Feelings come quickly
The business is not good and goes fast
01
There is always a filter in the treatment of first love, first love itself is a beautiful word, first love represents pure love, without any interest color.
The first love is you, not your family, knowledge or body, and the subsequent love is mostly mixed with various purposes.
So I can see that many people after a few years, there are always various complexes for first love, can't put it down, want to reunite, and never forget, but can first love really break all obstacles and live happily together again?
Recently watched "Heart Residence" Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan flash marriage, two people because the past is the first love, long goodbye reunion, one party can not let go of the past emotions, so meet again, the old love all gushed into the heart.
Loved, so desperate, hidden from the family flash marriage.
02
In fact, even if the two people have a good relationship in the past, it is actually very unwise to marry so hastily based on the previous past.
No matter how good the past is, people will become, and now together, even each other's habits, work, and family will not understand and decide.
In fact, the emotional foundation is not solid, he is no longer the boy who likes to listen to concerts, and even if you are accommodating, it is difficult to force.
As Shi Yuan said, if it wasn't for you, I might have been free in the alley, and now although I am in a tall building, my heart is imprisoned.
It could even be said that he was not happy.
There are irreconcilable contradictions between two people, you don't understand my way of life, and I don't approve of your way of life.
03
Although there were more feelings at the beginning, now it is different.
There is also a huge gulf between them, self-esteem.
When a man wants self-esteem but is incapable, things get bad.
Shi Yuan refused to accept his wife's help because of his self-esteem, which was normally understood as having to support himself, but on the contrary, he did not.
He promised to help the company win the project, but gu Qingyu was asleep and secretly read her plan book.
This can only be said to be that he is superficially high, because in fact he can only play hemp, no ability, and his path is different after the college entrance examination.
He knew that the company and his wife were rivals and wanted to go, but in fact, he did not consider his wife's position at all.
04
In addition, not only him, but also his mother, the family did not thank the daughter-in-law after she paid for it, but was all kinds of doubts and unhappiness.
Normal people are grateful, but they are so because of their inner lack of confidence and self-esteem.
In fact, Gu Qingyu didn't care whether Shi Yuan had money from beginning to end, all she wanted was his love, a love like before.
And she also said many times that they are husband and wife, there is no need to divide so clearly, even if Shi Yuan is strong, then do not make the heart behind the eyes.
Either rely on their own strength, or leave directly, the small actions behind them, the feelings of the two people can not withstand the consumption in any way.
The two eventually separated, and although his self-esteem did not allow it, it was difficult for them to continue to be happy.
There is no deep feeling, no mutual trust and understanding, there is a long gap between them, and in the end it can only be separated.
Even if one person tolerates it, he cannot continue.