Male-female interaction: People who really love you, there will be 2 involuntaries

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Is love the antidote to salvation or a poison that harms others?

For people who love crazy people, how can they turn the love between men and women into their own icing on the cake?

The right person will help you climb up in life. The wrong person, when you climb, will give you a gravity blow, and you will fall into the abyss of darkness from now on.

It is not uncommon for people who have been hurt by love to be devastated ever since.

Those who can face life and wait for marriage after being hurt do not know how many painful days and nights it takes to "absorb and digest" the past pain in the form of "inspiration".

Love fang knows deep affection and bitterness, and only after pain can it know shame and courage. Only those who have experienced it understand that in front of the wrong people, all affection is wrong, and every bit of giving is a kind of self-humiliation.

Sooner or later, you will understand that the biggest difference between people who truly love you and those who do not love you is that in the face of the same situation, the control of "active" behavior is diametrically opposed.

People who don't love you will give you 2 "different" initiatives. And people who truly love you will be "not active" in the same situation:

1: Will not be "cold war" with you

In the relationship between men and women, the Cold War can make people collapse the most!

The Cold War, on the surface, was the best way to refuse to quarrel. In fact, it is a selfish person who refuses to solve problems in a reasonable way according to his own thinking.

Any kind of relationship must be based on "good talk" and "effective communication" in order to make the relationship continue well. However, some people, because of their excessive ego, use "inability to communicate" as a reason for the Cold War.

If one person really loves another person deeply, he will certainly not take the initiative to launch a cold war.

Even if he feels that the current communication cannot achieve the purpose of solving the problem, he will reasonably convey the following message:

Let's not discuss the problem for the time being, both sides should calm down and reflect...

However, during the cooling-off period, it is absolutely possible that the interaction of language will not decrease except for the time being, except for the problems that need to be solved for the time being.

No matter how two people who love each other will quarrel, but the person who really loves you will not have a problem and will refuse to communicate, and will not even give you a single eye contact!

Problems and contradictions will not affect feelings in the first place. Problems and contradictions can only show that two people fit at a certain point, and they still need to run in. And people who refuse to communicate when they are a little unhappy have never loved you so much.

The reason why you respond to all your uneasiness and sadness by taking the initiative to cold war is nothing more than trying to make you "submit" and "obey" in this cold war way.

People who really love you, no matter what happens, no matter how angry, even if the problem can not continue to communicate and solve, they will normally care for you and pamper you.

Because, the person who loves you knows best in his heart. The things that exist between you need to be resolved, not a "turnaround." Therefore, the "Cold War" will not be used to make you "retreat from difficulties".

2: Don't touch your "bottom line" repeatedly

There will be a bottom line in the relationship between people. Merely. For some people who have been touched by the bottom line in ordinary interpersonal relationships, there is no need to turn their faces, nor do they need to be too angry.

Perhaps, the person who touches your bottom line, you will still have the necessary win-win cooperation, just need you to take precautions day by day. However, the emotional relationship between men and women is completely different.

The interaction between men and women is not a child's play, and the marriage and love union is not just a play. Knowing people, falling in love, and uniting with people is a big thing for the rest of your life.

The existence of some reasonable bottom lines, and their care in the form of being respected and untouched, is the supreme embodiment of mutual respect and mutual love between each other.

Knowing that you are not single, but also ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex, you have repeatedly expressed your demands, and the other party has repeatedly committed crimes;

What decisions you make are always just to inform you, you repeatedly say that you do not need to be "notified", but need to be "discussed", but the other party still ignores your thoughts and feelings;

The emotional relationship between you, there will always be an outsider from which to stir up in the name of "good for you", you have repeatedly said not to affect each other's relationship because of anyone, but the other party is to treat you as an outsider...

In life, between two people who really love each other, some bottom lines are not enough to move out of them all, and each other will be far from the bottom line, not close, and not touching because of "empathy".

On the contrary, only people who don't love you will repeatedly touch your bottom line by ignoring your feelings. At the same time, all your guidance and appeals are expressed in response to extreme boredom or anger.

There is a feeling, which is revealed between words and deeds, and every word, every sentence, and every look of the person who loves you contains tenderness and care. This feeling, only those who love you, will make you feel deeply.

Love, at first sight joy is a whim, single-minded long-term love because of a long time.

When two people are together, the best state is to "get along without getting tired".

The person who loves you may use the wrong way and method, but you can always feel that it is because of love at the first time. People who don't love you are all perfunctory.

In feelings, what makes people hurt is never quarrels and contradictions, but the accumulated indifference and perfunctory.

The person who loves you will give you the feeling of relaxation all around you. Even in quarrels and contradictions, you will not deny your vision and deny your choices.

The right person, to give you a solid, often because will not take the initiative with you to fight cold, will not repeatedly touch your bottom line, and in every detail, with care, consideration and care, let you feel warm.

Love is mutual!

One party demands the other party's blind efforts, and one party constantly hurts the other party's patience at all times, such feelings have never been related to "feelings".

The two people who go in both directions cannot "hurt" each other because they are based on love. The slightly more sane person understands:

Painful relationships are always wrong!

A person loves you or not, don't have to ask, don't have to struggle with yourself, the details and time will tell you the truth!

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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!

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