Recently, I have been chasing the drama "Xiao Min Jia", starring Zhou Xun and Huang Lei, with the love of middle-aged people as the beginning, telling the contradictions and warmth of the reorganized family.
What impressed me most about this TV series was the marriage of Xiao Min's sister Xiao Jie! Played by Tang Yixin, working in the publishing house, she is a beautiful and crisp and neat woman, married to a mother treasure man, flash marriage and divorce, and later met xu Li, an unmarried man who was five years younger than her, who chased after her poorly, took good care of her, and quickly captured her heart. This time, he quickly received a marriage license behind the back of his elders and began a second marriage! Xu Li's possessiveness became more and more obvious! Xiao Jie is not allowed to have any contact with the opposite sex. Classmate and hair Xiao Qianfeng has always loved Xiao Jie, but Xiao Jie only regards him as an ordinary friend. A classmate party, everyone took a group photo together, Qian Feng put his hand on Xiao Jie's shoulder, was seen by Xu Li and was jealous, driving into Qian Feng's car, until Xiao Jie deleted Qian Feng's WeChat in front of his face! On the surface, it seems that Qian Feng loves Xiao Jie too much, but this kind of love is terrible and suffocating!
At work, Xiao Jie added a male writer's WeChat, and Xu Li was also very angry after knowing it, and forced Xiao Jie to delete it!
The most bizarre thing is that once Xiao Jie drove Qian Feng for a period of five minutes, his business card landed on Xiao Jie's car, xu Li found out that they suspected that there was something wrong with them, and then stimulated, and then took advantage of Xiao Jie's sleep at night to hide her mobile phone and computer, locked her at home and did not let her go out, and cut off contact with the outside world! After Xu Li returned, the two had an argument, Xu Li pushed Xiao Jie to the ground next to the sofa, and he picked up a fruit knife... My heart shook, is this going to kill her? As a result, Xu Li stabbed a knife in his thigh and self-harmed! It was horrible! Scare Xiao Jie straight to the point of trembling! Xu Li lost his mind when he was jealous and angry, and after waking up, he begged Xiao Jie to forgive him, is this obviously not a mental illness? She was locked up at home and didn't let her go out to work, and in the end, thanks to Qian Feng, she was rescued! This marriage also ended with a flash marriage and a flash! After reading it, my heart could not be calmed for a long time! This Xu Li's possessiveness is too strong, taking his wife as his own private property, controlling her, possessing her, and making her lose herself! If you meet such a man in real life, it is really better to live than to die! Will there be such a man in real life? It reminds me of a TV series "Don't Talk to Strangers" many years ago, in which the male protagonist is also super perverted, possessive and controlling, and domestic violence! Nowadays, more and more women are reluctant to get married and feel that a person is very good! Why? Maybe I have heard more negative cases of divorce and seen through the essence of marriage!
Now this society is really too demanding of women! A woman has lived a thousand horses! At the same time, they have to play multiple roles: daughter, mother, wife, nanny, teacher, employee... If you repeatedly encounter a man who is abusive or possessive, it is simply living in hell on earth! Have you ever met a very possessive man? Or do you have such people around you? Let's share and communicate!