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A few days ago I brushed this screenshot, and after reading it, I completely broke the defense -
△ Source: Netizen @ Tian Buyu
Gao Zan commented: "There are many kinds of love I expect, but my mother only expects one, that is, my response", which hurt many people.
You also had such a time: your mother sent you WeChat, but you were busy working and in love, always forgetting to return to her, and when you remembered this, she said: "It's okay."
Have you ever felt that we have too little place left for our mothers in our lives?
Don't say back to WeChat, flip through the mobile phone photo album, even your cat photos are more than your mother.
This weekend is Mother's Day, and I want to do this with you today—
Find a picture about your mom.
It could be a screenshot of a chat, a photo of the two of you, or you taking a picture of a meal she made for you...
You will find that from a certain moment on, we are used to seeking to be loved in love, but we forget that we have always been loved.
Look at the evidence that you were loved in those years.
01
@3333778
This screenshot of the chat was sent to my ex-boyfriend by my mom when I broke up with my ex-boyfriend.
At that time, we broke up in a hurry, and I cried every day without eating or drinking, which was too uncomfortable.
My mother really couldn't look at it, but she was embarrassed to ask, so she pretended not to know and helped me test him again.
In fact, my mother has not been optimistic about this relationship. The other party did not work, and the conditions were not good in all aspects.
She often complained that "I really don't know what you like about him", and every day she hopes that I will break up quickly.
But when I actually broke up, my mom was so distressed that she completely lost her original position.
02
@Moe
I peeked into my mother's diary.
At that time, there was no mobile phone memo, no way to shoot short videos, and my mother handwritten everything about me word by word, which was a small thing smaller than a fingernail, such as—
My mom found out that the soy sauce was gone, and I offered to say, "I'll buy it."
She wrote in her diary that she was so happy to hear me answer so cheerfully.
After turning the whole book, I found that in my mother's diary, there was no herself at all.
03
@catfly
This kind of photo of a cat is a daily KPI that my mom made for me.
She never cared about the three meals a day of the girl who lived alone, and only paid special attention to my cat (Dongdong).
Every day Thunder asks without moving————
Did you go home? Let's video it, I want to.
When are you going to come back and take Dongdong with you?
If you haven't eaten, remember to add cat food to Dongdong.
I always knew in my heart that she cared for me in the name of caring for cats.
Now that I've learned that when I think about her, the opening statement can be ridiculous—
Mom, Dongdong pulled the stick twice today!!!
Neither of us said anything broken, it became a tacit code word, and we understood everything.
04
@ Big Cat Kitten
My "Human Organ Donation Volunteer Registration Card" was flipped over by my mother.
After she scolded me twice, she shed silent tears.
I comforted her: "If there is no accident, you should not see this day." ”
She must have understood why I did this: My dad died of uremia. He waited for more than ten years for the kidney source, originally there was one, but he didn't know why it was gone.
That despair we will never forget.
Now, this card was put away by my mother, and she carefully placed it in the locked cabinet of our house.
05
@Double Yolk Egg de Egg White
The other day, I asked my mom to test the MBTI as well.
It turned out to be ANFJ, a personality I hardly ever met among my friends.
I told her that my personality was that minion INFP.
I took a look online and it turned out that INFP and ISFJ were born as a pair.
I told my mom that her personality belonged to the Guardian, and she said she wanted to protect me.
06
@Pickup truck
Once, I posted a photo of me and Aidou in the family group -
My mom started thinking I was p figure and joking with her.
Immediately after, I sent a few more photos of the "girlfriend's perspective", and she was a bit convinced.
Thinking that I was talking about the object, I was anxious to ask how the other party's home was, and I looked very uneasy-
Until she knew that this was a "whole deception", while scolding me and interrogating me about the origin of this love bean, she always cared about everything I liked.
Mom is the best "cheat".
I always joked with her, but the only person who could take my outrageous jokes seriously was my mother all over the world.
07
@Happy Prince
My mother and I find each other's way, that is, "come out to play", "gossip no", I will take the initiative to chat with her about various gossip in the entertainment industry.
