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Feelings cannot be retained, let alone reluctantly.
—— sammy
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Joy or sorrow - there I have always been with you
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Compared with men, women are more likely to fall into love, and when they are trapped for a long time, they will even lose themselves.
The more deeply the so-called authorities are obsessed, the easier it is to see the other party's true heart.
I don't know if the other party loves me, but I still give it wishfully, but in the end, I end up empty.
In fact, whether a person has feelings for you or not, there is still a way to know. After spending a long time with him, as long as you have the heart, you will be able to find out.
Many times, when men hate you in their hearts, there is a kind of "performance" that is obvious and cannot be hidden.
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There is no common language
If two lovers live together, there will be countless common languages, and there will be a desire to talk, and they want to talk to each other about everything.
Therefore, they can always find a lot of topics and talk for a long time. Just like the well-known self-media blogger papi sauce and husband Lao Hu, no matter how busy they are, they will always spend half an hour to an hour at night, chatting with each other.
Because as long as a man loves you, then you are the person he trusts the most and is closest to, and he will tell you everything in one go, and even regard you as the most important person in his life.
On the contrary, if he does not love you, his attitude will naturally change.
I have too many such messages in the background, and when many women first fall in love, their boyfriends and themselves are like glue, and as long as they have time, they will chat with themselves.
Sometimes I will share my life, and sometimes I will complain to her about things at work. It can be said that all the things about men, she knows everything.
But after a long time together, the attitude of the men slowly changed.
He no longer speaks his mind as he did in the past, but holds his mobile phone every day and is silent. Even if they take the initiative to talk to each other and talk about their feelings, what they get is only perfunctory.
Or every time they can't say a few words, men will argue with them, accuse them of being too promiscuous, and say that they can't communicate, and eventually end up unhappy.
So sometimes, the man Mu Ne is not his personality like this, but because he hates you in his heart and does not love you, so there will be such a big change.
Stop fooling yourself, because if you run away, the outcome of things will not change in any way.
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Unwilling to compromise for you
In any intimate relationship, even if two people who love each other again, when they are together, they cannot be intimate all the time, and there will be contradictions and quarrels.
After all, everyone's way of doing things, personality is different, and the way things are solved will not be the same.
Because everyone's heart will first think about their own feelings, even if they love each other, they can't do everything to accommodate others. However, men who really care about you can often be the first to compromise and make concessions for you.
But this does not mean that he really did something wrong, nor does it mean that he conceded defeat, but it just shows that face is more important than you.
On the contrary, if a man no longer loves you, then he will not worry about your feelings as before, and he will not be willing to listen to your words, and even when quarreling, he will not take the initiative to give in for you and make appropriate concessions.
Even if you want to talk to him well and discuss with him with the best attitude, he is still unwilling to change, continue to do his own thing, and act according to his own ideas and wishes.
If he didn't have this attitude toward you before, but now he has become like this, it only means that he doesn't love you anymore.
Because there is no you in your heart, you will know that you are uncomfortable in your heart and continue to hurt you.
He knows that he should not reason with you, but he will still argue with you on the basis of reason, and everything must be right and wrong.
If he does this for the first time, it may be an accident, and if he does it every time, it often means that he has long ceased to love you.
If you see these details and still don't understand them enough, the result can only be hurt.
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Everything is pushed on you
Two people together, as long as they have love for each other, they will definitely empathize with each other. Because love will definitely make you try to stand in each other's shoes and think about problems. In life, you will also know how to take the initiative to understand each other.
For example, if you quarrel, you will reflect on yourself afterwards, which thing is done right, which thing is done wrong, which habit is not good, and next time you will take the initiative to correct it.
Instead of knowing that you have a problem, you are still stubborn and only think about your feelings.
Careful observation, those partners who love each other are always like this, whether it is a big thing or a small thing, they will think about each other, see each other happy, they must be happier than each other, see each other sad, their mood will also unconsciously fall low.
On the contrary, men who don't love you are just the opposite, as long as there is a problem with him, or he is unhappy, the first reaction will never be self-reflection, but will blindly blame you.
When he encounters problems at work, or is accused by his superiors, he is unhappy, as long as he comes home, no matter what you do, whether you work or rest at home, it is wrong.
He will take the previous things, accuse you over and over again, and even insult you, and wait until his negative emotions are completely vented on you, and his heart will be more comfortable.
Simply put, he treats you like an emotional trash can. As long as he is not happy, it will certainly not make you feel better and chilling.
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Never care about you again
There is such a man, when he loves you, he is eager to hold you in the sky, and you are like glue, and he boos you and asks for warmth. It is no exaggeration to say that if you cough, he will be worried enough and will buy you medicine.
Not only that, he will be very attentive to everything you do, and will remember what you love to eat and what you don't like to eat; when you are together, you are afraid that you are not good enough, afraid that you will be angry.
But how good he was in the past, how indifferent he is now.
Because love also has a shelf life, over time, his love for you will slowly pass.
When he doesn't love you and doesn't want to continue with you, then he will gradually become strange in your eyes, as if he is a stranger with you.
Whatever you become, he will act as if he didn't see it.
This shows that he not only has no love for you in his heart, but even begins to dislike you, and will force you to propose separation in this way.
Feelings cannot be retained, let alone reluctantly.
Since he has already abandoned you, then you continue to be with him, and it is only torture. It is better to separate earlier and let yourself go, so that you can relax.
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