Love is an eternal and unchanging topic, but there is a correct view of love
It is crucial to the happiness chapter of later life
Over time, problems arise
Therefore, we must know how to stop at the right time
1) Love is not about change, but about acceptance and inclusion
The essence of love is to accept the real other person, to be able to see the advantages of the other party, but also to be able to accept his or her shortcomings. Therefore, after understanding the imperfection of the other party, you can still accept his (her) love for a long time.
But this does not mean that any bad habits or improper behavior can be accepted and tolerated, such as domestic violence, infidelity is absolutely zero tolerance!!
Couples get along with small tips: When the living habits of two people are not - - do not rush to deny, change each other, to learn to seek common ground while reserving differences!
2, do not want 100 points of love
Whether it is a boy or a girl, never pursue 100 points of love, the water is overflowing, and love is the same. Good love should be 60 points, and the remaining 40 points can be left to family, friends, pets, interests, careers, etc.
Don't see love as the whole of your life, if you don't have the other party, you will lose the hope of life.
Couples get along with small tips: understanding that "you are part of each other's lives, but not all" can resolve many small conflicts in daily life!
3. Love dating implements the AA system
"Love AA system" does not mean eating a hot pot, you out of a hundred I out of a hundred, but when I eat I pay, then when you watch a movie to buy snacks you pay. But this does not mean that we are preoccupied, and everyone must learn to pay appropriately.
Doing so can not only resolve unnecessary contradictions, but also make the romantic relationship tend to be balanced.
Couples get along with tips: you can establish a common "dating fund" every month both people save the same amount, dating expenses can be settled with this money ~ ~ ~ ~
4. Avoid blind comparison in love
Everyone expresses love differently, and you don't have to use your own love criteria to measure whether the other person really loves you. Don't compare the value of gifts to the expression of love, because every feeling is precious.
The person who loves you enough must give you all the best of his own.
Couples get along with small tips: Don't always put "other people's male (female) friends" on the lips, if he (she) really loves you, he has already learned silently on his own, otherwise it will only make the other party resentful.
5, in love need to maintain independence
Everyone is born an independent individual and must remain independent at all times. They should have their own interests, goals, and directions, and be able to give each other space, rather than blindly getting tired of being together.
Love is not something you can't do, it's better to have you.
Couples get along with small tips: in love, especially to maintain financial independence, do not think that others can support you for a lifetime, and do not take money to support each other!
6. Spoiling and being a child are two completely different things
Occasionally coddling in front of each other can increase the intimacy of two people, but it must be moderate! Sometimes playing with sex and throwing a small temper just to see if the other party really cares about you, but such behavior is unnecessary!
Don't try to hurt others in exchange for your own satisfaction.
Couples get along with small tips: occasionally sell cute in front of each other, say some flirtatious love words, and lie in each other's arms, which is a good way to spoil Oh!