Although we mingled together every day, she was quite traditional in her heart, and she would still try to persuade me to take the exam-
△ Mom's inner OS: "Even the big stars have been tested, you hurry up and take one."
She works in public institutions, feels that civil servants are stable and not unemployed, and do not want me to get rich, so she wants me to be simple and happy and live a life that cannot be wrong.
So her "careful machine" that is secretly poking and poking, I know it every time, and I can even clearly feel it-
She wanted to educate but didn't educate me about the entanglement and hesitation.
At that moment, I really felt that she was trying to love me in the most comfortable way for me.
08
@Zhouzhou Yankee
This "corn & egg" combination, I've been eating for almost a month —
From sweet corn to waxy corn to fruit corn.
Just because I said at the time, "Eat corn eggs for breakfast is the healthiest." ”
And my mom is that, something that I like once I say—
Will always cook! Cooked every day! Cooked until I'm afraid!
The other day I accidentally said, "The soup is delicious." ”
The next day I saw so many folded ear roots in the refrigerator!!!
My mother's love is always very concrete.
09
@ TheSanfter
When I got home, I took a bottle of unfinished drink with me.
Mom asked what it was, and I told her it was green citrus pu'er tea mixed with pure milk, and I liked to drink it.
When I left the next morning, my mother handed me the bottle and said:
"There is also that little green orange tea at home, I made you a cup, and then i warmed a bottle of milk and mixed it in, and it was still hot, it must be cooler than your one, and you took it to drink on the road."
10
@Marco Polo Duck Duck
When the epidemic in Shanghai first began, my mother was afraid that I would have nothing to eat.
I got up at 6 o'clock in the morning to help me grab food, and when I couldn't grab it, I called me to complain: "I'm so angry that I want to drop my phone." ”
But then again, she always liked to give me thousands of miles of stockpiles before, and this time she beat me straight and saved my life——
Before the pandemic, I was stockpiled with a large box of laundry detergent, aunt towels and garbage bags.
At that time, every time I took the courier, I was scolding and grinning, and it was too tired to carry boxes to home.
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But at this juncture, everything she hoarded for me is now in short supply, and money can't buy it.
After this battle, my mother said what is it, my mother yyds!
11
@Got it
In 2019, I had a hard time conceiving a child, but unfortunately I didn't keep it.
In 2020, I got pregnant again, and when I learned the news, my mother immediately flew from Wuhan to Beijing.
At that time, as soon as the child cried, I would feed, burp, wash my ass, change my diaper, and sleep.
I've seen the moon at one or two o'clock or even five o'clock in the morning, and I haven't slept more than 2 hours in 10 months.
Day and night on the Möbius ring with the baby. But every time I saw the child smiling at me, my heart melted and I felt that it was worth it.
I just feel very guilty about my mother, since I became pregnant, she has stayed with us in a 40-square-meter house in Beijing until now.
I'm almost 60 years old and have to get up in the early hours of the morning to watch my kids with me.
Once I complained casually with her about wrist pain, heel pain, waist pain, and in short, pain all over my body.
She rubbed my wrists while feeling guilty: "My body is not as good as a year, if you were born last, I should be much better than I am now." ”
Touched and uncomfortable after listening, she should have enjoyed retirement now.
【Write at the end】
Remember what was said in "Please Answer 1988":
"It's hard to reach the age when we can comfort my mother, but by then we were already so sensible that we couldn't say thank you, I love you." 」
But I have to admit that no matter how old you are, where you live and work, no matter how much you have bothered your mother, you are always urging marriage to spawn... You still need her love.
As long as she cares, you directly break the defense, do not have to pretend to be strong, you know that she has always been behind you.
As long as you need, even if you are a fund that has fallen and fallen, green and green. Your mother will always hold you in her hand, buy more and more you fall, and never sell.
No matter how old you are, this extravagant love will always invade every crevice of your life to a degree you can't imagine.
This is also one of the few loves in your life that can nourish you completely and unreservedly.
Mom's love is always a silent verb, a kind of "good to you" that doesn't require any words.
Hopefully, today, your love will turn into an open verb.
Written by: Water Ice Moon
Editor-in-charge: Yuan Sandian