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You have to understand that what you need is a real relationship, not being tricked and being used.
—— sammy
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In relationships, not everyone is a good person. At that time, even if you give your heart, you can't get the feelings you want in the other person.
Because they seem to be affectionate with you and let you fall, but in fact, this is just their routine, nothing about you, treat other people of the opposite sex, and they do the same.
Therefore, those men who have a heart and a mind will have abnormal performance in some things, if you are aware, do not doubt, he does not have much sincerity for you.
01
Monetarily
As soon as you start a relationship, you have to negotiate money. Because you need money to date out, and you need money to buy gifts for each other, this is bound to inevitably talk about money.
But some men with a heart will always look for reasons everywhere and are unwilling to take the initiative to talk to you about money.
In order not to let you see what he really thinks, he will draw a pie with you, talk about the sky, and let you indulge in it. But in fact, all the exchanges that do not cost money are playing "hooligans".
This is the case with the girlfriend's ex-boyfriend, the parents of the two people just know each other, and they have established a relationship as soon as they come and go. But after being together, the girlfriend discovered his true face, that is, he never talked about money.
When going out, as long as the girlfriend does not say, he will never pull out his wallet, but let the girlfriend pay. Even when he went out to take a taxi and watch a movie, he was unwilling to let his girlfriend pay for it.
The ex-boyfriend said that he liked his girlfriend, but his behavior was very different from what he said, very contradictory.
At first, the girlfriend felt that it didn't matter, but after a long time, he was still like this, unwilling to spend money, and wanted to take advantage of the girlfriend. Therefore, the girlfriend began to have some mustard in her heart.
In the end, the girlfriend still took the initiative to say goodbye to each other and no longer believed in each other's routines.
If a man is always extra stingy when it comes to money, he is not willing to spend money, and even wants to take advantage of you, then you really have to be careful.
Because he just wants to calculate you, doesn't want to spend a penny, and wants to enjoy the feelings.
In fact, men are not strapped for money, but they are not willing to spend money for you. Keep a little more attention and you'll be able to see if he doesn't want to spend money on you, or the difference between what he can't do.
To outsiders, he seems to be very affectionate and speaks nice love words, but only you know that as long as you talk about money, he will definitely sell miserable and pitiful.
Make a look that wants to spend money on you, but has no money on hand, which makes you soft-hearted. If you are tough, he will shift the spearhead to you, saying that you are too fond of gold and only look at money.
But in fact, you are not wrong, just an excuse that he does not want to spend money for you.
02
Time
To see if a man is infatuated with you, it depends on how much time he spends in your relationship.
The writer Su Qian once said a passage that is still very applicable:
"The most extravagant people in the world are those who are willing to spend time with you. Everyone's time is valuable, and to give it to you is equivalent to giving your own world to you. ”
It can be said that time is the most precious thing for everyone, and its status is even more important than money. Just like some men, he is very generous to you in terms of money, and the time spent with you is pitiful.
Yang Chun is such a man, because he is doing sales and needs to run business every day.
If he was so busy occasionally, he could understand it, but Yang Chun was so busy every time, and when his girlfriend sent him a message, he never returned. Sometimes, the girlfriend is wronged, and when he needs him, he is always busy.
In fact, if anyone is really busy, they are just not willing to spend time with you. People who truly love you, no matter what time, will have time.
A girl once came to me to talk, she and her boyfriend are in a long-distance relationship, and seeing that on the anniversary of the two, the boyfriend told her that she did not have time to go back.
Although she was not angry, she was still very disappointed in her heart, but what she did not expect was that the day before the anniversary, her boyfriend suddenly rushed back.
It turned out that in order to be able to come back, the boyfriend deliberately worked overtime to complete the work, so that they could spend the anniversary together.
Many times, to see if a man loves you or not, it depends on whether he is willing to spend time for you.
Perfunctory and serious, the girl can really see it; he deliberately pretends not to have time, or does he have time but is not willing to accompany you, everyone knows it.
So, those men who are not willing to spend time for you, pushing and blocking, you are just a spare tire for him.
03
Details
Good feelings are not necessarily vigorous, but in those details that are difficult for ordinary people to detect.
Because people will lie, they will justify themselves, but the details will not.
There is such a couple around, the two people are very affectionate, their love is not deliberately shown to outsiders, but printed in the details.
Every time they meet, men will take the bag carried by the woman in their hands, buy a drink, and take the initiative to unscrew the bottle cap and hand it to each other.
Go to the supermarket to buy something, the man will first see what the woman likes, and then buy it directly and take it home directly.
The lives of two people are not so rich, and they have not given each other any expensive gifts. But such a life is happier.
So, the man who really loves you, he will be able to do it, and will think about you in the details.
On the contrary, if a person says he loves you, but only keeps love on his lips, and does not remember what you like and hate, it means that he does not love you so much.
Because you don't love, so don't care, everything in you is not so important to him.
But this lack of details can really make you chill.
Therefore, if a man has no details about you, even if he looks flawless on the outside, he is only defeated on the inside, extra fragile, and cannot withstand a little test.
When you meet someone you like, whether you love it or not, whether it is sincere or routine, you can actually distinguish it, and sometimes you are just deceiving yourself.
Those who routine you are just unwilling to pay, do not want to pay time, and do not want to pay money and sincerity.
For such a person, there is really no need to have too much reluctance and nostalgia. Because you have to understand that what you need is a real relationship, not being tricked and being used.
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