In this ordinary life, because of the presence of the other party, your world is brilliant
So please be brave to love and explore with a sincere heart! But don't lose yourself!
1. Always put yourself first
This is the best way to start love. Only when a person is himself and lives his own life will he emit a unique light and attract his love. Otherwise, even if there is love, it is difficult to grasp,
Because no matter when you love yourself more than you love others, if you don't love yourself, no one will love you. If you don't have the ability to love yourself, it's hard to have the ability to love others.
Cuteness is mutual, so be yourself first, in order to play the role of girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband, daughter and so on.
Please know more friends, learn more from others, try more bravely, learn self-discipline, keep learning to break through yourself, and be the best version of yourself! Make yourself better!
If you believe that you are excellent, you can attract more excellent people, improve your ability and other aspects to build your worldview, values and outlook on life, which will make you more attractive!
2. Understand that love needs to go in both directions
You need to understand what you like about each other, what kind of person do you expect your life partner to be, and what attracts them? What can you give her?
Communication is not what others can bring you, but the effort of both parties to support each other's lives. That's the essence of communication, mutual becoming each other's strength rather than a one-sided effort.
The long-lasting and comfortable relationship between people depends on commonality and attraction, not just self-motivation or endless demands.
Love, communication, marriage, is never simply two people together, but two people can become each other's strength. This is the most important point
Let people think of each other when they are tired at work, and they can work hard!
When you are irritable, when you think about each other, you can calm down and think about it!
3. Stay independent in love
You need to be independent in love, everyone is an independent individual, you have to be independent at all times
Love doesn't revolve around one person. After falling in love, many people will habitually take another person as the center of the world, draw a circle with the radius they want, and circle themselves.
Love yourself, not because others have perfect character, but because of yourself, respect each other, give each other space, not boring.
Excessive possessiveness will only make the person who meets you breathless, and you will also imprison yourself in a cage, and in the end you will only be able to gather and disperse.