In interpersonal communication, we use salutations to express the closeness and distance between people. Especially in the process of male and female interaction, with the subtle changes in the relationship between two people, the title between men and women is also changing. Men and women who meet in Pingshui will call each other Mr. and Miss; good friends will call each other by their first names, and lovers will give each other various nicknames to prove the intimate relationship between the two people. In real life, there are many women who will call men "brothers", which sounds as natural as brothers and sisters. You know, women's names for men often represent the status of men in women's hearts. When women call you "brother", most of them are these 3 meanings, and men don't be stupid and don't know.
I want to bring you closer together
Before, Ximei had seen such a sentence in a book: "People get along with each other, and the sharp words are the head." Although this is not good, it is not unreasonable. Therefore, when men and women get along, men should be clear that women will not show her courtesy to you for no reason, unless she has other plans. Qiu Rao (pseudonym) always did not want to call his male god by his name when he asked for the contact information of his male god. Because, Qiu Rao felt that this was very strange, which would make her and the male god more and more distant. Therefore, every time he chats on WeChat, Qiu Rao will call the other party his brother. And the male god is really very popular with this nickname, from the passive reply at the beginning, to the later will take the initiative to send Qiu Rao "good morning, good night". In fact, most women call you brother, just to bring the two of you closer.
She likes you and wants to grab your attention
Most women are the same, for whom brother is a very good ambiguous word, and when she has the idea of wanting to be with you in her heart, she will gently call you "brother". So, you have to distinguish at this moment whether this woman is shyly calling you that every time. If yes, then it is clear that this woman is interested in you at heart and wants to go further with you. As a man, when facing a weak woman to call it so, don't panic, don't be too fluttery, and learn to respond slowly.
Want to be close to you
I believe that the title of "brother" and "sister" is not unusual among couples, it seems that this can show the intimacy of two people and make others different when they hear it. When she calls you "brother", on the one hand, in order to attract your attention, on the other hand, she also worships you, and will use such a name. It was also from the time she gave you this title, her feelings about you have changed, before she felt that two people are ordinary friends, and now I think I can go further, but I don't know if there is such an opportunity. Therefore, she wants to use this small title to make you notice her, and then through other means, step by step into his heart, so that he cannot let go of himself.
Deliberately want to trick you
When a woman is preparing to invite the king into the urn, calling you brother is an indispensable link. After all, women must first close the distance with you until you feel incomparably close. After closing the distance between you, the woman will continue to increase the intimacy by calling your brother, and then the woman will wait for the opportunity for you to lose your vigilance. Women usually make money, so women will make up a variety of reasons, so that you can't bear to stand by and watch, routine your money will often be from small to large, often starting from one red packet after another. Let you be unsatisfied, so that you can't stop, and empty your home in a gradual and gradual way. If you don't let the woman succeed from beginning to end, or if the woman squeezes you dry, the woman will call you brother from the time of progress to the past tense.
Emotional message: In real life, the title "brother" has been used very widely, especially between couples. In the hot love period, or the small mouth of the two with good feelings, women often call men "brothers". One is to show the cuteness and pampering of women; the other is that "brother" sounds very protective, representing responsibility and dependence. It wouldn't be surprising if a woman calls you that all the time. But if she's calling you occasionally, or suddenly, then you have to pay attention. Usually in this case, she has a purpose, and if you don't pay attention, it is easy to have all kinds of misunderstandings. For example, if you have a girlfriend, then when other women call you "brother" and you respond stupidly, your feelings may be in crisis. "There must be a demon in the opposite place", a woman will not call a "brother" of the opposite sex for no reason, the reason why she calls it this way, there must be a meaning she wants to express, you don't be stupid and don't understand.