Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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There are thousands of kinds of happiness in the world. The perception of misfortune can be described by only one "heart-rending heart-rending lungs"!
In the relationship between men and women, if you can, everyone wants to stay with their beloved, even if there are contradictions and quarrels, but because of mutual love, it is also happy!
Unfortunately, love is changeable and people's hearts are unpredictable. People who once said that they should love until their teeth are gone, have not yet reached the top of their bald heads, and they have begun to not love!
The most hurtful thing in the relationship between men and women is that who suddenly breaks the tranquility of their own person and then suddenly withdraws!
Good feelings can make people grow, and half-way separated love will make people feel insecure for the rest of their lives!
Most women in relationships, always grow up small children! Say the most reasonable words, and do what children are valued for. I understand everything, but because of my sensibility, I don't control the feelings I love.
Often, the more people who focus all their attention on feelings, the more likely they are to be deeply hurt by themselves!
In healthy male-female relationships:
A man will not let a woman suffer, because he will give her an incomparably solid sense of security!
Men will not let women become mature, because they love deeply and do not have to let women deliberately "understand things", just do their own thing!
Men will not let men surrender to themselves at all times, because he knows that mutual equal love is the most ideal, even if he is humble and condescending, he is reluctant to let women be wronged!
Many times, women perceive the "abnormality" of men, but there is no way to determine whether he still loves himself or not! So, deeply mired in self-doubt, I often hope to give myself an accurate answer from a man's mouth!
In fact, in the interaction between men and women, men do not love, and the details cannot be hidden! When they don't love, the five inherent signs are mostly unified! Can't hide it at all:
First: No longer "free" for you at any time
When a man truly loves a woman, he will be busy when he is busy, and he will always be with him when he is idle! Only when he is no longer in love will he let himself be busy pushing the woman beyond what he thinks is "reasonable"!
When you love, without saying a word, you can make people feel very grounded! If you don't love it, your words and actions will become perfunctory!
When you love, your slight frown can make him put down everything in his hands and run to you. No love, even if you have more tears and emotions, he will be indifferent!
Love, is to consider your feelings, do not love, your joys and sorrows have nothing to do with him!
Second: "traces" of dealings with other members of the opposite sex
When you really love someone, you will be willing to settle down for the person in front of you! People who have settled their hearts, except for the people in front of them, the other opposite sex will not enter their eyes.
However, when you don't love someone, other members of the opposite sex will appear as various "normal friends". These traces from the beginning did not dare to be too "suspicious" to later traces to follow... At this time, it is rude to ask him if he loves him or not!
If a man is always in cahoots with other people of the opposite sex and is very tired of saying that you are "catching the wind and catching shadows", don't doubt that he must be thinking of an appropriate time to find a reasonable excuse to push you away!
When he goes one step further with that "friend" of the opposite sex, you can be replaced!
Third: Rarely have intimate contact with you
In the interaction between men and women, the intimate relationship between each other or the intimacy when they get along is part of the relationship management!
Men who truly love you will have desire for you! In particular, after an intimate relationship occurs, there is no "restraint" for love!
So, when your man is no longer intimate with you or rarely has intimate contact with you, his love for you is basically only these two types:
1: Once upon a time it was only desire and not love for you;
2: He doesn't love you anymore!
Either way, it's the best proof that he's leaving you! If you force close, not only will you eat the "closed door soup", but also make men look down on you even more!
Fourth: Communication is reduced or blocked
Truly loving someone will definitely be willing to empathize! This is not deliberate, but from the heart of the heart can not help it!
When a man really loves you, there will be harmonious communication between you, even if you are wrong, he will reasonably guide you without being angry! When there is no thing to communicate, you will be a lot of nonsense!
When a man doesn't love you, he will feel that many things are "unnecessary" to communicate with you, and your "understanding" is a problem! Even if there is no topic or communication between you, even communication will feel incomparably obstacles!
So, whether you still love you or not, you can know from talking!
Fifth: Force you to mention the breakup
Men who truly love you, no matter how angry they are, will not use verbal violence, behavioral violence, and cold violence against you! Because of deep love, so reluctant!
Some men, obviously do not love, but are not willing to say "break up" out of their mouths, back the title of "scum"! Therefore, he used all "means" to force women to take the initiative to break up when they were impulsive or desperate!
When the woman mentioned the breakup, the man did not hesitate to agree without the slightest hesitation, do not doubt: he, long ago, did not love!
What women don't know is how hard such a man waits for a woman's "breakup"!
Love you or not, from his attitude and language to you, you can know a little bit, proposed to break up the man who has not retained you, it is already an accurate "no love" performance! Leave, stop loss in time is also good!
The interaction between men and women, often people take advantage of the hardships of not loving the time to start a romantic life!
Once young, you swore to die for love, and then you did not die, and youth tasted life for you! If only I could do it all over again!
But where is the starting point?
The road of life, can not go back and go again! Life can only be pushed to the end by the years!
Life is not easy! After falling in love with one person, how sad is it to think that they will love each other until they are old, but in the end, one person bears the fault of two people?
Some people's encounters are not fate! He doesn't love it, just pull away as soon as possible!
Living in the past and reminiscing about the past is nothing more than pouring salt on one's own wounds!
Although it is not easy to let go, but to hold it all the time is the torment of the rest of your life, to let go of the heartbreak that is only a few short months and a few years, think about the latter or the latter is worth it!
For the rest of your life, may you learn to love yourself! Look down on who comes and goes, get used to whose is close! Even in the days when no one cares, you must live your own years quietly!
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