In my interpretation of Episode 1 of "The Right Way to Open Life", I analyzed the three most important characters in the show.
Although I only know and know about one episode, after watching Episode 2, I at least confirmed my evaluation of Dongxiao: she is an interesting soul.
And my expectations of these three people to make "soul ferrymen" may be a little too high.
In Episode 2, I think Bian Liang is trying to tell more about the short of parents than the metaphysical truth.
Whether you like to laugh at yourself or are you used to laughing at yourself
The word "self-deprecation" is pretty much the only feeling I felt from beginning to end while watching Episode 2.
Whether it is Bian Liang's self-mockery of himself, or mocking Bian Liang through the mouths of others.
Even when Bian Liang is facing his wife or son, there is a sense of self-deprecation from the inside out.
I have to say that regarding self-deprecation, although I feel the same as a man, I really can't do it to this extent.
And this slightly emotional or rational self-deprecation may be one of the reasons why Bian Liang is so feminine.
When Dongxiao used a completely mocking look and tone to say that Bian Liang really had a woman's relationship.
I suddenly thought of Bian Liang's actor Huang Bo, and I suddenly realized that he was playing himself?
Why does all this give me a strong sense of familiarity? It was as if the lead words that appeared in the news suddenly became visualized.
When Bian Liang ignored the new clothes that his wife deliberately changed into because of her son's interview.
When the camera turns to Bian Liang's suit and leather shoes, isn't this a kind of self-deprecation of being a "successful person"?
When Bian Liang was mocked by Dongxiao for his first love on a date, he would also spray it with flower dew as cologne.
His phrase "afraid of mosquito bites" is not only very graphic, but also has a sad sense of self-deprecation.
When Bian Liang drove while using "stupid people have stupid luck" to respond to the "womanhood" of his first love.
This may be what he has developed with his life, a self-deprecating habit.
Only the wife will not taunt you, and neither will the son
Some people may disagree, and some people may think that Bian Liang's ignorance of his wife's change of clothes is not a self-deprecation.
If we look at this in reverse, we may understand a truth.
In this world, neither the person you love nor the person who loves you, whether it is your parents or your children, is as good as the person who is the wife of the chaff who admires you, respects you, and loves you.
Just like what Bian Liang's wife Fu Xintong did, just like the name Fu Xintong.
From Bian Liang's words about his wife, I can generally understand how much Fu Xintong has paid for Bian Liang.
I also understand why Dongxiao would say such a slightly sour sentence as "Bian Liang has a woman's relationship".
Because not all women can make this sacrifice for their husbands.
Look at the marks and marks that the years have left on Fu Xintong's face, and look at the haggardness and exhaustion that spread all over her face.
What she experienced and endured was not something that a professional woman like Dongxiao could experience.
Fu Xintong is almost the "yellow-faced woman" in people's eyes, maybe she did it unintentionally, or maybe she did it intentionally.
Her "deliberately" chosen clothing is a world away from Dongxiao, who is almost the same age.
Is it that she can't dress? Is it that she can't wear makeup? Or will she not spend money?
It's not a mockery, I think these skills will be in the nature of most women, and they can still be skills that can be learned without a teacher.
(This article is an original article of "Hua Yuhan", and the non-"Hua Yuhan" account is all plagiarism and handling!) ）
It is precisely with such a wife that can set off Bian Liang's ability and handsomeness.
It is precisely with such a wife that Bian Liang has the confidence to photograph this duplex large suite.
It is precisely with such a wife that Bian Liang has the ability to be qualified for the position of vice president of the company.
It is precisely with such a wife that Bian Liang can rest assured that she can take her son across the sea.
It is precisely such a wife who can stop his son sharply when he says, "But he is not a car seller yet".
Sure enough, Fu Xintong is the shadow dancer behind Bian Liang.
Only the mockery of first love can be a positive word
If it weren't for the fact that Dongxiao was Bian Liang's first love, who would believe that saying that Bian Liang had a woman's relationship from her mouth was a positive word.
If it weren't for the huge gap between Donglan and Bian Liang in terms of appearance, the son would not have said how safe his father looked.
It is precisely because of such a huge sense of contrast that Dongxiao looks at Bian Liang's eyes with a little more puzzlement and confusion every time.
And this also gave me great curiosity and questions, why did Bian Liang give up Dongxiao?
Although Dongxiao in episode 2, he finally handed over the truth to Bian Liang.
But when she looked at Bian Liang's eyes, she still had a sense of affection.
What is even more suspicious is that Dongxiao has to pull Bian Liang to take wedding photos, just to choose a dress for her fiancé?
Or is she telling Bian Liang about her pain and unwillingness?
You know, she can have promised the young Bian Liang, I will wear whatever girl you choose.
This kind of relationship between continuous cutting and sorting out makes Dongxiao's heart more and more like a fog.
Is she still thinking about Bian Liang? Is she still reading Bian Liang? Does she really hope that Bian Liang can fulfill the promise she made to herself back then?
If all this is true.
Then Dongxiao's mockery of Bian Liang is no less than Fu Xintong's ugly and earthy new clothes.
Perhaps the mockery of first love to Bian Liang is really not just derogatory.
Dreams are good, but dreams destroy all goodness
When any man faces his first love, it is impossible to have a normal heart, nor can he stop his heart.
This is not a disparagement of men, let alone contempt for men, this is a normal reaction, even if there is a woman's relationship with Bian Liang.
When he looked at his first love who appeared in front of him in a wedding dress, when he saw the most beautiful side of a woman.
If you want to stop his heart, it may be more cruel than "killing him".
You can think that Bian Liang was forced to take wedding photos with his first love, or you can think that for Dongxiao, Bian Liang is just a clothes rack.
For Bian Liang, it was all like a dream.
He was having a beautiful dream that he had thought about day and night, and he was daydreaming that he had long since dared to do.
Because at this time, he was beside his wife's first love at home in all aspects.
But no matter what kind of dream it is, there will always be a day when it wakes up.
Maybe when Bian Liang heard Dongxiao say that he was too ugly and needed to fix himself.
Only to find out that this is just a wishful dream, although this dream is so real and so palpable.
The scary thing is that Bian Liang, who took these wedding photos, may not have thought of it.
Perhaps in the near future, he will expose all this to his beloved wife because of his dreams.
And at that time, how will he decide?
Will he choose to start his life all over again? Or trying to save a life that is about to be broken?
Maybe Bian Liang, who doesn't look amazing, is really a fool and a fool, but can he really consume the love of two women at the same time?
When he faced his wife who was like a, when he faced his first love, who was as beautiful as a flower.
His casual dream words may ruin all the beauty and happiness in his life.
The above is my understanding and perception of Episode 2 of "The Right Way to Open Life", more wonderful analysis, let's see you next time!
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