Men love you, but they don't want to spend money for you, for three reasons

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Spending money on the woman he likes never hurts, on the contrary, he will even be full of joy.

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Joy or sorrow - there I have always been with you

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In reality, many men always say one set and do one set.

He says nice things to you, but when it comes to his action, he disappears, or looks for reasons everywhere and tries his best to escape.

Therefore, many women do not understand, why is it that he who loves me, and it is he who finally rebels? Obviously speaking of love and love, but when it comes to the problem of money, it will change its attitude?

In fact, the man who does this has both sincerity and false intentions, and you must identify it in advance.

In fact, men love you but are reluctant to spend money for you for the following reasons.

01

He was too selfish

In relationships, there is such a man who is extremely selfish, not only to friends, but also to partners.

Because they care too much about themselves and don't consider the feelings of the people around them, it will lead to such a situation.

He is always very generous to himself, but he accidentally cuts the door to his lover, he can spend thousands of yuan to buy a pair of shoes for himself, but he is not willing to spend hundreds of yuan to buy skin care products for his lover.

There is a couple, the woman likes a bag of tens of thousands, but the man is too expensive, persuade her not to buy, but the woman still likes it too much and has been thinking about it.

So, every month, she would save a part of her salary, save it for three months, and finally buy her beloved bag home.

But after the man knew, he was furious, thinking that the woman was too wasteful, and even spent so much money to buy a bag, and the two people had a fierce quarrel over this matter.

After this matter fermented on the Internet, it was also on the hot search, and netizens accused men of being too selfish:

"If you don't want to spend money on others, you don't want to spend your own money." "Because of a bag, it is worth seeing each other's hearts."

Clear-eyed people can see that a man does not have no money in his hands, but does not want to spend money on women, not only does not want to spend money on her, but also wants to take the woman's money for himself.

Even if a woman uses her own money to buy something she likes, he will be furious, but accuse the woman of not being virtuous enough and not caring enough for the family.

But looking at himself, no matter how much money he spends, it is a matter of course, but women can't spend it, and the double standard is excessive.

The final outcome is also very happy, the woman finally chooses to break up with the man, ending this unequal relationship.

Fu Seoul once said: "Money can't explain all the problems, but it can definitely explain some problems." All empty sweet words without any substantive action are essentially taking advantage. ”

On the surface he doesn't want to spend money on you, but the deeper reason is because he only wants to take it, not give it to you. Especially when it comes to interests, he will turn his face with you, and even guard against you at all times, worried that you will take advantage.

This kind of man, you are not pit by him is not bad, it is impossible to love you, he does not deserve to have your true heart.

02

He has no money for the time being, but he works hard

There is such a man who is willing to spend everything and does not let you spend at the same time, he will keep all the money in one account.

In ordinary life, he saves too much, sometimes even makes you unbearable, and once makes you wonder if he does not love you, it will be so.

On the contrary, this kind of man is for your future. Your money is still limited, but there are too many places where you can use your money, houses, cars, and so on.

Therefore, for the sake of a clear future, he will give up his current comfort, will not use his mobile phone well, and will not buy himself good clothes.

At the same time, he does not let you buy expensive skin care products and bags, rarely takes you out on dates, and even takes you to dinner a few times, saving money by cooking every day.

This kind of man is similar in some ways to the first kind of man just mentioned, both are very provincial to you and are not willing to spend money for you. But the difference between them is that the former is very generous to themselves and very critical of you.

The latter is not only more critical of you, but also of yourself. In fact, it's not that he doesn't want to be nice to you, but because his current ability is limited.

Therefore, he will do his best to change the current living conditions. When life gets better, he will do his best to meet your requirements.

Not only will it make you buy something you like, but it will also care about your feelings and will not make you insecure.

This kind of man who never speaks love and will only do practical things often treats you most sincerely, and you may suffer with him for a while, but you will definitely become happy in the future.

03

He doesn't actually love you

Love, at first, is spiritual satisfaction, but after a long time together, it will rise from spiritual to material.

Because of this, many women, when they first fell in love, did not care about money, but after spending a long time together, they began to care whether men were willing to spend money for themselves.

Because in an intimate relationship, when a man really loves you, he will be willing to spend money for you and sacrifice his own interests for you.

In the TV series "Let's Get Married", he fell in love with carambola. In the beginning, they also went on a date to eat together, just like the average couple.

But as they spent more time together, the starfruit had the desire to get married. Sure enough, they also think that their relationship has reached the step of marriage.

Therefore, on the day of the marriage proposal, he really handed over his salary card, house book, and deposit card to the hand of the star fruit.

Because in his view, sweet words are all false, and only those with money can best prove their intentions.

Therefore, the man who loves you will turn in all his salary and only leave a little living expense in his hand.

On the contrary, men who don't love you won't tell you about his savings, and they won't even spend money for you.

And there's only one reason he did that, and that was that he didn't love you that much and never wanted to spend the rest of his life with you.

For men, spending money on the opposite sex he likes will never be painful, on the contrary, he will even be full of joy.

So, when a man isn't willing to spend money on you, you have to see if he's doing the same to himself or just to you.

Learn to observe, and you can discern his true heart. So, is your significant other willing to spend money on you?

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