Women have these 3 qualities, even if they never take the initiative, men will fall deeply in love

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Many women don't understand why they have taken the initiative to give in a relationship, but the man they like still has no feelings for themselves.

In fact, this is the most useless method. In fact, men are not like women, not because you are good to him, he will fall in love with you, they are at most touched with you.

But touching is not love, and even if he is really with you because of touching, then you will not last long.

So, in the world of women chasing men, don't always have the idea that "as long as I'm good to him, he'll fall in love with me." The right way to chase someone is to attract him and guide him to take the initiative on you, not to overdo it.

If a woman has the following qualities, even if she never takes the initiative, the man will fall deeply in love.

01

Don't let him get you too soon

Men are different from women, and men are born with a very strong desire to conquer. If women like the process of ambiguity, then men will enjoy the process of pursuing each other more.

So, when you like a guy, don't be too enthusiastic and don't be too flattering to the other person. On the contrary, you should take the initiative appropriately first, and then hang the other party a little bit and guide the other party.

For example, you can chat with each other every day. After this, you specifically look for a day, all day without talking to each other, at this time, the man will be very curious, will guess why you suddenly ignored him.

So, he may take the initiative to chat with you, will ask you if you are busy today, what happened and so on.

Only by properly hanging on to each other will he and you have the motivation to continue. However, hanging should also be moderate. After all, everyone's patience is limited, and men will have less patience than women.

So in this, women must give each other a little sweetness, such as a little ambiguous joke, or say a little nice love words, to pry each other.

After all, as long as two people don't have a definite relationship, it's a silent game, you come and go.

Remember, this kind of hint should not be too obvious, do not directly confess to the other party, saying that you want to be with the other party. Men see that you have taken the initiative to showdown, and they will think that you are nothing more than that.

Because it's easy to get, and usually doesn't value it too much, he will think that he knows you well enough that there is no need to continue.

So, women must make the man feel that he seems to have you, but in fact, you are not really together. Let the other party realize that you don't like him that much.

Only then will he continue to take the initiative with you, and in this way, let the man focus on you. Over time, nature will develop feelings for you.

02

The heart becomes strong

Love is not marriage, marriage will not be easily divorced, but love is not, as long as one party says to break up, it means that the relationship has ended.

And separation does not mean that you are not suitable for each other, and part of the reason may be because the woman's spirit and heart are not independent and strong.

As long as they are truly engaged in a relationship, they will put all their energy into each other's bodies, rely too much on their boyfriends, do not give each other a chance to breathe, and everything revolves around men.

Over time, a man cannot accept it, because in his view, even if he is in love, he must have his own space and life, and love is only a stage of life.

Coupled with the fact that love is not a savior, its appearance does not save your life. Therefore, your boyfriend is not obliged to give up his life or lose part of his time to save you.

Therefore, the only thing a woman can do is to put excess energy into herself, work hard, change herself, where there are problems, where there are deficiencies, make up for themselves, self-sufficiency.

Over time, a woman's heart will become rich, full, and powerful, and she will become more confident. Because of self-confidence, it will attract excellent men.

Even if you have a relationship with a good man, you will not put too much energy into feelings, but try to change your life.

They never suspect ghosts, think that men change their minds behind their backs, and they don't think about it every day and quarrel in different ways to prove that the other party really loves themselves.

When a man meets a woman who lives a transparent life, he will naturally be attracted, even if the woman does not take the initiative, he will also take the initiative to pursue.

03

Make him feel more comfortable

For most men, the purpose of being in a relationship is to make themselves happier and more comfortable.

So, if the man around you is having a hard time in this relationship, he will definitely not stick to it, and he is not willing to continue to be with you, but this does not mean that he is a "scumbag" man.

Empathetically, if you started an intimate relationship and found that you were not living happily in that relationship, what would you do? I believe most women will consider separation, and so will men.

When he feels a lot of pain, he naturally chooses to flee.

If you want to be with a guy you like all the time, make sure he feels "comfortable" in the relationship. The meaning of this sentence is not to make you put down your body and please the other party.

It's about finding a way to deal with the emotional problems between you, and then reaching a balance. You are comfortable in this relationship, and he is happy in this relationship, to achieve a win-win situation.

For example, you will provide him with some emotional value, when he is in a bad mood, you will give him enough comfort and companionship, or when he is in a low mood, you can make him happy.

It's like a woman who likes to listen to sweet words in her relationship, but it's actually the same nature. Everyone likes to make themselves happy every day, and if he lives with you, he becomes not only happy, but also full of hope for life.

Then, he will definitely not want to be separated from you, and even "addicted" and want to be around you every day.

If a woman, in the relationship with each other to make a mistake, let no one have a good time, and eventually lose both, then how can he want to spend the rest of his life with you?

I'm afraid he'll just think about how to break up with you.

Feelings are actually also powerful, it requires you to progress, to improve yourself, when you are excellent, the problems in the feelings, many will be solved.

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