Author: Peanuts are not sweet
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First love is indeed a good memory.
At the age of 25, she is light, but only the traces of love will never linger. It was her first love, which she could not forget for several years, and she could not sleep very deeply late at night, waking up after tears flowing from the corners of her eyes, holding the memories and continuing to cry.
Why did she miss him so much?
One is that she gave him the most important thing, the second is that he did not see him and did not say goodbye, and the third is that every time he dreams, he dreams of their past, but he gets up and leaves only himself empty.
Another important reason is that she grew up in a family of two younger brothers, was isolated from childhood, then suffered from depression, and then could not find a suitable job for herself, just like this, living in a small basement, hungry every day, forced to pay rent, she felt like living the end of the world every day.
In the face of such an environment, she still wanted to look for him, to walk through every small corner he had ever walked, but the city was so big, she had no motor vehicle, no money to take the bus, walked on foot for more than half a year, her body was exhausted, and she still couldn't find her.
She was a friend of my friend, and she asked someone to find me and solve the relief of difficulties. According to her considerations, she wanted to find three aunts to guide her.
A middle-aged woman talks about love: wrong memories are like garbage.
Remember when you were a kid watching a Korean TV series "My name is Kim Sam Soon"? Sanshun said a very humming sentence to her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend: "Memories are memories, and memories do not represent any power." ”
Records show that "a person's memory is up to 18 days." That is to say, for more than 18 days, all other thoughts exist like souls, constantly thinking of him, constantly associating, constantly continuing to miss.
First: the cycle is yourself, the other side is not in his memories
Unbroken memories, like a single loop. The single loop is you, the unforgettable memories are you, a person's life or you. If you follow the past every day, it is better to relieve your breath and severely cut off the desire to think about him: yelling can also be, crying can also be, training and running, riding a roller coaster can also be, jumping grades can also be.
As long as you continue to enrich yourself, can't find a job to start a business, can learn if you don't succeed in entrepreneurship, can go for a run if you can't learn, there is always one thing that is much stronger than your recollection in bed.
Second: give a reason to give up once, not one more nostalgia
Why didn't you give up, still missing, and find a reason to give up again. There are thousands of reasons to leave him, everything you see about him is a memory, and a memory is an empty thought, without any power, can only drag you forward.
Third, pursue the next period of true love and open your heart to a better self
When you put down your memories of him and go around the street, the good food is still so delicious, the handsome guy is still more handsome than him, the clothes can be worn more beautifully, and the beauty of the world is still beautiful.
With your presence, the sun will shine on people who like the sun as much as you do. Because of your existence, the future he is running towards you step by step, and because of the current you, you are the best self at present.
So, open your heart and go after a better him, and believe that there must be someone waiting for you on the other side. Facing the sea, spring warmth is you, facing spring warmth, true love is towards you.
Since the memories have dirt, do not need to be cleaned, just throw away, do not let the painful garbage interfere with your own supposedly beautiful youth, you deserve better him to love you.
If my text is worth asking you to drink a meter of wine, then every support of yours is my toast to your three inches of sunshine and seven layers of rainbow.