the sake of the people in front of them.
In the midst of feelings, "do not understand" rejection, "do not know" green tea, such a person is a slave to the desire to know mistakes and make mistakes. Most people who allow the existence of green tea will not be affectionate and single-minded about their feelings, let alone loyal!
2: The person you love never loved you that much
Two people together, it is impossible not to have contradictions, all kinds of unpredictable problems will be presented in a sudden situation. But green tea is different!
The existence of green tea is someone who has been deliberately and deliberately.
A person who truly loves you will not allow himself to cross the line with the other members of the opposite sex. No matter how delicious the color of green tea is, it will not affect the current marriage relationship.
Whether it is a colleague or partner at work, or a former or classmate relationship, people who really love you will naturally be able to figure out what is "proportion" and "distance".
Refusing to cross the line of others of the opposite sex in any way is the minimum appearance of one person loving another person.
Allowing green tea to exist, but not acknowledging each other's transgressions, but because some of the behaviors of green tea affect the current feelings...
When you are sad and sad, the other half is in the form of a "big pattern" to send apologies and warmth to green tea, such a person has never loved you so much!
If there is green tea in your relationship, and your other half accuses you more than once, persuade you to let go of the relationship.
You know, the purpose of green tea is to destroy your feelings, you just let it achieve its purpose.
Because, in this emotional game, the person who makes you lose is not the invading green tea, but your teammates want you to lose everything.
Your teammates, your other half, should be in the same camp as you, shouldn't they?
So, from now on, don't compete with green tea to consume your energy and time, and put all your energy and time into the matter of improving yourself.
When you are fragrant, you have butterflies smelling.
There will be no opposite sex between the right person and you. At that time, green tea will have nowhere to live! So, from this moment on, love yourself and run yourself!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
Topic Discussion: Have you ever met green tea? What kind of harm does the existence of ta bring to you? Leave what you want to say in the comments section.