Text/Flying Fish
Deep love for a person is difficult to let go, even if there is no reason, the heart can not forget.
It is said that the first love is irreplaceable by anyone, which is enough to show that this relationship has left people with an unforgettable memory, and the heart has long been occupied by the other party, and the latecomers have only vacated a little position, but they have never been able to replace the position of the first love.
However, in a man's relationship, if he can't let go of a woman, what kind of performance will it be?
Men can't let go of a woman, they will hurt her, they will miss her, they will want to help her, they will be afraid that she will not have a good life, and they will be afraid of what happens to her.
Even if two people are together, men will have these three manifestations if they can't trust women.
01, at any time, we must know how to hurt her.
The first manifestation of a man's inability to let go of a woman is heartache.
He will see everything she has given in his eyes, his eyes are all painful, knowing that women have paid for him, hurting her so hard, hurting everything about her, will care more about her, good for her.
After Ah Ting and Bao Ge got married, she found that Bao Ge was really different from the boyfriend she had made before, it was really good for her, and this feeling was very sincere and happy, and she felt that she was married to the right person.
When Ah Ting was menstruating, the first day was particularly painful, Bao Ge saw her uncomfortable look, heartache, eager to help her share, know that can not, silently boiled brown sugar ginger tea for her to warm up.
When Ah Ting was pregnant, in the early days, from time to time she threw up very badly, and Brother Bao was also very distressed, checking a lot of information to see what to eat to relieve morning sickness.
A man who really loves you will be so distressed about you, thinking of you everywhere, unable to let go of you, afraid that you will not take care of yourself, afraid that you will be uncomfortable.
A man's inability to let go is the best love for a woman. If you can meet someone who hurts you, cares for you, and takes care of you, it is the greatest blessing in life.
02, men can't let go of women, will never forget her.
Feelings are also full of variables, not all encounters can have a good ending, when two people who love each other are together, but they are separated for various reasons, and after separation, if a man can't let go of a woman, he will never forget her, and think of her everywhere he goes.
When she left, I also found that she was important to herself, without her days, I felt that life was very lonely, very helpless, no one ate with me anymore, no one grabbed the remote control with herself, no one let himself go to pick her up every day after work, go shopping with her to watch movies.
Men can't let go of women, they think about it day by day, they dream about it at night, they even dream about her, how long she can come back, how likely they are to reconcile with her.
When men really can't help it, they will go to her and talk to her about reunion, because the days without her are too torturous to live without her.
When a man really wants to go down with you, or even willing to marry you for the rest of his life, perhaps the short separation will make him more aware of your position in his heart, so that he knows how to cherish you and seize the opportunity to keep you.
03, men can't let go of women, will want to help her.
In fact, in real life, there are also many people who have no reason and have not come together, but because they have been deeply loved, they cannot rest assured of each other.
A man has loved a woman deeply and can't let go of her, but knowing that she is married, he has no possibility of himself, and can only look at it from a distance, not daring to disturb.
When two people reunite, men will look at the life of a woman, will feel sorry for her, want her life to be very hard, family difficulties, and can't help but want to help her.
Maybe the man will not come forward on his own, but he will inquire about her news, know that she has difficulties, know that she is not happy, and the man may call a mutual friend to help her instead of himself, without letting her know, for fear that she will be embarrassed.
If a man can't put a person in his heart, he will be soft-hearted. Maybe because you understand, you are compassionate, because you love, so you are tolerant.
When the person you love deeply can live happily after leaving yourself, you are actually happy, but if you are not happy, then you will not be able to put it down and want to help her.
In short, when a man can't let go of a woman, there will be these performances, and obviously, these performances all mean your place in the man's heart.
Maybe you are already husband and wife, already lovers, or maybe you are strangers, if the former is to cherish, if it is the latter, you have a family to keep a good distance, if you are still single, then you have to think about the possibility that you are not yet reunited.
There are reasons why you can't let go of a person, maybe because of true love, maybe because of habits and dependence.
As a party, if you have put it down, and he can't put it down, and you face his good, don't refuse or accept, it will only make him fall deeper and deeper, and the last thing to hurt is still two people.
Feelings need to be impulsive, but also need to be rational, rational to face your feelings, I hope you can find the happiness that really belongs to you.
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