Judge whether a man will betray after marriage, just look at his family

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In recent years, young people have been talking about the impact of their families of origin.

So, is the impact of the original family really so great?

By studying psychology, it is discovered that it is indeed crucial for a person's growth. If parents take a detour in education, it will even affect the child's life when they grow up.

Just like some native families, without the guidance of their father, children grow up, either think that they are not worthy of being loved, and it is easy to meet "scum" men.

Or the family is not well guided, resulting in children who always like to change their hearts in their feelings when they grow up and betray them in marriage.

When choosing a husband, men from 3 kinds of families can not choose, they are easy to betray the marriage, hurt the partner, women must keep a heart eye.

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"Prodigal" men, from "doting" families of origin

In life, there is such a man, there is no sense of responsibility in the relationship to speak of, even if there is marriage, children, he will still betray.

But before marriage, he did this, after marriage, he still did not change his disposition, as long as he felt that the marriage was flat, he would seek outward, like a child, when he encountered problems, he chose to escape.

I have such a friend by my side.

His parents started a factory, grew up rich, and never considered the issue of money.

Therefore, he was bored from school to junior high school, so he proposed to drop out of school with his family, and his parents were already very doting on him and directly agreed.

In this way, he began to eat, drink and play at home as a teenager, mixing with society, no matter what he did, his parents would not blame him, but tried their best to help him clean up.

Therefore, for a while, he went around investing wildly, and as a result, he lost a lot of money.

Not only in life he goes his own way, but also in the relationship is the same, when he is not married, he always "splits legs" as a writer's common meal.

Later, when I reached the age of marriage, I married a girl who seemed to be suitable. Soon after marriage, he felt that marriage was too boring.

He returned to his pre-marital state and began to walk with other members of the opposite sex, and all of this, his partner did not know anything, because he hid too deeply, coupled with the good conditions of his family, his partner mistakenly thought that he was also good.

Therefore, in the face of this kind of man, women must not be rescuers, because you can't change him at all, after all, he has lived like this for decades, and his personality and habits have long been deeply rooted in the bone marrow, and it is impossible to say that change will change.

There is also a solution, that is, don't take him seriously, live your own life, and pretend to be wrong with his life outside.

Or leave early and don't focus on this kind of man, it's really not worth it.

Of course, at this time, many men will also realize that they are not the same in marriage as in their original family.

The family of origin can tolerate his problems infinitely, while marriage will not. At this time, he understands that if he comes over, he will relent, but after a while he will still make a comeback.

02

"Ostrich-type" men, from "intervention-type" families of origin

Such a man hides really deeply, because his external aura is really bright.

For example, his education will be very eye-catching and people can't take their eyes off it; or his resume will be very bright and he has a very good job.

This will make many girls think that he must be a good man in terms of feelings.

But it must be remembered that no matter how much aura and merit he has, it can only mean that he is very capable in society, but not emotionally.

This kind of man, usually raised under the arrangement of his parents, followed the path pointed out by his family, so his first half of his life will be very perfect.

But because his parents did not have a sense of proportion, they always intervened and arranged his life. Although he was obedient on the surface, he was very dissatisfied in his heart.

So in the marriage, his dissatisfaction will be released, and he will retaliate against his parents in a betrayal way.

Originally, this was a contradiction between him and his parents, but you accidentally became that "victim".

Because of his betrayals again and again, you are hurt a lot. After his betrayal was discovered, he even thought of escaping and hid behind his parents.

In the end, parents apologize to you for the sake of their children and persuade them to reconcile. Many women see this posture, soft heart choose to forgive, and then maybe it will be exchanged for men's change.

Unless you find a professional psychological counselor to solve this, there is really no good solution, after all, this is a psychological problem brought about by many years.

It is impossible to untie his knot with a few words.

03

"Kangaroo-type" men, from "suffering" native families

This kind of man is often a "phoenix man", and he wants to be a "son-in-law" at the beginning.

Such men are usually from single-parent families, or very poor families, and even come from a relatively low birth compared to ordinary people.

Because he grew up in a poor environment, he suffered a lot, so he will be more mature than other peers.

When you are young, you know that you are working hard and are very motivated, but the efforts of ordinary people are limited after all. Maybe a lifetime of hard work may not be able to reach the starting point of some families.

Therefore, he moved his crooked mind and wanted to break through the class through marriage.

Therefore, he may not have any feelings for his partner, but because of the interests, he will stop at nothing to find a way to marry the other party.

After that, he used the power of the woman's family to start showing his skills. But as his status grew higher, he began to swell.

After all, he is a "high wife", and even if he is excellent, he will not get enough respect.

That's why he's trying so hard. But after success, he began to raise his eyebrows, and even did not know gratitude, and began to work everywhere.

Coupled with the poverty of their families in their early years, driven by inferiority, he would even find a woman out there who was much worse than himself to satisfy his vanity.

After all, men care more about dignity than women. When he has the ability to prove his dignity, he will do whatever it takes, even in the form of betrayal.

At this time, the woman can see the true face of the man, but now it is too late to regret it, and the other party has brought her too deep harm.

In this case, most of them will end in divorce. Because he had no feelings for women in the beginning, and even more so after success.

In the face of the above three kinds of men, do not think of compromise, must stay away. Otherwise you will become selfless and eventually become a dough to be kneaded.

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