Lin Xiaoxia was born in Hongmeixi Village, Changzhou City, Jiangsu Province, her family is engaged in catering business, and her family conditions are good.
She was born in 1989, and in 2019, she was exactly 30 years old.
30 years old seems to her to be young, and there is nothing wrong with a single life.
Although I have not tasted the sweetness of love, I have not experienced the bitterness of love.
Bullshit love, for her, it doesn't matter if there is or not.
Man still has to live for himself!
She felt she was fine that way.
However, what she did not expect was that when she was 30 years old, she was beaten by her biological mother to a second-degree minor injury.
The reason for the beating sounded so ridiculous that even she thought about it.
She was beaten by her mother because she was 30 years old and had not yet married.
She didn't understand, who stipulates that girls have to marry at 30 years old?
Is it really that good to marry someone?
If it is so good, why is there a divorce?
Will there be domestic violence?
Her mother hated her for being old at home, no one wanted, no job yet.
It's nothing!
Seeing her so angry, her mother wanted to beat her.
Over the past few years, she has been abused by her mother.
However, she felt that she was not wrong, that not working was not her fault, that not having a boyfriend was not her fault, and that it was not her fault to nibble on the old.
She even wanted to give her mother a house of her own.
It was because of these things that she was beaten up by her mother.
This kind of anger, she did not want to bear.
After all, this is not the first time her mother has beaten her because she is not married!
She wants to use the law to defend her legitimate rights and interests, the sweetness and bitterness of love, she does not want to know.
She wanted to let her mother know what it was like to break the law.
She dialed the police, and this time she had to make her mother pay her due.
Soon the police called her and her mother to the police station.
Her mother was detained...
Lin Xiaoxia was injured, and her mother complained of dissatisfaction
On September 9, 2019, Lin Xiaoxia walked into the Injury Appraisal Department of Tianning Public Security Branch in Changzhou City, Jiangsu Province. The police asked her to first identify her, what level of injury was she suffering?
You can tell she's badly injured.
In the case of a very serious injury, only with the results of the appraisal can her mother be punished accordingly.
When she removed her clothes, the doctor who identified the injury was stunned.
There was basically no good place on her body, and she was beaten to bruises everywhere.
From top to bottom, there are blood stains.
These wounds were all beaten violently with iron rods, and they were unbearable to see.
No wonder she wanted to give her mother a taste of breaking the law.
Why did the abuser lay such a heavy hand?
At first, the doctor who identified the injury thought that she was abused by her husband.
She said she was beaten by her mother.
Being beaten like this by the mother makes the identification doctor even less understanding.
A mother who does this to her daughter? Not biological?
Later, the identification results came out.
She was slightly injured in the second degree, and it was obvious that she had been beaten like this, and the perpetrator, no matter who it was, was to be punished.
After announcing the result of the punishment, her mother did not understand, and it was not okay to beat her own daughter?
The law told her no.
Hitting someone is against the law!
This time, the police want to find out completely what is going on between their mother and daughter.
What's the big deal?
There must be something else going on here!
Because Lin Xiaoxia was beaten violently by her mother, it was not once or twice, and they couldn't remember the number of times they called the police.
Sometimes, it was the guests in their hotel who called the police.
This time the domestic violence was so serious, we must severely punish Lin Xiaoxia's mother.
When taking notes to Lin Xiaoxia's mother, Lin Xiaoxia's mother insisted that her daughter was 30 years old and had not yet married, and she was old at home. I've been out of college for a few years and haven't had a job.
Shouldn't it be fought?
My brother has a girlfriend and is about to get married.
She's not motivated at all, who doesn't hit her?
This is what Lin Xiaoxia's mother stated.
In her opinion, the daughter is not angry, and it is natural for her to beat her daughter!
However, what Lin Xiaoxia told was different from what her mother said.
Sure enough, there is an inside story!
Her mother lied?
Son preference is the bane
Lin Xiaoxia revealed that her mother has a patriarchal mentality.
She was a girl and was not valued by her parents.
It is precisely because her parents have this kind of thinking that they have caused her to be so miserable?
She also gave a few specific examples.
She said she also had a younger brother, two years younger than her.
Since having a younger brother, she has not received the love of her parents.
The life of two people, one in heaven and one underground.
The parents gave all their love to their younger brother.
As your younger brother grows up, whatever does his younger brother want?
Both parents will satisfy him.
