Author: Tang Xiaoxiao
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After re-brushing "The Biography of Zhen Huan" N times, I brushed "Step by Step" again, feeling the same as last time, still not like the heroine Ruoxi (only discuss the role, do not rise to the actor).
Ruoxi's personality in the early stage was very good, but in the later stage, especially after the fourth master became emperor, her whole person was very screwed, and the audience in the bullet screen was also very noisy.
Some of them feel that she is very kind, this also wants to help, that also wants to help, there is no problem at all, because these people have a relationship with her.
The other part felt that she was the Virgin, that she was a spirit, that she had nothing to do, and that it was no wonder that she had depression.
Emotionally, I can understand Ruoxi, she has been friends with several princes and has had many good times. They were her friends, even like relatives. But when the fourth master became emperor, she always couldn't get along with the other brothers, so she couldn't help but want to help them, and she resented the fourth master in her heart.
But Ruoxi's help did not play any role, but made things worse and made everyone more unhappy.
When I watched "Step by Step", I thought about a sentence over and over again: Don't interfere with the fate of others.
Ruoxi has been interfering, and the ending proves that interfering in the fate of others not only makes oneself miserable, but also increases the suffering of others.
She first interfered with the eighth master, did not want the eighth master to compete for the throne, and threatened to break up. The reason, of course, is very high, she is for his good, because she knows the ending and wants to save his life.
The result? The Eighth Master was in so much pain that he couldn't figure it out, I was fighting for the throne and the odds were so great, why didn't you let me fight? You say that for my good is for me?
Like some parents, when they see their children doing something, they know from experience that they can't do it, so they interfere everywhere. But does interference work? It is useless, it will only make the child very miserable and feel that the parents do not understand themselves.
In "Know It or Not", after the little grandfather took the career path, he went on a rampage, and his mother was very worried and always wanted to persuade him not to be impulsive. The father sighed helplessly and said, "When the child is older, he always has to go out and break in on his own, hit his head and bleed, and only in the dead of night will he think about what is wrong with him."
This approach is very clever, parents with their own experience, but still can not interfere with the child, how can others interfere?
Even if the interference was successful and the life of the Eighth Master was saved, it must be good? Since people have decided to fight for the throne, they know what the end will be after failure, but they still choose to fight, which means that people do not just want to live, but want to live vigorously, and if they fail, they will accept it.
Later, the eighth master really accepted the arrangement of fate, and since the general trend had gone, it was so. At least, no regrets.
You see, everyone has a different view of life, Ruoxi hopes that The Eighth Master is alive, and the Eighth Master wants more than just to live.
No one is wrong, but a person always feels that his ideas are better, and strives to interfere with others, let others live according to their own ideas, say that it is better to listen to it, like to worry, and say that it is difficult to listen to it is called nosy.
Loving each other and doing good for each other is not a reason to interfere with others. If you insist on interfering, it can only be a continuous pain, and everyone is suffering.
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Later, Ruoxi always wanted to help The Eighth Master and help everyone she knew in the palace.
The idea of helping someone she once loved was right, but her way was wrong. There is a saying how to say, help the anxious not help the poor.
If there is an urgent matter, help others to get through the difficulties, you can help. If it is a daily thing, even if others have a very bad life, do not easily reach out to help, because it is useless to help, and it cannot change anything.
When the thirteenth master was imprisoned, Lu Wu wanted to accompany him, and Ruoxi begged the emperor to be perfect, only to be punished to kneel in the imperial garden.
The fourteenth master went to the emperor and was punished to kneel, and then several other brothers knelt with him, and finally helped Ruoxi to get things done.
This is actually an emergency, the company of Lu Wu is very important to the thirteenth master, and it is a very big thing, and it is good to do it once, and it will not be done every day.
Although the emperor was embarrassed, he still felt that several people had feelings and righteousness, and finally did what they wished.
In the later period, the fourth master became the emperor, and Ruoxi probably felt that it was more convenient for her to talk, so helping people became more and more unprincipled, no matter how big or small, she had to help a gang.
The eighth master was reprimanded by the fourth master, and punished for kneeling - this is actually a daily routine between them, as long as the fourth master becomes the emperor, and does not eliminate the jealousy of the eighth master, this kind of thing will happen often, today is the punishment of kneeling, tomorrow may be a penalty, the day after tomorrow may also be degraded.
This kind of thing does not need to help, basically belongs to the more help, the more troublesome. Originally, between two people is a work reason, you help to help, and finally from the work reason to the emotional reason, the problem is more and more complicated.
But Ruoxi did not, as soon as he heard that the eighth master was punished for kneeling, he could not get up on his knees, forcing the fourth master to take back his life. In the end, it was successful, but the contradictions also deepened.
Obviously, Ruoxi can't help well, she only has one trick, that is, to force the dominant party to give in.
This is a bit of a moral kidnapping, why the dominant side has to give in, you want to be a peacemaker is not impossible, but both sides have to take into account, both sides have benefits, you then mediate in the middle, so as to reach a reconciliation. If one side is forced to make concessions, the result is that no one is happy.
It's a bit like a husband and wife divorcing two people, obviously the man cheated, and now the woman is determined to divorce, so relatives are going to persuade the woman, let the other party not be unreasonable, don't force the man too tightly.
They don't persuade it to be okay, they persuade people to divorce more, they feel that this man is unbearable, they have not dared to divorce after cheating, and they also find a lot of relatives to be lobbyists.
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I think this drama is simply to warn the audience, there is nothing to blindly interfere in other people's lives, and do not blindly mix with other people's affairs.
Ruoxi made so many efforts, but in the end they were all in vain, and everyone's fate has never changed because of her efforts.
This ending is very realistic, which is probably the reason why "Step by Step" can be a big fire, although what Ruoxi did makes people feel angry, but everything is in line with the world.
She couldn't change anything after all, except to let her negative energy burst.
Don't be too lucky, you will be much happier, and you will also make the people around you a lot happier.