A good life is just right
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Release on 2022-03-2117:15
concern
temperance
Losing control is indulgence.
If life is a wild horse, then the measure of moderation is the reins in your hand.
Holding too tightly, life loses the momentum to move forward; completely laissez-faire, life is like a wild horse that has lost its reins, the future is uncertain, and the future is worrying.
A good life is just right. Neither will it overly restrain itself and lose its interest; nor will it overly indulge itself and lose order.
There is a way to take it, and it is used in a way
In the Cai Gen Tan, it is written:
"Frugality, virtue also, too much is for."
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, for contempt, anti-hurt Ya Dao. ”
Frugality is undoubtedly a virtue. However, if a person is too frugal, he becomes miserly.
Miserly, inevitably narrow-minded, and finally evolved into a pretentious calculation.
The classic character eugenie Grande, written by the French writer Balzac, because of his miserliness, eventually harmed himself and his daughter.
Miserliness is due to great possessiveness; luxury is due to excessive vanity.
Vanity makes people motivated. However, excessive vanity has become a mountain that weighs on the body, making people feel tired.
Rich and powerful, it is inevitable to attract people to remember and hate; hitting a swollen face and making a fat person will cause people to laugh at shame.
As the saying goes: A gentleman loves money, has a way to take it, and uses it in a way.
Make money reasonably, consume moderately, and neither be an iron rooster that does not pull out a dime, nor does it do the unjust head of extravagance and waste.
Life, in this millisecond, deduces thousands of styles.
Love is just right
"The opposite of love is not unlove, but indifference."
It's a sad sentence.
Two people who once loved so much that they could not be separated eventually became more indifferent than strangers, and love was always resolute and fickle.
In this world, desperate love is indeed beautiful, but it cannot withstand the scrutiny of time.
Love others, love yourself first.
Love has always been a two-way street. If the person you love has a sea of stars in his heart, how can you have only one pool of lake water and talk about masturbating?
Don't give up building yourself, the ups and downs of love, how can one person bear it all?
"Yongjie travels mercilessly, phased in the yun han." Two people, independent of each other, pursue the integrity of the soul, but they are tied to each other and agree on the future.
Good love is that I am willing to guard the mountains and rivers for you, guard the dreams, and be the best version of myself.
The rhythm of life is just right
As the old saying goes
"The body should not be busy, and when it is busy, it can also be embarrassed and lazy; the heart cannot be released, and after it is collected, it can also be encouraged."
The body cannot be too tired, nor can it be too idle.
In the room between fatigue and leisure, choosing a moderate one is a good rhythm of life.
This is like a piece of music, there are slow and urgent, in order to appear ups and downs, swinging back to the intestines.
If life is too idle, it is inevitable to be drowsy, lonely and bored, and faltering with years; if life is too busy, it is inevitable that the heart will be impetuous and make the days flow into form.
In the "Little Window Chronicle", it is written:
"I'm a little sad on my eyebrows, and I'm going to watch chess and drink wine."
When there is a little sadness between the eyebrows, simply watch people play chess, or drink a few cups.
Don't live in sorrow, the joy of life has to be found by yourself. Days, like a cup of coffee in your hand, if it is too bitter, put some sugar in it, add some milk, and the taste will change dramatically.
Learn to grasp the rhythm of life, not fast or slow, not too sad and not happy, as long as there is always moving, there is warmth every day, it is good.
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