The finale of "Xiao Min's Family" almost took the full HE route, the children's group continued to be highly sweet, the parents group Chen Zhuo recovered from illness and Xiao Min completed the honeymoon trip, Jin Bo comprehensively "washed white" to usher in the second spring, everyone has feelings have good results.
Only Liu Xiaojie and Qian Feng, the pair, are still standing still, and Liu Xiaojie, who has been hit by two "scumbag" husbands in a row, does not seem to have the beauty of the people around her, and still has no feeling for her friend Qian Feng, who has loved her for many years.
This makes many viewers feel a pity, why did Qian Feng fail to hold the beauty after so many years of efforts? Why didn't Liu Xiaojie give Qian Feng a chance? Some people complain that the woman pays too much attention to appearance, and some people regret that she misses the best man.
However, it is really a pity that this pair did not come together?
Objectively speaking, it is a pity that Liu Xiaojie did not like Qian Feng, because Qian Feng is indeed a reliable and down-to-earth man, and he is also the only male character in the whole drama who can selflessly pay for her for more than ten years.
If he and Liu Xiaojie love each other, they will be a pair of love CP that is not inferior to Chen Zhuo and Liu Xiaomin, who can survive life's chai rice oil and salt, and can support the daily small warmth, whether it is in the play or in reality, it is the best choice.
But from Liu Xiaojie's two marriages, it can be seen that she is a girl who dares to love very much, and will never be affected by external factors to hide her feelings, a marriage flash marriage, a marriage without communication with the family to get a certificate.
However, she and Qian Feng have known each other for more than ten years, the three views are similar, the personality is similar, if they have had a different spark between each other, with Liu Xiaojie's personality, she decided not to avoid her heart because Qian Feng was an old friend for many years.
The reason why he is still a lover for more than ten years is not because Qian Feng is hesitant to confess, but that he is not Liu Xiaojie's dish at all, in terms of lover choice, Liu Xiaojie has a clear aesthetic orientation: there must be a chemical reaction.
To put it simply, it is the boy who will make her heart move, although the mother treasure attribute shown by her ex-husband Xu Bing after marriage makes Liu Xiaojie unbearable, but before marriage, she and Liu Xiaojie were once very close, and both of them can play games to play sparks.
Xu Zheng is even more needless to say, the romantic mood of the young man and the straight ball attack confession are all hit Xu Xiaojie's preferences, which are not possessed by Qian Feng, who takes the silent guardian route, and his personality cannot be forced out.
Unless there is a new opportunity for Xu Xiaojie to discover a certain personality trait of Qian Feng, deny that she will not have a love spark for Qian Feng, and forcibly be with Qian Feng, it will become because he is a good man, not because he loves him.
This situation is actually more dangerous, and an expert in the marriage observation program "Goodbye Lover" once expressed a point of view, do not overestimate your tolerance for married life without love.
Most people's marriage failures are not necessarily because they meet scumbags and scumbags, but they have entered a marriage without love, and they both want to work hard to manage the marriage, but they can't disguise their feelings.
The friction between Zhu Yaqiong and Wang Qiuyu in the final stage of the couple's married life in "Goodbye Lover" is quite convincing, and the generation gap between the two is actually quite large, but the initial love at first sight has allowed them to stay together for more than ten years.
When love is consumed by the contradictions of life, they choose divorce, and because of unexpected pregnancy and remarriage, having children as a bond should be very strong, right? As a result, it is not because of the love compound marriage that can not last for less than a year.
When there is love, it can be run-in for ten years, love has changed, and it has not endured for a year.
The heroine of the emotional drama "Star Sea" has very bloody parents for the ending, and the combination of the two is a bit like Liu Xiaojie and Qian Feng, one is beautiful and talented, one is practical and reliable, and the man is extremely fond of the woman.
The woman also chose to enter into marriage with the "good man" because of the failure of the first love, but after many years of getting along, they could not consume their own difficulties, one wanted to escape, one could not accept the payment and was disappointed, and finally became a bloody tragedy.
Qian Feng, who has been unilaterally giving affection and being humble for more than ten years in front of the goddess, who can guarantee that after his marriage, he will not be embarrassed because his wife does not love himself enough? How can Liu Xiaojie, who has no feelings, endure living with a mask?
The most suitable in the eyes of the onlooker, for the parties, there is an unspeakable torment, one who knows that the other party does not love himself enough and pretends not to know, one who wants to love but cannot control his heartbeat.
Such a marriage, too need to hide themselves, but the 24-hour non-stop reality show can force out the true temperament of the star, ordinary people who have not learned to perform, and how many can withstand the endless disguise of the whole year?
The pity of Liu Xiaojie and Qian Feng is that they did not fall in love with each other, not because they failed to come together, and the finale of "Xiao MinJia" may have a lot of controversy, but this pair stays in friendship and is the most convincing.
Love needs reality, but reality does not mean that it will be, only love marriage is not necessarily reliable, marriage without love is definitely not solid, the real right person, reality is the foundation, love is also the premise.
In "Jinghua Smoke and Clouds", Yao Mulan was able to go to the finale with her husband Zeng Sunya and did not untie, but it was not because of the true feelings that must have been born for a long time, but because the background of the times and family responsibilities deprived them of the right to choose to separate.
After Liu Xiaojie experienced two failed marriages, the screenwriter can still protect her from choosing the "good man" she does not love, which is actually a very good guide, and the failed marriage is a lesson, but it cannot give up love.
There are many problems with Liu Xiaojie's concept of love, but insisting on choosing "people with feelings" is not wrong, she is wrong in the bottom line of her life for love, and she is too tolerant of lovers, without taking into account the reality of marriage.
Taking Xu Zheng as an example, in the process of the two exchanges, Xu Zheng exposed shortcomings such as excessive control, impulsive behavior, and extreme personality, but these were ignored because liu Xiaojie was in love, and repeatedly forgave each other.
Xu Zheng was suspicious and jealous of chasing Qian Feng's car, this dangerous operation that affected the safety of life, Liu Xiaojie easily revealed it just because of a few confessions from the other party, and directly received the certificate without waiting for the other party to make corrections.
On the issue of having a child, Xu Zheng originally promised to respect Liu Xiaojie's ideas and get his parents, but when his parents were prompted on the spot, Liu Xiaojie was indifferent no matter how he hinted, and finally relied on his mother to speak.
Some problems in the relationship need to be run into each other and tolerate each other, but when it comes to the problem of principle and basic trust, once it appears, it needs to be clear that it will not be repeated, otherwise, the more you tolerate, the worse your situation will be.
Unfortunately, Liu Xiaojie's two marriages obviously did not take the friction outside of love seriously, and the tolerance for Ma Bao's ex-husband did not break out until after the divorce, and the tolerance of the control man Xu Zheng did not begin to fear until he was hurt.
This undoubtedly increases the risk of her marriage, if Liu Xiaojie's requirements for the other half's principle issues can be as persistent as the insistence on love in marriage, her mate orientation will be more secure.