If you want to reunite with a man, make 3 preparations, he will take the initiative to come to you

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Feelings are always the result of two people's mutual attraction, not one person's effort.

—— sammy

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Joy or sorrow - there I have always been with you

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As the saying goes: "Broken mirrors are hard to re-round." ”

After all, both people have come out of the end of the breakup, and emotional problems have already occurred.

But not everyone can let go of the past feelings, and can smoothly forget the past people.

The real situation is often that although they are separated on the surface, they still love each other in their hearts, pretend not to care during the day, and frantically spy on each other's lives at night.

Not only that, but there are many people who even want to continue to be with their ex and get back together.

But it is easy to separate, but it is difficult to compound. You may still have hope for the relationship, but he may have been disappointed in you already.

In fact, love has never been absolute, if you really love each other, want to really save this relationship, then you must use some methods, the success rate of your compound will be greatly improved.

If you want to reconcile with a man after a breakup, make 3 "preparations" in advance, and he will take the initiative to come to you.

01

Evoke common memories

As long as you have been together sincerely, there will be many good and unforgettable memories, and these precious experiences are the key to opening the door to your reunion.

Like many separated couples, even if they are no longer in touch, as long as you revisit the old place alone and look for the happy times you once had, the past feelings will be rekindled.

Just like some boys, after breaking up, when they see the gifts given to them by their ex, they will unconsciously think of the time they once spent with each other.

If a man still wants to understand the status of the ex after breaking up, wants to know what the ex is doing, or wants to understand whether there are new people around the ex, this proves that he still has feelings and attachments to the ex.

This is the case in the costume drama "Step by Step", when Yongzheng was still the Fourth Prince, he and Ruoxi had feelings, and the two were together for a long time.

But a series of things happened in the middle, and their relationship ended. Later, Ruoxi died of a serious illness, and Yongzheng was very sad.

When he inadvertently turned his hand back, he suddenly touched his braid, and Yongzheng unconsciously remembered the memories of being with Ruoxi.

At that time, he and Ruoxi just had a conflict, and both of them were very angry, but Ruoxi suddenly let Yongzheng turn his back on himself, and Yongzheng did so.

As a result, she picked up Yongzheng's braid and said in a gamble: "They all say that the emperor's braids can't be touched, and I want to hold your little braids." ”

At that moment, Yongzheng was not angry at once.

Since then, every time Yongzheng touches his braid, he will think of this memory.

Therefore, if you want to get back together, you must choose when the boy still has a little affection for you, and use common memories to evoke the other party's love for himself.

If he accepts it all, it means that there is still a possibility between you. If he doesn't have any attitude, then you really don't have to continue together.

02

Mutual friend assists

Mutual friends really have a very important role to play in keeping together.

In particular, two people say that they are separated from each other in one breath, obviously have feelings for each other, but no one pays attention to anyone, this only relies on one of the parties to take the initiative, it is difficult to break the ice.

At this time, if there is a mutual friend who can persuade you to make peace among you, and you are walking down the steps, you will naturally be able to reconcile.

I've been through things like this.

When I went to college, the school divided the dormitories according to the people of different majors. Therefore, we dorm six people, on five majors. And one of my roommates happened to have a crush on my classmate, and I matched in the middle, and the two of them established a relationship.

Later, they broke up because of emotional problems. But within a few days, the roommate wanted to get back together, so he asked me to help and asked the roommate's ex. In this way, they had the opportunity to contact and eventually reunite smoothly.

But everything is different, if the other party is very angry, then be sure to wait for the other party to calm down the emotions, and then let the middleman help to match, so that the other party will have more compound ideas.

Especially for those boys who are serious about love, even if they are separated, they will not immediately start new feelings, usually look at the recent situation of the ex, or care about the ex from time to time, which can quickly compound.

And the middleman can also mention the recent situation of the girl to the man from time to time, if the girl has a new suitor around, she can also inadvertently say it to stimulate the man to take the initiative and the girl to propose a compound.

This is just a quick way for them to re-close the relationship, and it also hits the girl's heart.

03

Strive to be excellent

It is said that women have Mu Qiang's heart, in fact, men also have it in their hearts, when men see that women are of high value, no matter what, he will not let go easily.

But some girls are not so good at first, so boys may offer to break up because of this.

At this time, many girls will want to save each other, and even begin to stalk. In fact, using this method will only backfire and push the other party farther.

Because the more you take the initiative to entangle, the more the other party wants to break off contact with you, and you will not interact with each other.

Lingling and her boyfriend broke up after this is the case, because Lingling loves her boyfriend very much, and after she separated from her boyfriend, she blocked her boyfriend on the way to work and wanted to persuade the other party to change his mind.