The more capable a woman is, the less she looks down on 3 kinds of men

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I don't know if you have found such a phenomenon, that is, there are more and more single men and women now.

Especially girls, the more excellent the more single. Some people think that they are reluctant to fall in love, on the contrary, everyone has basic emotional needs, and they are the same.

However, unlike others, they will be more selective, because they have the ability, resulting in fewer and fewer men who are comparable to them. Over time, naturally, you can't find someone you like.

It is said that feelings also need to be equal, even if two people with a particularly large gap are together, it is simply not long-lasting.

Therefore, those women who have the ability, for men's vision, will naturally become higher, and at the same time they also have men who can't look up to.

Usually, a woman with ability will not be moved by 3 kinds of men, even if you are good to her is useless.

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Not enterprising, not self-motivated

In fact, as long as they are capable people, regardless of men and women, they all have a common feature, that is, they are extremely self-motivated.

When others are resting, they are working, others are still working when they are traveling on vacation, and they are still working when others are chasing dramas and watching short videos.

It is precisely because those women who have the ability to focus all their energy on improving themselves and progressing, so for those men who do not want to make progress, they will naturally look down.

Because, if a person is not self-motivated and does not want to work hard, he is very "vulnerable".

When he's okay, he'll indulge in his comfort zone, just thinking about having fun in time and getting by.

Once he encounters a little difficulty and setback in life, their first reaction is not to think about solving it, but also to blame the external environment, blame themselves for poor luck, blame social competitiveness is too strong.

Push the responsibility away, but never think about facing setbacks and solving problems.

At the same time, he will also envy the results of other people's efforts, but he is not willing to pay step by step, only thinking about how he does not have a good original family.

Being with such a man will only drag you down and make you slowly become unmotivated. Because it is not motivated, the career will naturally have problems, or it will directly enter the bottleneck period.

As a result, your life will begin to darken and your life will get worse and worse.

Not only that, because the man himself does not work hard, when he sees that you have become excellent through hard work, he will not be happy for you, but will begin to belittle you, suppress you, and find his own sense of existence.

In fact, he is also self-aware, knowing that his ability is limited, so he will not see others getting better, especially not to see women getting better, and not to see women being more capable than him.

They will even spread rumors that they have achieved their current high positions through abnormal means.

This kind of man, they both envy the capable woman, but also worry about being crushed by the other party. Therefore, those women who have the ability will naturally not be with them, for fear of being dragged down by him.

02

I will only draw a big pie, just say nothing

This kind of man, who is usually very expressive, always says something to women and doesn't do anything in the end.

For a woman with ability, even if the man says it well, if he does not do it, if he does not implement it, then all the words are all nonsense.

Although it is said that sometimes, men and women do need some love words to get along, but people also have to have credit, if they always only say and do not do, they will naturally lose the trust of women.

A fan once left me a message backstage.

Through blind dates, she met a man who worked within the system and talked generously. She felt that the other party was good, so she continued to get along, and then she established a relationship.

After being together, men always talked to her, and at first they couldn't help but say buy her gifts, necklaces, jewelry, bags, but in the end, they never cashed in once.

Not only this matter, with the passage of time, the two people began to talk about marriage, and the man frantically drew a big cake for her, saying that she could live a good life, so that she could raise her eyebrows in front of her friends.

But after marriage, men still have not fulfilled, they still live the same life as before marriage, without any change.

Tu Lei, an emotional teacher, once said: "If you want to find someone who really loves you, don't listen to what he says, but look at what he has done, because life is lived, not spoken." ”

A man who is truly capable will never put commitment only on his mouth, but on action; and this kind of man who can only draw a big pie can deceive the little girl.

If you want to routine those capable women, you are doomed to return empty-handed, because no matter what they do, they will have the upper hand rationally, rather than casual emotional use.

They can see that men are unreliable and naturally do not continue to associate.

Only when men put their care and commitment into action and let the other party see your goodness, can they really touch each other's hearts.

03

The three views are not correct, and the relationship between men and women is too complicated

Those capable women, the three views are generally very positive, especially in the relationship between men and women, will be very concerned.

If a man maintains an ambiguous relationship with multiple members of the opposite sex and thinks that he has more opposite sexes around him, it is the embodiment of his personality charm, and he will pass on this three views to others everywhere.

When they have nothing to do, they will publicize their ambiguity with multiple women to satisfy their vanity, and in front of their friends, he looks triumphant.

Or maybe he is obviously married, but he wants to say that he is single; he knows that he has an object, but he has always given people the signal that he is single, trying to start a new heterosexual relationship.

Or maybe he obviously doesn't like the other party, but he has never refused, and has been hanging on to the other party, taking advantage of the other party in this way.

He is always used to being ambiguous with the opposite sex, and as long as he sees that other women are not ugly, he starts to stir. This kind of behavior is the most offensive for women.

In the relationship, no one likes to be betrayed, especially those capable women, for men without a sense of responsibility, will stay away and will not continue to contact.

Although they will also meet the "scum" man, as long as they find his true face, they will decisively leave and never look back.

For capable women, they don't need to rely on anyone themselves, so it is even more impossible to settle on emotional issues.

Meet the right person, then get along together, if you meet the wrong person, it will end directly, and the treatment of feelings will always be lacking and indiscriminate.

No matter whether the time is sooner or later, men with ability will eventually attract the same excellent other half.

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