Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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In the relationship between men and women, people often use "poisonous chicken soup" to teach women how to play tricks and tricks to "trap" men! But in fact, women who really get the permanent love of men have always been "simple"!
In fact, the love between men and women is very pure and never complicated. To get it too hard is, first of all, disrespect for love, but also irresponsible for the rest of your life.
To truly love someone is to be enthusiastic and driven from the heart. Love, which is mixed with too many tricks and means, has nothing to do with love in itself. At best, it is only "possessiveness" or an inexplicable "vanity" at work.
Some women are always willing to be calculating in their feelings. I am afraid that in the feelings, I will suffer some loss. However, the matter of feelings has always been your love and my wishes, so there is a saying that "the twisted melon is not sweet".
And the feelings that use many means and tricks are called "love", and why not a strong twist on the melon?
In fact, many women do not know that men fall in love with you and need "realistic" conditions!
Compared with the reality of survival and life, love and love are not so important to men! The woman that men can love for a long time is never because of how clever the woman's "means" are, but because of the "value" of the woman.
In the relationship between men and women, the love that men need and the love that women need is always a game of rationality and sensibility.
You know, the routines and tricks that a man can use are absolutely "willing" to him. And this kind of "willingness" needs to be based on the practical value that women have for men.
Men are often described as careless, unexpressive people. But when facing the object of life's assist, he must "know everything"!
In particular, when he feels that the woman in front of him does not have the value of investing the rest of his life, he will see all the routines and tricks of women as "clowns" performing. And, according to their own mood, they will respond. If necessary, there will be no response!
Therefore, in the relationship between men and women, when women feel that men do not love themselves, when they are hot and cold, if they are close, they should find the reason from their own "value"!
It's just that, at any time, women should not lose themselves for a man who is too mentally strong in reality!
If the love you want is completely exchanged for your own "value", it will definitely lose!
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The reality of men's treatment of feelings is getting stronger and stronger with age.
In his twenties, because there was no pressure to survive and live, most of them only took the blood and sweat money of their parents and the girl who touched his heart.
At that time, their pursuit of love was simple. Because, their thoughts have not yet been polluted by the big dye tank of society, relatively pure!
In their thirties, they wanted to have a lifelong assist.
If there is a woman who can make herself struggle for ten years less, as long as her looks are not particularly disgusting to him, and her character is still good, he will definitely make the "right" choice.
Middle-aged single men, they are more eager for spiritual fit and actual reality survival of each other.
Men in their twenties aside, men over thirty, will not choose a "trouble" around! Most importantly, they definitely won't choose a woman who is holding her back or helping her for the rest of her life.
Either, it can bring spiritual pleasure to men, or it can bring material help to men. When neither is available, the man will turn around without hesitation.
Even if women use more means, men only look at their own two points of reality, can not be satisfied, women's means are meaningless single performance, the audience is zero!
Men are more realistic than women, and more shrewd than women! Because, men's rationality in the face of feelings always guides men to make choices in the direction of "right".
So, in the reality of male-female relationships, we see that men tend to be happier than women.
Women who can bring men spiritual or material help, truly simple, will make men doubly cherished. With a little use of means, men will also pay for them one by one.
This is the fundamental reason why men are determined, single-minded and focused on their feelings!
In order to retain the heart of a man, some women always dress up and maintain themselves, and finally find themselves betrayed!
Some women believe in chicken soup that "keeps a man's heart and grabs a man's stomach first" and practices cooking hard. It was only in the end that a man's betrayal or decision to withdraw from himself had never had anything to do with the meal on the table.
A woman's appearance and figure are the first step in whether a man can decide to establish a male-female relationship with her, but the intrinsic value of a woman is the focus of whether a man can love her for a long time.
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Women who use means blindly are pathetic and ignorant! Because, she never knew the importance of loving herself before loving others!
You can love someone very much, but you must understand that running yourself is more important!
When a woman really becomes strong, even if she attracts a person who seeks her own value, she will definitely choose the best from it and finally make progress together, rather than one party only paying the other party and only taking.
In addition, if you want men to be affectionate and calm about themselves, in addition to having the value that men value, women themselves must also be a dedicated and focused person.
Otherwise, even if a man has the intention of settling on you for the rest of his life, he will give up his value because of your abusive feelings and withdraw from you as soon as possible!
Life is short, and women don't want to be wrongly married to let themselves be in the grave for the rest of their lives, suffering. Men, even more do not want to choose the right lover, and turn the wonderful they can have into a bleak second half of life.
Human energy is limited!
In the face of feelings, men have not left to run their own lives no matter how realistic they are. As a woman, I should have taken it as my duty to run myself and enrich myself!
However, if you can, with your own efforts to get out of your own luxury, it is an indispensable gesture for a man or woman!
Everyone has their own selfish intentions, but between a woman who is strong in herself and the man she attracts, it must be the "equivalent" exchange of the rest of her life.
Never say that you have no demand for love! If this is the case, you can hold hands with others at will, so why cling to certain illusions?
Women with self-esteem, self-love, and self-abundance tend to treat feelings more simply. She thinks that the love she takes is equal to the value that the man wants in herself, and she accepts it.
The "strong union" of two people is the best state of marriage and love relationship!
This article, throughout, looks depressing! It seems that feelings have become a transaction for the rest of their lives, but this is the case!
An ambitious person will not look at a lazy addict who has no fighting spirit.
Men or women, when they can ask upwards, they will certainly not commit to the downwards
What kind of person you are, what kind of people you will attract. All relationships in the world are "value exchanges"! The feelings between men and women, if they are separated from the "value", are also not related to each other!
To put it bluntly, any kind of relationship in real society is "taking what you need"! The balance of value exchange is there, the relationship is there!
In the face of the feelings between men and women, women must not forget to manage themselves, and in a feeling that cannot see the results, blindly use means! The value is not there, and the people who watch you perform will turn a blind eye to you!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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