But when it comes to it, it's not okay.
Parents are very strict with themselves, if they want something, parents are conditional.
For example, going to school allows her to take the top few places in her class to fulfill her wishes.
She's not smart and doesn't study well.
Her grades didn't satisfy her parents, so she never got what she wanted.
Look back at my brother, delicious, delicious, fun.
The younger brother does not have to study, and in the eyes of his parents, the younger brother is good everywhere.
He was like the stupid son of a landlord.
You can ask for anything, you can get it unconditionally.
She was very envious of her brother, and she once thought that she was not born of her parents?
She didn't understand why this was happening.
It wasn't until she grew up that she slowly understood that she was a girl.
Parents prefer sons to daughters!
Girls are not valued by their parents, and in the eyes of their parents, their sons are the "treasures" of the family.
What can she do when she meets such patriarchal parents?
She can only accept reality.
Later, she went to ordinary high school.
After graduating from high school, she was admitted to a vocational school in Chongqing.
When I went to school out of town, I was far away from this home.
She became cheerful.
While getting along with her classmates, she learned that her classmates did not have such a situation as her.
The more she learned, the greater her opinion of her parents.
How did she meet such parents?
She's been wrestling with this!
But then she figured it out.
She felt that her parents were not bad for her, after all, she had let herself go to college.
More importantly, now she can rely on herself.
Especially after graduating from college, she found a job in Chongqing, although she did not earn much.
However, there is nothing wrong with feeding yourself.
However, in 2017, the company had a problem.
She was unemployed.
The bitterness of love was not tasted, and the bitterness of unemployment came first.
She was 28 years old at the time, and her education was no advantage, and it was not too easy to find a job.
Without finding a suitable job in Chongqing, she returned to Jiangsu.
She knew it wasn't a homecoming.
This is Hu Hansan back.
She's 28 years old, and 28 is not small.
She didn't have a job and didn't have a boyfriend.
In the absence of either of these circumstances, make the parents feel like she is a waste!
Her mother resented that she was older and didn't have a boyfriend yet.
Unemployed, not earning money, still at home to eat old age.
It's so big, and it's so bad to let parents raise it.
Although my father did not say anything directly, he secretly supported his mother.
Because of this incident, she was not less criticized by her mother, and if she was slightly wrong, she would be beaten violently.
However, if the younger brother is not old, how can he not be beaten?
She was treated differently again.
She said she would look for a job and talk to her boyfriend.
As a result, after a year, the job has not been found, to be precise, it is not that it cannot be found, it is too tired for her to do it.
She couldn't find a good job.
As for the boyfriend, there has been no landing.
One is that she really does not have this mind, and the other is that there are few people in contact with her, where it is so easy to meet the right one.
However, her parents were really anxious, and even the neighbors began to talk about her.
The neighbor was speechless and said anything, and her mother was even more angry.
One day, her mother told her to go on a blind date.
Before going, her mother praised the other party as a fancy mess, and she was eager to let herself get married quickly.
Just marry this person.
However, after going there, she realized that she had been pit by her mother.
The other party is a divorced and nearly 40-year-old person.
She hadn't been married yet, and she didn't know what love tasted like. Are they now reduced to finding a 40-year-old man for a second marriage?
She had a hard time accepting this result.
She had never wanted to marry a man who was married twice and was so much bigger than herself.
This time on a blind date, she had a big opinion of her mother.
She felt insulted by her mother.
Back at home, she quarreled with her mother.
She was beaten by her mother again.
In her opinion, the mother just wanted to marry her off, as long as she was a man, as long as she married.
At least not to nibble on the old.
How undesirable it is to see yourself.
It made her think that her mother did not love herself since she was a child.
Her rebellious psychology is even greater, you let me marry, I will not marry.
A person is also very good, the law does not stipulate, a person must get married when he grows up?
The more anxious her mother was, the calmer she became.
The contradiction escalates again!
As long as the mother sees her daughter, she will be angry.
What should this daughter do? You can't live a lifetime without marrying, right?
Raise her for the rest of your life?
If the mother really doesn't care about her daughter at all, it certainly isn't.
But the gap between mother and daughter already exists.
The mother sees that her daughter has been unable to find a job, and the object is not concerned.
Just let her help in the restaurant, their family opened a restaurant, the business is not bad.
In fact, her daughter does not want to come here, work in the supermarket, work in the restaurant, she is not willing to do.
