Men who behave this way will most likely fail you in the future

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A man's mind is uncertain, mainly depending on whether he is mature and willing to take on corresponding responsibilities.

——sammy

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Many people think that as long as a man is married and has children, he will automatically mature.

As a result, many parents see that their sons have reached a mature age, but they are still not motivated and naïve. They will all frantically urge marriage, hoping that their children will become mature through marriage.

But in fact, men do not become mature after marriage. On the contrary, he is the same at all times.

However, they have become more cautious in doing things after marriage, and they will not easily let outsiders or people around them know. That's why everyone thinks he's mature.

Such a man, no matter how many times he has been married, is the same, he is still uncertain, still unwilling to take responsibility for the family.

Usually, men have such behaviors, most of them are not honest, and it is easy to do sorry for you in the future.

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Always shirk responsibility

One of the most obvious manifestations of men who don't accept their hearts is that they never take responsibility.

Therefore, they can not get married without getting married, just thinking about falling in love, only thinking about being with each other, but not willing to be responsible for each other and give her a clear future.

And the reason why he did this is because he didn't play enough, and he didn't want to tie himself up because of marriage.

Because of this, if we want to see a man's mind is uncertain, it depends on whether he is willing to marry you.

See if he is sincere and has been living with you all the time, instead of superficially falling in love with you, but riding a donkey to find a horse behind his back, or splitting legs.

In the movie "He Doesn't Really Like You That Much", the beth and boyfriend in it are like this.

The two have obviously been together for 7 years, and they are getting older and older, and beth has always had the intention of getting married.

But the boyfriend has always been reluctant to get married, as long as he talks about getting married, he will find various excuses to escape.

In the end, Beth couldn't bear it, she couldn't accept her boyfriend's appearance, and chose to break up.

In fact, this kind of man is the least responsible, because they always want to avoid everything, and they are not willing to be in a stable relationship.

As long as the other party needs him to be responsible, he immediately wakes up in his heart, either to find a reason to break up with the other party, or to continue to want to be with the other party, but does not want to be responsible for the other party and marry the other party.

And he did this for two main reasons, either he didn't have the ability to bear it now, or he had the ability, but he was unwilling to bear it.

Because his mind is hidden deeply, many women cannot detect that his heart is uncertain, and can only be reflected when it comes to future problems.

So, if you want to know the man around you, your mind is uncertain, talk to him more about the future.

If he is willing to marry you and is willing to take responsibility for you, then naturally everyone is happy. On the contrary, if he is torn down, or thinks that your relationship is not in place, then you need to think about the relationship.

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I have been reluctant to do so

Some men, in fact, when they get married, they think well, want to be loyal to marriage, loyal to their partners.

But if such a friend appears next to him, the other party also has a partner, but he is always proud of betrayal, always showing off in front of him while maintaining multiple relationships.

The more he listens, he will think that his friend is so dashing, but he looks at himself, but he has only one partner around. Over time, his heart will become unbalanced.

Over time, he will break through his psychological defenses and, like his friends, choose betrayal, or maintain ambiguous relationships with multiple members of the opposite sex at the same time.

I've seen such a story.

There is a newly married couple, and the woman repeatedly reminds the man that after marriage, he must remain loyal, do not carry her outside, and have an affair with the other opposite sex.

But the man said: "Now husband and wife, outsiders look happy and happy, but in fact, maybe both people are betraying each other behind each other's backs." ”

In fact, men are using this way to "brainwash" women, implying that in most marriages, men and women are in harmony.

Men also said that in the current marriage, women have long learned to turn a blind eye, not too shrewd, just for the harmony of the family.

The man obviously tells the woman on the side that he may not be loyal in the future, and he does not know when, he will betray, so he will say such things to the woman, let her not be too careful with herself, and live in confusion.

In life, there are really too many such men, a wife in the family, and they know the roots, but they contact many women outside and play every scene.

Because they are not willing to settle down, but they also want to have a emotional retreat, want a stable marriage, need a virtuous wife, and can tolerate their own warblers and swallows outside.

Therefore, do not think that when a man is married, he will settle down.

On the contrary, they settle down on the surface, but in fact, they are still the same as before, as long as there is a certain temptation, they will go back to the old way.

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So, under what circumstances can a man be calm and honest?

To see if a man wants to settle his mind, it depends on his attitude and on his efforts.

For example, if a man meets a woman who wants to get married, he will always make a guarantee with you that he will not betray you.

Moreover, he will take the initiative to pay you, and even the house will take the initiative to add your name to make you completely at ease.

He will impress you with all sincerity and gain your trust.

Although this does not guarantee that in the future, it can guarantee that now, his heart is really placed on you, and he is willing to stay away from those temptations for you.

But how long this state of affairs can last is unknown.

There is also a possibility that when a man is not rich, because of his own limited conditions, even if he has the intention of betrayal, but because he does not have enough money, he has no conditions to betray.

Therefore, at this time, he will live a good life with the woman in front of him and strive to create a better future.

There was also a situation when he was sick.

Friends told me that her uncle always betrayed in his early years, and her aunt endured for the sake of the family. Later, as time went on, my uncle grew old and fell seriously ill.

The only person to take care of him was the eldest aunt, and since then, the uncle has not betrayed again, and the two people have lived in peace.

It can be seen that a man's heart is uncertain, mainly depending on whether he is mature and willing to assume corresponding responsibilities.

Moreover, a man's current concentration does not mean that he can receive his heart for the rest of his life. The only thing you can do is to stay sane, not to trust a man's rhetoric, to see his nature, and then to consider going through a lifetime.

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