When she had to, she came to the restaurant to help her parents.
In the process of helping her parents, she quarreled with her parents, and when the quarrels were so bad, her mother beat her with a stick.
Sometimes, it is still guarded by the customer.
She no longer has any face.
The customer did not know, saw her was beaten badly, encountered this situation will quickly call the police.
Therefore, the police also know that the relationship between their mother and daughter is not good.
Finally, the contradiction escalated because it was 2019.
This year, Lin Xiaoxia was thirty years old, and she was still single.
"The cabbage has not yet been arched by the pig, and the parents are worried about rotting in the ground."
More importantly, at this time, my brother has a girlfriend and is about to get married.
The younger brother proposed to his mother that he wanted them to buy him a house.
You can't get married without a house, right?
As soon as the parents heard it, they were very happy, or the son was angry and arched someone else's cabbage.
It is a matter of course for a son to get married and buy a house.
They said yes.
Lin Xiaoxia heard that her parents wanted to buy a house for her brother, and she had an opinion.
Why only buy it for my brother?
She told her parents that if she bought a house for her brother, she would buy it for her as well. Are all children born to their parents, why only buy for their sons, is there a reason?
Her parents already had an opinion about her, she still wanted a house, how could it be?
Her mother told her that if you want a house, you can find someone to marry, and your husband will prepare a house for you.
However, Lin Xiaoxia wants her parents to buy it.
She's right now.
Either no one will buy it, or they will buy two sets.
It was because of this that her mother beat her up again.
This time it was heavy, harder than ever.
Lin Xiaoxia will never give in, even if she is beaten by her mother, she also insists on her own views.
To die is to be killed and to have a house.
Eventually, she was beaten to a second-degree disability by her mother.
After the results came out, her mother was detained for a month.
Lin Xiaoxia was seriously injured, and she had to see a doctor in the hospital, which was estimated to take a month.
Lin Xiaoxia's mother, because of her recklessness, received the punishment she deserved.
She was detained for a month.
Neither of them benefited, and they let the melon-eating masses talk about it.
Is this the result that mother and daughter want?
Obviously not.
Both of them need to reflect!
In the end, it can be said that both mother and daughter are at fault.
They should be aware of their mistakes.
First of all, Lin Xiaoxia, the legal obligation of parents is to raise children until the age of 18.
After the age of 18, parents have the ability to continue to raise children, and without ability, children can only rely on themselves.
Like Lin Xiaoxia, who is 30 years old, still at home and eating old, it is a bit unreasonable.
You can not marry, it is your freedom.
However, it is really a bit excessive to keep nibbling on the old and letting parents raise it.
At the very least, you should feed yourself!
In the eyes of parents, it is a very humiliating thing to eat old.
People in their 30s are people who have gone to college, understand everything, and chew on the old, which is difficult for parents to accept. Not only Lin Xiaoxia's parents, but also any parents will definitely not be able to accept it.
Therefore, it is not difficult to understand that her parents have opinions about her.
However, hitting the child is really wrong.
At no time, you should not hit a child, and hit so hard!
As for Lin Xiaoxia's parents preferring sons to daughters, this really shouldn't be, you know, it's the twenty-first century.
What age is it, and is it still patriarchal?
Is it any wonder that my daughter feels unbalanced?
This imbalance, which began when Lin Xiaoxia was young, is a psychological trauma for her daughter.
This kind of injury is deep into the bone marrow, why does the younger brother have it, and she can't have it?
Is she the child of the old king next door?
Therefore, as a parent, adopting a child, you should have a bowl of water.
Lin Xiaoxia became today's Lin Xiaoxia, which may be related to the growth environment.
Parents are responsible.
She was treated unfairly, and it kept her angry!
Finally, parents buy a house for their children, and if parents spend their own money and only buy it for their son, this is the right of parents. As a daughter, even if you don't agree, you can't influence your parents' thoughts.
It should be difficult to get an equal opportunity.
If you know that you can't change something, don't change it.
Or do you want to make yourself strong first, and feed yourself first?
Generally speaking, we should look up to better people, compare ourselves with better people, and make ourselves better, not worse, only in this way can we help us grow.
Right?
![In 2019, the female owner of a hotel in Jiangsu province was tortured and detained for copying iron rods: she was 30 years old and had not yet married[fig]](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAP///wAAACwAAAAAAQABAAACAkQBADs=)